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My name is Li Qing, I am two years old Chinese New Year's Eve today, and I am married to my college classmate, Zhang Hao. We live in a small city in the north, plain, but happy. Zhang Hao's home is well-known in the city, his parents are retired teachers, and his life is stable and comfortable.
During this year's Spring Festival, the house suddenly exploded. Uncle, Zhang Hao's younger brother Zhang Peng, suddenly announced the news of marriage. His fiancée is one of our influencers here, beautiful and moving, but also a symbol of high spending in the eyes of everyone.
"Li Qing, look at how many things our family has to prepare for this marriage, we have to have a suite as a dowry, right?"
I was stunned for a moment, "Mom, this... I haven't heard of this Xi. ”
The mother-in-law smiled, "Isn't it popular for young people to get married now? You see that Zhang Peng is married to an Internet celebrity, and our family must have a decent expression." ”
I don't feel good about it. When I got married, my family gave me some household appliances, and the Zhang family didn't mention any dowry. And now, for Zhang Peng's marriage, it seems to have changed.
In the evening, Zhang Hao came back, and I told him about it. "Hey, that's a bit too much. He was also a little distressed, "I'll go talk to my parents." ”
Unexpectedly, early the next morning, my mother-in-law summoned everyone to the living room for a meeting.
"This time Xiaopeng got married, our family should have a good expression. I looked and there was a nice new neighborhood in the city center, just right for young people. The mother-in-law said confidently.
"Mom, but this burden is a bit heavy. Zhang Hao tried to persuade.
"It's okay, we can use Li Qingniang's suite. My mother-in-law looked at me, "Li Qing, you have to go and talk to your parents about this." ”
I was stunned, it was incredible. My family's house was bought by my parents with their life savings, how can I say that I will give it away?
"Mom, it's not appropriate, it's my parents' hard work. "I tried my best to stay calm.
"Oh, what's wrong with this, isn't it all family. The mother-in-law didn't care.
At this time, Zhang Peng and his fiancée also joined the conversation. "Yes, sister, this is a blessing to us, you should be a little brother. Zhang Peng said arrogantly.
I looked at Zhang Hao, hoping that he would stand up and say something. But he seemed embarrassed and didn't say a word.
Over the next few days, the atmosphere at home became more and more tense. I began to reflect on whether there were some problems with my marriage to Zhang Hao?
In this atmosphere, the footsteps of the Spring Festival are getting closer and closer, Zhang Peng's wedding
The preparations are also getting more and more lively. On the eve of the wedding, many relatives came to the house, and my house became a topic of conversation after dinner. Whenever this topic is brought up, I feel an indescribable pressure and embarrassment.
Zhang Hao's cousin, Li Hua, saw that I was uncomfortable. "Li Qing, what's wrong with you? Li Hua asked with concern.
I hesitated, but finally confided in her my distress. "It's because my mother-in-law asked my family to leave the house, and I feel very embarrassed. ”
After Li Hua heard this, his brows tightened. "Well, it's really hard to do. But you can't just accommodate them, after all, it's your parents' hard-earned money. ”
"I also know, but I don't want to affect my relationship with Zhang Hao because of this incident. I sighed.
Li Hua patted me on the shoulder, "You have to have your own position, you can't always be weak." ”
At this moment, Zhang Hao walked in. "What are you talking about?" he said, looking nervous.
"It's nothing, it's just talking about family life. Li Hua replied.
In the next few days, preparations for the wedding were in full swing. Zhang Peng and his fiancée were busy, and I felt like an outsider, being left out in the family business.
The day before the wedding, I decided to talk to my parents about it. I called them and briefly recounted the situation.
"Qingqing, you have to stand your ground in this matter. That house is our life's savings, and we can't just give it away. Dad's voice was firm and serious.
"I know, Mom and Dad, I'll take care of it. "I try my best to make my voice sound strong.
On the wedding day, Zhang Peng and his fiancée became the other half of their lives with the blessing of everyone. At the wedding, I saw a lot of luxurious scenes and expensive gifts that I had never seen before, and it made me feel a deep gap.
At the dinner, my mother-in-law mentioned my family's house in front of everyone. "Our family Li Qing is really a generous daughter-in-law, and she is going to give her mother's house as a gift to Xiaopeng and Xiaowan. ”
All eyes fell on me, and I felt more pressure than ever. I stood up and took a deep breath. "Dear guys, today is a day of celebration, and I don't want my affairs to affect this joy. But I must clarify one thing, regarding the house mentioned by my mother-in-law, it was the brainchild of my parents, and I have no right to make such a decision. ”
There was silence at the scene, and everyone's expressions were different. Zhang Hao looked at me, a trace of complicated emotions flashed in his eyes.
"What we should celebrate today is the happiness of Xiaopeng and Xiaowan, I don't
Hopefully, my words have affected this joy, and I just want to say that I bless them. I ended my speech with a smile and sat down.
The atmosphere of the next dinner was a little awkward, but I felt a sense of relief that I had never felt before. Zhang Hao pulled me aside after the dinner.
"Li Qing, I'm sorry, I didn't stand on your side before. He looked a little guilty.
"It's okay, I know you're having a hard time too. I comforted him.
"But I should support you, I know you're right. Zhang Hao held my hand tightly.
A few days after the dinner, the atmosphere at home became more subtle. Although the mother-in-law did not mention the house again, her attitude became obviously cold. Zhang Peng and his wife, Xiaowan, rarely communicate with me.
This afternoon, while I was cooking at home, the doorbell rang. I went to open the door and found that it was Li Hua.
"Li Qing, I heard about last night's incident. When she entered, she said bluntly.
"yes, I just told the truth. I replied with a wry smile.
"You're doing the right thing. But I think you and Zhang Hao need to have a good talk, this matter has obviously affected your relationship. Li Hua said seriously.
I nodded, "I know, I'll find a chance to talk to him." ”
At dinner, Zhang Hao came back earlier than usual. At the dinner table, we were all silent, and the atmosphere was a little depressing.
After the meal, I plucked up my courage and said to Zhang Hao, "Can we talk?"
We sat on the couch in the living room and I began to say how I felt. "Zhang Hao, I feel that since this incident, there has been a gap between us. I don't want this to affect our relationship. ”
Zhang Hao was silent for a while, and then said, "I know, I feel it too." I feel like we all need to reflect, especially me, I didn't support you at a critical moment. ”
"But it's not just about supporting or not supporting," I continued, "it's about how we, as a family, face external pressures and challenges." ”
"You're right. Zhang Hao nodded, "I think we need to face these problems together, instead of fighting separately." ”
Over the next few days, we began to communicate more and discuss the future of our marriage and family. These conversations, while sometimes difficult, are necessary.
Just as we were trying to mend our relationship, my mother-in-law suddenly found us and her attitude changed a lot.
"Li Qing, I want to apologize to you. The mother-in-law looked a little embarrassed, "I asked too much of you before, and I didn't take your feelings into account." ”
I was a little surprised, but also relieved. "Mom, thank you for saying that, and I don't want to hurt our relationship because of this. ”
The mother-in-law nodded, "I also reflected, we are a family, and we should support each other, not oppress each other." ”
It was a difficult experience, but it was a turning point in our family relationship. The relationship between Zhang Hao and me is because of this candleness
dialogue and stronger. We began to think seriously about how to deal with conflicts within the family and how to better support each other.
A few days later, Zhang Hao made a suggestion: "We should start planning for our future, instead of always being tied up in family affairs." ”
"What do you mean?" I asked curiously.
"We could consider moving out and starting our own little family. Zhang Hao's eyes flashed with anticipation.
This offer made me both excited and nervous. Moving out means that we will be independent of our original family structure, which is a fresh start for us.
"I think it's a good idea. I nodded, "We need to have our own space and build our own lives." ”
After deciding to move, we started to get busy. Find the right house and handle all aspects of relocation. In the process, our relationship has become stronger as we face life's challenges together.
We ended up choosing a neighborhood that wasn't far from where we worked. It is a pleasant environment with easy access to transportation, which is very suitable for young couples.
On the day of the move, I felt an indescribable excitement and nervousness. When we moved the last box of things into our new home, Zhang Hao hugged me tightly: "This is our new starting point, Li Qing." ”
The new home gives us more personal space and freedom. We started experimenting with new ways of living, such as cooking together, decorating our homes together, and even planning for the future together.
On the first weekend in our new home, we invited Li Hua and a few other friends to our house for a party. Everyone gathered in our new home and the atmosphere was very pleasant.
"It's a great decision. Li Hua said to me at the party, "I can see that your relationship is stronger." ”
"Yes, it feels like everything is going in a good direction. I responded with a smile.
After the party, Zhang Hao and I sat on the balcony and looked at the night sky. "You know, I feel like our lives have changed for the better since we moved here. Zhang Hao said.
"yes, I feel the same way. Our relationships, our way of life, and even our outlook on the future have changed dramatically. "I leaned on his shoulder.
"I think that's growing up, we learn how to live better, how to love each other better. Zhang Hao held my hand.
A few weeks later, my mother-in-law came to our new home. She looked around with a satisfied smile on her face. "I'm glad you've found your way of life. ”
"Thank you Mom, we are also very satisfied. I replied.
"Actually, I'm here for another purpose. The mother-in-law said, taking out an envelope from her bag. "It's some money, not much, but I want to do it as a little support for your new life. ”
Zhang Hao and I were both surprised. "Mom, this is not needed, we can handle it ourselves. Zhang Hao said.
"I know, but that's what I want. The mother-in-law insisted.
At this moment, I felt a warmth that I had never felt before
Warmth and harmony of the family. This act of my mother-in-law is not only a support for our new life, but also a recognition of us as an independent unit.
I took the envelope with gratitude. "Thank you, Mom, we'll put the money to good use. ”
The mother-in-law smiled, her eyes seemed to be a little moist. "I also learned a lot. As a parent, sometimes letting go is also a form of love. I am relieved to see you so happy. ”
After my mother-in-law left, Zhang Hao and I sat in the living room, quietly thinking about the changes that have changed during this time.
"You know, I feel like we're understanding each other better now than we've ever been. Zhang Hao held my hand and said.
"Yes, I feel the same way. We went through so much, but in the end we got stronger. I leaned on his shoulder.
In the days that followed, we entered a whole new phase in our lives. We started planning for the future, including career development, family plans, and even travel plans. Every discussion and planning brings us closer.
One night, we were planning a future trip in our living room. Zhang Hao suddenly put down his pen and looked at me seriously: "Li Qing, have you thought that we will have children in the future?"
This question stunned me for a moment. While we've touched on this topic vaguely, we've never really discussed it in depth.
"I... Of course I thought about it. But I'm also a little worried, worried about whether we're ready, about the challenges ahead. "I'll be honest.
"I share the same concerns," Mr. Zhang said, "but I believe that no matter what difficulties we encounter, as long as we are together, we can overcome them." ”
"I believe that too. I smiled in response.
As time passed, we began to prepare for the welcome of a new member of the family. During this time, we also learned how to balance work and family life, and how to find time for both of us in our busy schedules.
Our relationship matures in these everyday moments. We are no longer the young couple who were full of illusions about life but lack of experience when we first got married, but have grown into partners who can face life's challenges together.
One day, we received an invitation from Zhang Peng and Xiaowan, who invited us to their home. It was the first time we had been to their house since the wedding.
When we arrived at Zhang Peng's house, we found that their lives had also changed a lot. Xiaowan is pregnant, and Zhang Peng has become more mature and responsible.
At the dinner table, Zhang Peng said to us: "Li Qing, Zhang Hao, I want to say thank you." Your words at my wedding made me reflect deeply on my own actions. Now, I want to be a better husband and father to my upcoming children. ”
I was very relieved to hear that. It seems that everyone in our family is going through growth and change.
After dinner, we sat in the living room
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