In a drama performance, the "sexual gaze" suffered by Huang Duoduo is vividly reflected in her
Relying on the influence of the star himself, many second-generation stars who have not yet entered the showbiz have gained a lot of attention.
At the end of November, He Jiong took Huang Lei's eldest daughter Huang Duoduo to participate in the drama, it is obvious that Huang Duoduo is also ready to engage in acting work, and this drama performance can also show her talent in this field.
On the same day, Huang Duoduo wore a plain costume, a simple bamboo leaf printed skirt, and then a navy blue knitted jacket, showing gentleness in every move.
You must know that Huang Duoduo is only 17 years old, and at this age, she can show a confident state on the stage, and she will not lose her style in the same frame as He Jiong, which shows how suitable she is for the entertainment industry.
It's just that I didn't expect that Huang Duoduo, who performed brilliantly, did not get the applause and praise he deserved, but on the contrary, the public opinion that was so loud pushed a 17-year-old child into the harm of "sexual gaze".
0? In fact, Huang Duoduo's costumes in this drama performance are very conservative and traditional, with normal skirts and coats, the costume style is not even youthful, and even a little old-fashioned, but in the face of such a shape, many netizens' comments have obvious sexual gazes.
"Huang Duoduo is obviously only a teenager, why does she always have a sense of being a wife", "If you have seen too many men, it is easy to mature", "I have a lot of fun abroad", "I opened melons relatively early", "Don't you know that she is already a wife?"
Netizens just relied on a simple drama model, and began to make up for Huang Duoduo's emotional energy, guessing her private life, there seems to be no particularly spicy and foul-smelling insults between the lines, but there is malice towards a girl everywhere.
You have to ask the netizens who said these words on what basis? It's just because of a relatively conservative and mature drama style.
As an interpreter, it is appropriate to be evaluated. But whether it is a negative evaluation or a positive affirmation, it should not be a groundless conjecture about Huang Duoduo's private words.
You can say "This outfit is too mature and old-fashioned for Huang Duoduo", or you can say "Huang Duoduo's ability to control is so strong, and he has a sense of time at a young age", but you just can't put words like "wife" and "I've seen too many men" on a woman.
What's even more terrifying is that when most people realize how hateful the sexual gaze of netizens and public opinion is on Huang Duoduo, everyone's first reaction is "She is only 17 years old".
When a woman's age becomes a rationalization of the sexual gaze, whether she is 17 years old or 27,37, she should not be judged on character and private life because of a set of looks.
The drama stage itself needs actors to do a suitable shape for the role, and for the role, Huang Duoduo challenged a set of looks that are slightly gentle for her age, and Huang Duoduo in life is generous, confident, and bright and sunny.
In the photos of Huang Duoduo on social platforms in the past, you will find that she grew up in an environment where she was respected and loved.
Healthy sun-colored skin, a simple and sunny camisole, a one-piece swimsuit on the beach by the sea, and a quirky cute expression of the elf.
Sunny, confident, energetic, under normal sight, what netizens should see should be a lively girl who is quite harmonious with American liberal culture.
But some public opinion has risen to the point of "periphery", "rubbing edges", and "chaotic relations between men and women", and even Huang Lei, as a father, has become the object of criticism from netizens.
But think about it, the educational philosophy that Huang Lei and his wife respond to in front of the media is full of tolerance and understanding for children.
Under their educational concept, it is the nature of children to love beauty, and perming, dyeing, and dressing up are just the pursuit of beauty by normal little girls. They were tolerant of everything that reasoned and didn't feel like it was something to be discussed by the public.
The same example can also be found in Li Yapeng's daughter Li Yan.
Li Yan has never planned to enter the entertainment industry, but because her parents are public figures, she is often noticed by netizens. Once, she posted a bikini photo of herself on the beach on social platforms, and the girl in the photo was confident and sunny with a good figure, but few people praised her for her white skin and beauty, but there were countless attacking voices.
"Problem girl", "too exposed", wearing a bikini on a seaside vacation was severely judged by netizens, no one paid attention to the fact that Li Yan in her daily state is also an ordinary girl, and no one noticed that "wearing a bikini" and "not studying well" are not directly related and inevitably connected.
Also aroused heated discussions is Yu Chengqing's son Harry, Harry's usual style is actually very niche, Yu Chengqing has also publicly responded to Harry's love of wearing women's clothes, from the perspective of Yu Chengqing's father, he fully affirms his son's hobby.
He wants his children to be healthy and happy more than behaviors that most people don't understand, and he believes that "if he wants to do this, he must have his thoughts."
Even Harry's mother, Yi Nengjing, once expressed her parenting concept in front of the media: "I will give him all his freedom, he will be himself".
Netizens can't deny that Harry in women's clothes has caused so many onlookers and abuse, but he is still very good, among his peers, he can write lyrics, write songs, dance, he can design his own clothes, and be admitted to top design universities.
Girls can love beauty, boys can love beauty, I have the freedom to like Ultraman, and I also have the freedom to fall in love with Barbie, regardless of gender, regardless of age.
When many second-generation stars enjoy their lives and share their lives, of course, netizens can freely evaluate, but whether it is a positive evaluation or a negative evaluation, please do not mix it with non-objective sexual gaze, malicious personality insults, and hearsay rumors.
Of course, the open-ended educational philosophy of parents such as Huang Duoduo and Li Yan does not mean that some more conservative and strict education methods are wrong.
What we want to pursue is upward freedom, not downward freedom, and when a group of children enjoy the sunshine wantonly, dark evaluations should not exist.
It's a pity that the public opinion environment is like this, whether it is right or wrong, those objectively existing voices have already caused invisible damage to Huang Duoduo.
Perhaps the malicious sexual gaze of the moment is vividly presented on Huang Duoduo, and this kind of voice will become less and less in the future, until it disappears.
Finally, let's look forward to the improvement of the public opinion environment, and look forward to the day when "sexual gaze" will be taken seriously and widely criticized.