A few days ago, there was a video that went viral on the Internet, the video showed a young father washing dishes in the kitchen, and the sweet-looking daughter's big and round eyes rolled her eyes at her mother and asked loudly: "Why does Dad have to wash dishes when he comes back from work?"
The mother retorted to her daughter: "Who said you can't wash the dishes when you come back from work?
The mother's words were quickly pushed back by the little girl: "I really don't know why I marry a wife?"
The little girl was already very excessive in terms of attitude and tone, but her father was still silent, but her mother was not angry at all, and her voice was full of doting: "Of course marrying a wife is giving birth to you!"
In the era of the rise of short videos, if it is normal to shoot this kind of funny video in order to attract attention, I am happy, and the audience is happy to listen to it, which is understandable.
But then the little girl who was arranged to have her lines annoyed netizens, and she said skillfully: "It seems that I will study hard in the future Xi... Otherwise, when you grow up, you will only be a hen like you who can only lay eggs!"
From the tone to the expression, he looked down on his mother, and it can be seen from the slapstick behind the video that his mother was pretending to be angry, while his father still didn't say a word.
The video went viral on the Internet, garnering 1.47 million likes, with the first comments all taking the video as a joke, and some people said that the mother was "a courier." ”
It is estimated that there are more men who like it, this daughter knows how to feel sorry for her father too well, not only does she not let him work, but also praises his status at home.
Having a daughter in such a small padded jacket facing him is a thing that his father is very proud of, but what about his mother, in order to cooperate with the acting, not only does her husband ignore her daughter so much and look down on herself, but also takes the initiative to trample herself on the soles of her feet.
It's 2020, and he actually said that he was a delivery person after all.
I went to see this owner last night.,This video that says "Mom is a hen that only lays eggs" is estimated to have been scolded very much.,The original video has now been deleted.,And many other videos in the account are also demeaning to mother.,It's very uncomfortable to watch.。
One of the videos is about the girl's mother complaining that her dad has been getting angry at every turn lately and doesn't know what to do.
The little girl replied solemnly: "I never made more than one friend at school." ”
Mom asked, "What do you mean?"
The daughter said, "Won't you find me a few more dads?" ”
These words came from the mouth of an eight or nine-year-old girl, isn't it too shocking. Does she understand the meaning of the words? I don't think I understand it, it's obviously a line that has been arranged.
What kind of parents are so sick in the brain that they actually want to teach their children to say this, in order to attract attention, is there such a bottom line? From the video, it can be seen that the little girl looks very sweet, maybe she can really be a star in the future? If one day she becomes popular and digs up these videos all over the world, how should she face it?
Go and watch all kinds of short videos, and you will find that there are really a lot of children who look down on their mothers like this, such as the following magical scene of the father and daughter: First, the girl's mother posted a video to the Internet complaining that the father and daughter of the family lay down on the sofa after eating, and did nothing else except play with their mobile phones and watch TV.
The daughter, who was about 15 years old, rested her head on her father's lap and looked up to ask her mother if she had any problems. ”
The daughter also emphasized the "foreign surname" again, and the father who played with the mobile phone was smiling, not only did not blame the daughter who looked down on her mother so much, but also did not maintain the appearance of his wife, and was completely proud to enjoy it.
The daughter is so old, it is impossible not to understand the meaning of this word, she can only say that she does not feel that this is inappropriate in her concept, nor does she feel that it will hurt her mother.
I don't know what the mother who spread this video on the Internet thinks, does she agree with her daughter's words, or does she think that it is just acting, and there is no need to be more serious. Anyway, as a mother of two children, I was very uncomfortable after watching it, and if my children said this about me, whether it was a joke or not, I couldn't accept it.
If Lao He allowed the child to look down on me and laugh at me so much, I would turn my face as soon as possible, and I would never forgive.
It seems to me that a father will only allow his children to be so disrespectful to their mothers if they agree with such a concept, and such a husband needs a nanny, not a wife.
Seeing these magical videos, I remembered that I had received a confiding before:
Yuzu's husband made enough money for the family, but her parents-in-law were reluctant to take care of the children, and she was reluctant to hand them over to the nanny, so she chose to be a housewife.
Once, Yuzu's family of three went shopping with her mother-in-law and sister-in-law, and her twelve-year-old daughter took a fancy to a brand bag, which cost 4,000 yuan after the discount. The mother-in-law and sister-in-law praised the good looks and star style one by one, and the husband took out the card and prepared to swipe it.
Yuzu felt that neither the style nor the price was suitable for the child, and her husband immediately put away the card with his wife.
The daughter's tone was very disdainful: "My family's money is earned by my father, why can you buy a lot of bags, but I can't?"
Subsequently, the daughter went to hold her father high, and Yuzu's husband obediently swiped the card to pay.
There are many similar things, and the daughter either dislikes her mother's handiwork and is not good-looking, or she doesn't know anything other than housework, which is old-fashioned.
And whenever this happens, Yuzu's husband not only did not educate his daughter to respect her mother, but followed her to laugh at Yuzu, so angry that she could only secretly wipe her tears.
Finally, after Yuzu found out about her husband's flirtatious WeChat record, she had a big quarrel and wanted to divorce, but her husband still looked disdainful: "You eat me, wear me, use mine, divorce will you drink the northwest wind?"
Yuzu, who has no confidence, did not divorce in the end, but the resentment in his stomach has accumulated more and more, and now he complains about whoever he catches, and many people around him avoid it.
Yuzu, who is not bad for money, can't understand how he can live his life into a state where he can't live without it, and he can't live a good life.
After reading an article by the well-known writer Li Xiaoyi, when the primary school teacher was correcting the homework, he found that some students said that they wanted to be like their father the most, and they could inherit his business in the future and create value for more people.
The child also said that if I didn't learn the real skills, I would have to be like my mother and go back to open a cake shop with her.
When the teacher found the student and asked him why he was so disrespectful to his mother, the student replied in surprise: "Teacher, our whole family talks to my mother like this, and she is not upset or disrespected." My dad also said that he "doesn't cheat when he buys a bag for money", and he is a standard good husband. ”
The teacher also found the child's mother, and after seeing her son's essay, the mother said to the teacher: "I taught my child to respect others, but I did not teach him to be considerate of his own mother; ”
I very much agree with Ms. Li Xiaoyi's point of view, the child's attitude towards the mother is the husband's attitude towards the wife, when the husband respects the wife, the child will understand the hard work of the mother's parenting and education.
On the contrary, the husband looks down on his wife, and the child will not respect his mother, and even despise his mother.
And most importantly, if even women themselves despise themselves and label themselves as useless, then who can be expected to respect them?