After 6 years, I realized that it was not He Jie who made Zhang Xinyu live as a "fairy", but herself
If you use one word to describe the current Zhang Xinyu, it is:
"The present world is stable, and the years are quiet."
Many people say that it is because she married He Jie that she lives like a "fairy" today.
As everyone knows, He Jie is the icing on the cake for Zhang Xinyu, and it is actually herself who really supports Zhang Xinyu to get to where she is today.
01 Others are busy competing in the entertainment industry, but she is the only one who shines silently in a quiet corner.
To say that the entertainment industry in 2023 seems to be calm, but in fact, there are undercurrents.
Especially for the current environment, the competition between female stars is particularly fierce.
When female celebrities "compete for beauty" at various dinners, cocktail parties, and red carpets, Zhang Xinyu seems to be extremely sober and calm.
And it is this kind of sobriety and calmness that makes today's Zhang Xinyu more and more calm and beautiful.
Let's take a look at her recent developments:
Either it is a trip to feel the great rivers and mountains of the motherland;
Either share your daily life and post your happy moments with stray cats;
Either it is to take care of your own garden, raise flowers, grow vegetables, and harvest fruits;
The only thing that makes people feel that she is still a "female star", except for the occasional event endorsement, is that she posts beautiful photos taken by herself.
Many people may wonder: Is she not popular anymore?
After all, compared with other female celebrities who work hard to maintain their popularity, today's Zhang Xinyu is too low-key and too Buddhist.
Even her fans began to worry about Zhang Xinyu, feeling that she was too "indisputable" now, for fear that she would forget to engage in her career.
But for Zhang Xinyu, the current moment is probably her most comfortable and beautiful moment.
In her words: Wind and sun, free.
Desire, if blindly indulged, will be endless.
Wealth, if you blindly seek luxury, will only fall into greed.
Only when you really see your heart clearly and know what you want will you keep your inner peace and calm in this noisy world.
Just like Zhang Xinyu now, now she can travel by car, sighing the most beautiful scenery, always on the road;
You can also put down work, accompany your mother, and go to see the most beautiful sunset by the sea;
You can also stay at home every day and spend quiet time with the furry children at home;
This kind of Zhang Xinyu, although not as enthusiastic as before, is not as starry as before.
But I feel that now she has become a free "fairy".
She is no longer worried about fame, no longer worried about "whether she is popular or not", and she is not afraid of external eyes, she only focuses on being herself, such a woman is truly free and powerful.
Seeing Zhang Xinyu like this, many people will definitely sigh that she is "marrying and changing her life".
thinks that it is because she married He Jie and has lifelong dependence that she will be so free and easy now.
But if all the credit is attributed to a man, it is the biggest misunderstanding of Zhang Xinyu.
Because if you really know her, you have seen how she got out of the "black material" crisis and survived all the difficulties.
You will understand that it is not He Jie who really made Zhang Xinyu what she is today, but herself.
In the words of Nietzsche: Whatever does not kill me will make me stronger.
This is very suitable for Zhang Xinyu.
02 It's not that she doesn't understand the world, but after seeing the world clearly, she chooses to be herself forever.
Looking at female stars in the entertainment industry, everyone who stands on the pyramid and shines has their own history of blood and tears behind them.
Even if you have great resources and a deep background, you still have to accept the scrutiny and criticism of public opinion.
The blessed ones are still like this, not to mention Zhang Xinyu, who "stumbled into the industry by mistake".
Looking back at Zhang Xinyu, who has just entered the industry, her only advantage is her beauty and figure.
's outstanding beauty has become her passport to the entertainment industry, and it has also become a handle that will be "criticized" in the future.
The world knows that she is beautiful and agrees that she is beautiful, but they are jealous of the preferential treatment given to her by "beauty".
Human nature has always been like this, we always like to take the success of others so easily, or attribute it to luck, but deliberately ignore the efforts and efforts behind others.
Take Zhang Xinyu as an example, everyone in the world says:
"She can get to where she is today, not just by a face. ”
In the eyes of many people, Zhang Xinyu can transform from an ordinary girl to a female star, all by her figure and appearance.
But people forget that if she didn't dare to pursue her dreams, seize the opportunity in time, and decisively give up the art and design major that she should have been studying, she would have been away from her hometown to become a North Drifter.
The current Zhang Xinyu may just be an ordinary girl, hidden among all living beings.
From a small model, to a small supporting role, and then to an actress, Zhang Xinyu seems to be going smoothly, but in fact, every step is very difficult.
She once talked about her "North Drift", living in a small bedroom where "you can go to the toilet as soon as you turn around", and a group of friends came to eat hot pot, and the pot had to be placed on the toilet lid;
She also talked about her "appearance anxiety", because her facial features are too delicate, others always think she is "scheming", and even when some people see her, they will mistakenly think that she is just a "vase";
What makes her even more headache is her own character, although she is an authentic Jiangnan girl, she is very arrogant in her bones, which also paves the way for the unexpected "cyber violence" in the future.
To say that these bleak and dejected moments have been experienced by every female star to a greater or lesser extent.
But what makes Zhang Xinyu more unfortunate than other female stars is her twists and turns in her relationship.
Originally, "beauty" was a double-edged sword, especially for a beautiful girl like Zhang Xinyu, if she was not careful in her relationship, it would lead to many crises.
It's just that Zhang Xinyu didn't expect that her feelings would become a "deadly" rope and poison.
In 2015, Zhang Xinyu was 28 years old.
This year, she met the honest and honest "big black bull", thinking that she had to meet a lover.
This man once publicly confessed, praising her for "clear love and hate, straight to the point", and also gave her a "love stone", promising to love her for the rest of her life.
Until the "big black bull" met Bingbing, this 3-year relationship came to an abrupt end.
If Zhang Xinyu had matured a little and let go early, she probably wouldn't have to experience the "storm" in the later stage.
It's a pity that back then, she really responded to the sentence of the "big black bull": "Love and hate are clear, go straight", which led to an endless crisis.
During that time, Zhang Xinyu was on the "hot search" every three or five times.
Some say that she is "stalking" her ex;
Some say that she has a "grudge" against her ex's current girlfriend;
At first, it was just a verbal attack from netizens, but I never thought that it would slowly evolve into a carnival of "black fans" and cyberbullying, these people not only attacked Zhang Xinyu's feelings, but also began to attack her career.
When she was in prison, her ex, who had publicly shown her love, did not help her clarify, but added another fire.
The sentence "You have your means, I have my life" directly nailed Zhang Xinyu to the "pillar of shame" of morality, making her unable to speak.
Soon, the gossip about Zhang Xinyu was overwhelming, all kinds of statements, all kinds of speculations, all kinds of "dirty water", all of them hit her in an instant.
In Zhang Xinyu's words: "When you are "hacked", what you do is wrong, because no one cares if you are right or not. ”
At first, when public opinion questioned it, Zhang Xinyu and netizens were tough.
She said, "Why should I admit something I haven't done?"
So, she tried her best to explain, to clarify, and couldn't wait to confront people face to face, during that time, the thing that the agent and her mother were most afraid of was that Zhang Xinyu "replied" to others.
But slowly Zhang Xinyu found that the explanation was useless.
The more she explained, the more crazy the "black powder" became, and even this "madness" seriously affected her life.
When she goes to work normally, no matter what kind of photos she takes, she will be said to "follow suit";
She went to participate in the fashion week, because she didn't have time to prepare, she wore a "Northeast Flower Jacket" that came out of 4 days of work, but she was ridiculed as "crazy for wanting to be in the limelight";
In the end, she had no choice but to stop work.
It wasn't until she saw someone attacking her to paint that Zhang Xinyu finally woke up.
She said that it was only when everyone didn't let go of my last hobby that I realized it was time for me to shut up.
Because when it is useless to argue, only silence is the right solution.
Such a "bloody and bloody" day lasted for more than 1 year.
No one knows how Zhang Xinyu survived in the past more than 1 year.
She once said in an interview: "Can you imagine that every day when you open your eyes, you have to face thousands of abusive messages, even though you may not even know these people." ”
In order to let herself "get through", Zhang Xinyu temporarily escaped from the entertainment industry, and she began to "save herself".
She travels and sees different landscapes;
She continued to paint and maintain inner stability;
More often, she stays in her own yard, planting flowers, vegetables, teasing dogs, and accompanying her family;
It wasn't until 2016 that she finally "boiled" out.
When Zhang Xinyu appeared in the public eye again, many people said that she had changed.
Not only has he become more mature and steady, but he has also become more calm and tenacious.
She said: We used to look forward to the recognition of the outside world, but in the end we realized that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others.
Until now, she still firmly agrees with this truth.
Because of this, Zhang Xinyu is now so rational and sober.
Because she has experienced the darkest moments, she understands the warmth and coldness of human feelings and understands what is the most precious thing in life.
I will always be myself, she said.
03 He Jie let the world see a different Zhang Xinyu, but the reason why He Jie chose Zhang Xinyu was because of her person.
Many people say that 2018 is a year for Zhang Xinyu to "change his life against the sky".
Because this year, she married the soldier He Jie.
Since then, no one has dared to say a word of "gossip" to her.
Some people even think that "marrying He Jie" is a blessing that Zhang Xinyu has cultivated for several lifetimes!
This can't be wrong, after all, Zhang Xinyu is really very happy when she marries He Jie, but if you attribute everything now to He Jie alone, it is really biased.
Let's look at He Jie's vows at the wedding:
"The best decision I've ever made in my life is to marry you. The greatest blessing is to meet you. I want to tell the world that you are the woman I want most in He Jie's life, no matter the storm, I will take care of it all my life and never deviate. ”
It can be seen from here that He Jie respects Zhang Xinyu from the bottom of his heart and recognizes Zhang Xinyu.
Looking at the love past of the two, it seems to be as romantic as a fairy tale, but if you can peel off the romantic coat, it is actually a model of strong alliance.
Everyone knows that they met and fell in love because of the variety show "Strange Soldier Divine Dog".
To this day, there are still people who keep reliving the past when they loved each other.
"He's an instructor, she's a cadet";
"He cut her long hair and sang for her "When Your Hair Brushes My Steel Gun";
"She was injured in training, and he took her to the doctor";
No matter how you look at these episodes, they are very similar to the plots of idol dramas.
But don't forget, when He Jie was attracted to Zhang Xinyu, it was not because the girl in front of him was a beautiful female star, but because this girl was too tough!
During training, Zhang Xinyu took the initiative to ask for help and choose the most ferocious dog;
When she fell, Zhang Xinyu didn't say a word and silently persevered to the end;
Because her long hair affected her training, she directly borrowed scissors and cut her long hair that had been kept for 6 years;
The dog was bruised and his legs were swollen, but Zhang Xinyu was still silently patient and did not tell anyone;
It is her tenacity that can impress He Jie, who has been tempered by wind and rain, and make this steely man tempted.
After they fell in love, Zhang Xinyu impressed everyone.
In the past, everyone said that she was impetuous and flamboyant.
But after being with He Jie, Zhang Xinyu became comfortable with IKEA.
An authentic Jiangnan girl who learned to make Lanzhou ramen;
Everyone else is walking the red carpet, but she grows vegetables and flowers at home;
While others struggle to stay hot, she paints and reads at home with peace of mind;
When in love, many people are not optimistic about her and He Jie, thinking that this relationship may not last long;
After getting married, many people still question them, because in the entertainment industry, how can there be simple and pure feelings;
Until now, they have spent 6 years smoothly from falling in love to staying together, without any scandals.
Because of work, they rarely see each other, but Zhang Xinyu never complains;
She said, I know the responsibility and responsibility on my husband's shoulders, he will protect the motherland, and I will protect the small family;
When they were separated, she learned to be patient, and she learned to live with loneliness.
She travels, paints, raises flowers and vegetables, accompanies her family, raises pets, and does not let her time be wasted;
When they got together, she cherished every minute and second with He Jie.
Someone once photographed the two watching movies together and traveling, like all couples who love each other, they are inseparable;
Aside from He Jie, the current Zhang Xinyu still lives out of herself.
She is a female star, but she is no longer anxious about "being popular or not", she works hard when she has a job, and enjoys life without a job.
She is in the entertainment industry, but she is more like a "fairy", guarding her own garden alone, planting flowers and fruits;
She is the wife of IKEA, and when her husband returns, she washes her hands and makes soup.
But Zhang Xinyu, who always maintains her original intention, will always love life and always maintain a childlike heart;
Seeing Zhang Xinyu like this, she suddenly remembered what she said before:
"When you encounter injustice and suffering, or even when you are almost killed, think of it as the process that you must cultivate in your life.
Grit your teeth, grit your teeth and endure it, don't say it, and don't think that passers-by will help you get justice.
You have to believe that God is watching it, he will definitely compensate you, and if you walk through the darkness, there will be a blue sky. ”
May you be like her, no matter whether you experience good times or bad, you can always stick to your faith and believe that you will be able to function from time to time.
Remember, God handed you a knife, but there may be a cake hidden behind it.
As long as we believe, we will always see our own blue sky.