Inner Mongolia girl Chen Jiayan enrolled in Chinese opera
Chen Jiayan, who was born in Hohhot, Inner Mongolia, in the autumn of 1981, came from a wealthy family whose father was a police officer in Inner Mongolia. The Chen family originally hoped that Chen Jiayan would inherit her father's business and join the police force in the future.
But at the age of 16, Chen Jiayan, who has a straightforward and straightforward personality, was admitted to the Central Academy of Drama, the most famous acting school in China. Bringing together some of China's best acting talents, Chen Jiayan has become classmates with future movie superstar Chen Hao and famous actor Jia Yiping.
When she first entered the school, Chen Jiayan, who had not systematically learned Xi acting knowledge, had some inferiority complex, and once retreated in the face of famous schools and star classmates. But soon, Chen Jiayan's natural potential as an actor and her diligent and hard-working Xi attitude made Chen Jiayan, who was still young, grow rapidly in Chinese opera and transform into an excellent performing arts student.
Acting experience grows into an independent woman
When she was a sophomore in Chinese opera, Chen Jiayan began her acting career and entered the crew to shoot her first TV series. At first, the strict director often criticized the immature Chen Jiayan, who was once confused and questioned whether she was not suitable to be an actress.
But after careful consideration, Chen Jiayan is determined to persevere, actively absorbing the opinions of directors and senior actors in every shooting, and constantly summarizing and improving her acting skills.
From the beginning of the shared apartment in Beijing, Chen Jiayan moved to a two-bedroom apartment with her own efforts, and then became a homeowner with the ability to buy a house. After starring in many film and television works, 23-year-old Chen Jiayan is already a powerful young actor, and is completely financially self-reliant and no longer relies on family support.
With her own efforts step by step, Chen Jiayan has gained a firm foothold in the entertainment industry and grown into an actress in her own right.
met Lian Yiming, and love came suddenly
In the summer of 2004, 23-year-old Chen Jiayan met 31-year-old actor Lian Yiming at a party. Although the two had met once or twice before, they both glanced at each other in a hurry and left no impression.
This time, Chen Jiayan was attracted by Lian Yiming's humorous and sincere personality, and Lian Yiming was deeply moved by Chen Jiayan's vigor and enthusiasm. After the party, they left each other's contact information and agreed to meet again when they returned to Beijing.
At first, the two just wanted to be friends, but the more they met and chatted, their relationship quickly warmed up, and they soon confirmed their relationship. Chen Jiayan has a straightforward and generous personality, and she is very close to Lian Yiming, and the two often walk hand in hand in Tongtianyuan to the Asian Games Village to taste the sweet time of love.
The relationship came suddenly but progressed quickly, and they soon donned the couple ring, symbolizing the hope for a better future and the eternal commitment to love.
got married quickly and cooperated in filming
Chen Jiayan and Lian Yiming's relationship is progressing rapidly, from acquaintance to establishing a relationship to discussing marriage, the whole process is just over a year. In December 2009, Chen Jiayan married Lian Yiming, and the newlyweds even omitted the wedding and went directly to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register their marriage.
Soon after marriage, Lian Yiming decided to adapt the classic movie "Wildfire Spring Breeze Fighting Ancient City" into a TV series, and he found Chen Jiayan to play the heroine. The two worked together as husband and wife for the first time, and Chen Jiayan found that the director's husband was extremely attentive to every detail of every shot, taking care of every actor, and she was sincerely relieved and proud to see his patient and professional work attitude.
Once there was a fire on the set, Lian Yiming rushed in to save the priceless props as soon as possible, regardless of his safety, Chen Jiayan dragged him out of the fire in distress and funny, feeling his love and devotion to his career.
The two have a very happy cooperation, which also sublimates their relationship at work and makes their life more satisfying.
Incompatible temper leads to divorce
However, the good married life did not last long. In 2011, Chen Jiayan and Lian Yiming, who had been married for only two years, broke the news of their divorce. According to insiders, both of them are people with strong personalities, and they often quarrel when they disagree, and they often quarrel.
Once Lian Yiming first filed for divorce during a quarrel, and the excited Chen Jiayan directly bought a ticket to take refuge abroad, and the husband and wife had a cold war for a long time. After the cooling of time, they rethought and finally reached a consensus to end the marriage with divorce.
At the time of the divorce, Lian Yiming was very reasonable, leaving all the real estate and savings jointly owned by the two to Chen Jiayan, and agreed that the children would live with Chen Jiayan. Undoubtedly, Chen Jiayan and Lian Yiming once loved each other deeply, but the resentment accumulated by long-term temper disagreement finally wiped out love.
Despite the pity, this is perhaps the best choice for the two.
has a successful career, but it is difficult to raise a baby
After the divorce, Chen Jiayan did not fall into too many emotional troughs. As an actress with a successful career, she continues to be active in the entertainment industry, hosting shows and filming dramas one after another.
The frustration of her love life has not affected Chen Jiayan's career development, and she is still a popular and well-known actor. However, raising a daughter who is still in elementary school on her own is a huge challenge for Chen Jiayan.
She doesn't want her children to be negatively affected by the divorced family, so she carefully plans her daughter's life and thinks about her everywhere. However, the daughter gradually entered a rebellious period, and there were often disagreements and arguments between the mother and daughter.
Chen Jiayan needs to take time to resolve conflicts, but she is also very busy at work and often feels overwhelmed. In order to take care of her daughter, Chen Jiayan reduced her social activities and significantly narrowed her life circle.
However, she does not regret putting all her energy into her daughter's growth, as long as she can grow up healthy and happy, as a mother, she is willing to give everything.
The ex-husband remarried, and the two eventually became passers-by
In 2011, after divorcing Chen Jiayan, Lian Yiming remarried actor Yang Ruoxi. Interestingly, Yang Ruoxi had a relationship with actor Liu Wei, who had collaborated with Lian Yiming in a TV series.
The emotional path of life is full of ups and downs, and it is really difficult to predict. Chen Jiayan and Lian Yiming also experienced a sweet love time, but finally broke up.
Throughout those years, they were first important confidants in each other's lives, then partners in life together, and finally they could only become passers-by. Maybe they will miss the good bits and pieces of the past, but they should also be brave to look forward and start a new chapter in life.
Love is not the whole of life, as long as you have it, it is the most valuable wealth in this life.
Chen Jiayan and Lian Yiming's married life reflects the bits and pieces that many ordinary people will also experience: from meeting and knowing each other to falling in love quickly, from sweet marriage to quarreling due to incompatible tempers, from falling in love with each other to finally divorced.
Their stories are not unusual, but they are worth pondering. Love comes and goes quickly, and marriage requires cooperation and unremitting efforts from both parties. Life inevitably stumbles, and only by being considerate of each other and communicating openly can we get through it.
Chen Jiayan bravely faced the change, actively engaged in work and took care of her daughter, and her optimism and strength are worth learning Xi. You can't be satisfied with everything in life, but as long as you face it positively, you will definitely bloom your own flowers.
I believe that Chen Jiayan will be able to achieve a new peak in her career and establish a deep mother-daughter relationship with her daughter. Her story conveys a positive and enterprising attitude towards life.