That year, Chen Jiayan met Lian Yiming for the first time at a gathering in the same industry.
She noticed a tall boy standing in the crowd, slightly weak, and his expression seemed to reveal a little sadness.
That's Lian Yiming. The two chatted very speculatively, Chen Jiayan was gentle and considerate, and Lian Yiming was humorous.
In the time of a meeting, two hearts have been linked.
A month after acquaintance, Lian Yiming plucked up the courage to confess to Chen Jiayan. Chen Jiayan also expressed her feelings in her heart. As a result, the two quickly established a romantic relationship.
In the days that followed, they were inseparable, dating three or four times a week. Lian Yiming often makes her favorite pasta for Chen Jiayan, remembering all her taboos; Chen Jiayan will hum his favorite song softly when Lian Yiming is tired or unhappy.
Half a year later, Lian Yiming successfully proposed to Chen Jiayan, and the two finally became married. Soon after marriage, Chen Jiayan gave birth to a daughter for Lian Yiming. Those days were the sweetest time for their relationship.
Lian Yiming often invited Chen Jiayan to perform together and paved the way for her. During the filming of the drama "Wildfire Spring Breeze Fighting Ancient City", Lian Yiming was even more hands-off, not only serving as the director, but also leaving the heroine role to Chen Jiayan.
However, the good times did not last long, and when the two of them were in love, there were still cracks in their married life. That fire accident originally became an opportunity for their relationship to warm up, but later it became a fuse.
So, after three years, the two still chose to break up. At that time, the friends all lamented, and they did not expect that their love would come to an end.
After the divorce, Lian Yiming met an actor named Yang Ruoxi during the filming of the new drama "The Process of History". Yang Ruoxi has a cheerful and lively personality, and often takes the initiative to talk to Lian Yiming, who is still in frustration.
Her laughter seemed to spread sunshine in Lian Yiming's heart, and gradually, Lian Yiming was infected by Yang Ruoxi, and the two fell in love. After marriage, Yang Ruoxi chose to quit the showbiz in order to take care of their newborn son.
At this time, Lian Yiming's work was not as hot as before, and his body began to age. Fortunately, his son was by his side, so that his life was still fulfilling.
At the same time, Chen Jiayan decided to raise the daughter of two on her own. She worked and filmed during the day to earn money to support her family, and when she came home at night, she had to tutor her daughter in her homework. The weight of life made her very harsh.
The daughter understands that it is not easy for her mother, and she does her best to help her mother share her worries and become a reassuring pill in her mother's life. Gradually, under the care of her daughter, Chen Jiayan got through the most difficult days, regained her strength, and not only did her work go well, but also found golf as a pastime.
When her friends saw her radiant face, they thought she had started a new relationship.
Today, after 13 years of divorce, Lian Yiming and Chen Jiayan's lives have no intersection.
Lian Yiming was sitting in his yard at the moment, watching his son run back and forth on horseback, and couldn't help but sigh that time had passed. Gray hair had grown on the top of his head, and his face was covered with traces of wind and frost.
The focus of his life has shifted to his family, and he seems to have gradually left behind the glory of his film career, and he is with his son all day long. Occasionally go out to visit old friends, but I can't lift my spirits to say a few words.
And Chen Jiayan, who is thousands of miles away, is talking about interesting things about golf with her confidants at this time. A youthful and energetic sportswear with a smile on his face.
Living alone has not worn out her sharpness in the slightest, and the connections she has accumulated over the years of her acting career have now become her precious spiritual sustenance. The golf course is her second battleground.
"Lian Yiming and Chen Jiayan have been divorced for 13 years, and their lives are too different" is the core point of view that is the theme of the article at the beginning. It points to the fact that the two have very different life states and lifestyles after years of divorce, in short, one finds solace at home and the other lives to the fullest in their careers.
Where does this difference come from? In fact, it is the result of two different life values and life pursuits. Lian Yiming attaches more importance to family relationships and chooses to play the role of a good husband and father.
Chen Jiayan is more independent and grasps the initiative in career and life. Therefore, the former looks for a sense of stability in their children, and the latter finds contentment and happiness in life.
This difference reflects two different attitudes to life and identities. We can't say which option is better, only the best one that suits you. But what is certain is that the gap between the two will continue to widen.
The good times they had together now seem so far away.
At this point in the story, we can't help but reflect on what led to the ending of Lian Yiming and Chen Jiayan from a match made in heaven to their final separation?
Is it that life has smoothed out the love passion between the two people? Or is the original interest difficult to last? Or is there really an irreconcilable difference between the two people? The answers to these questions are impossible to verify.
But there is one thing that married life is far from being as beautiful and easy as when you are in love, and both husband and wife need to work together to manage this life well. Communication and mutual understanding are crucial.
Today, they are no strangers. But this also enlightens us: on the road of our own life, we can't give up easily because of misunderstandings and disputes. Every relationship deserves a chance to start over.
At the moment, the most important thing is to cherish the people in front of you, look back at the past more, and empathize to understand the other person's choice. Maybe with this mood, we can finally walk through the unknown wind, frost, rain and snow in this life together.