After being PUA for 6 years, his wife Zhu Dan officially overturned

A few days ago, Gigi just finished talking to everyone about Jinsha and her little boyfriend.

turned his head, another pair of guests in this show ("Love's Study Trip"), Zhu Dan and Zhou Yiwei also followed the hot search.

Zhu Dan, who has always been said to be humble, wanted to bring her husband to show her affection.

As a result, the car rolled over unsurprisingly.

Not only did her humble label not be washed off, but the more she looked at it, the more she felt that she was PUA.

There are also sharp and spicy comments from netizens, who have been married for six years and have been helpless for more than ten years.

Zhu Dan's subtle sadness in marriage has once again appeared.

This show, in fact, is a remake of "Wife's Romantic Trip", where each couple spends 18 days of study.

But as soon as the show began, Zhu Dan and Zhou Zhouwei's sense of disengagement overflowed the screen.

First of all, the self-introduction session, Zhu Dan's words, every sentence contains Zhou Zhouwei -

"Zhou Yiwei's wife has been married for 6 years and the child is 6 years old. "

When it was Zhou Zhouwei's turn, he first said his name, then his age, and didn't mention Zhu Dan at all.

Zhu Dan directly said his inner OS, and asked Zhou Zhouwei to say, "I am Zhu Dan's husband".

Zhou Zhouwei's first reaction was to refuse immediately, "You've said it all, do I still have to say it?"

In the end, Zhu Dan directly made it clear that he wanted to say it officially.

Zhou Zhouwei only half-pushed and half-said, "I'm her husband."

Gigi was dumbfounded, he was still reluctant to say Zhu Dan's name.

On the contrary, Zhu Dan, who got the answer on the side, smiled.

In the next "partner brain map" link, the sense of distance between the two is even more obvious.

The rule is that each spouse draws their own and their partner in their minds.

The most important part of Zhu Dan's brain map for himself was given to the family, of which her husband Zhou Yiwei also accounted for a large part.

Then, on Monday, the key words given to Zhu Dan were peace, happiness, danger, and hope.

Zhu Dan could only force a smile: I don't understand.

Gigi also said that the words are all good words, but there is no mention of Zhu Dan +1.

The brain map that Zhou Wai drew for himself was even more perfunctory.

A "head" splits in half, what these two halves are, he didn't say, and we don't know.

Zhu Dan, who has lived with her husband for many years, can only have questions.

Both husband and wife don't seem to know each other.

And Zhu Dan's feelings, as a husband, it is difficult for him to empathize.

Zhu Dan couldn't remember the name of Jinsha's boyfriend, and Zhou Zhouwei said, "It's okay, everyone will forgive you for not remembering."

A few years ago, because she always called the wrong person's name, Zhu Dan's hosting career was hit hard, and she is still a demon she can't face.

Such ridicule should not come from her husband's mouth on Monday anyway.

The only time Zhu Dan blackfaced Zhou Yiwei was here, and she asked Zhou Yiwei to apologize, twice.

But Zhou Yiwei did not apologize immediately, but indifferently compared "OK".

It wasn't until Zhu Dan cried that he said he was sorry.

But then, he fought with Zhu Dan to avoid the demons and couldn't solve the problem.

Also, Zhu Dan shouldn't have said his name in front of the camera (even if Zhu Dan asked again not to poke her sore spots).

To translate it: you started the topic first, and if you don't say no, you'll be fine.

You said that Zhou Yiwei is the shopkeeper, he doesn't seem to be either, when cooking, the two rarely start to interact effectively.

On Monday, I helped Zhu Dan open cans, screw bottle caps, and open sinks...

Zhu Dan obviously felt happy, and said in an interview:

"Mr. Zhou didn't use hugs, but to do things that I was so tired that I didn't want to do, which was an offering of my love. ”

Yes, as long as the husband is willing to do a little housework for himself, it is love.

What's even more staggering is that at this emotional temperature, Zhu Dan will still make up for her husband.

In her heart, she probably remembers many details of how the two of them get along.

For example, when establishing a relationship, they didn't confess to each other, but because Zhou Yiwei took the initiative to let her lean over her shoulder and take the initiative to hold hands when watching a movie.

Because everything that needs to be done has been done, there is no need for a confession ceremony.

In addition, Monday is not around the holiday, she said: "We are both very afraid of this. ”

Because I don't know what the other party likes, I have to guess how to give gifts, which is very tiring, so it's just nothing, and everyone is not burdened.

It's been 6 years of marriage, and I don't know what the other party likes, is this reasonable?

When it comes to emotional resonance, Zhou Yiwei has never given her the response she wants, and Zhu Dan said, "His emotions are hidden deeply." ”

"He's trying to open it up, and I'm touched."

On the surface, Zhu Dan is answering everyone's misunderstandings about their relationship.

In fact, this is more like Zhu Dan's self-consistency, she strives to make herself look like a decision-maker with a voice -

"Because I'm like that, I don't need to. ”

"These things are decided by us together. ”

One is immersed in oneself, and the other is crazy to make up.

Zhou Yiwei and Zhu Dan achieved an extreme "balance".

Although there are many ways to get along with love, no matter which way, it is difficult to hide true love.

In the same show, Wang Yanlin, and his wife Ai Jiani's happiness is his medal.

Ai Jiani wanted to interact with the camera, so Wang Yanlin asked the camera teacher if she could nod her head to satisfy his wife's childlike innocence.

When cooking, she is not allowed to do any work.

I am worried that my wife is tired, and I am worried that my wife will rub her eyes after chopping chili peppers.

recalled the past with Aijani several times, and it was a second with tears in my eyes.

Xi Mengyao, who has always been rumored to be a daughter-in-law of a wealthy family, and her husband He Youjun also stuffed a handful of dog food into the audience.

One of the most sugar-sprinkling scenes is that He Youjun suddenly "bites" Xi Mengyao, and two naïve ghosts are playing in the car.

In the intimate relationship satisfaction evaluation, the eyes of the two were also expecting feedback from the teacher.

This behavior actually means that the two have a vision for the future and are confident.

If you don't show affection in public, it can be very sweet if it only belongs to the interaction of two people.

In the variety show "Goodbye Lover 3" next door, Papi-chan talked about her husband Lao Hu.

Even if you can't tell that she has cut her bangs, she will output rainbow farts to make Papi-chan happy.

Papi sauce's career is booming, and Lao Hu has also been subjected to bad eyes.

Sensing Lao Hu's loss, Papi Sauce arranged a fixed time every week to accompany Lao Hu, and the two of them went to the movies together, drank coffee and chatted...

Love doesn't have to be fanfare, and it's not tied to a certain form.

But the people who love you must want you to be happy.

TA will give you the response you want.

will avoid actions that may hurt you.

I can't help but want to have a little interaction with you.

In all fairness, in this kind of marriage and love variety show, the guests will inevitably act in a play.

But sometimes, the more important role of "acting" is to take care of each other's feelings and decency.

And Zhou Yiwei, who is known as the "main truth", directly abandoned the performance, causing Zhu Dan to often sit on the cold bench.

The warm interaction between husband and wife that she wants is completely uninterrupted on Monday.

For example, Zhu Dan deliberately fiddled with his loose shoelaces, and Zhou Zhou Wei poked them in public: "Do you want me to tie your shoelaces in public?"

(Although it was tied in the end)

Asked what his goal was for the show, Zhu Dan wanted Zhou Zhou to interact together.

Zhou Zhou poured another basin of cold water, "I have no goal".

In my opinion, Zhou Zhouwei is no longer a "straight man thinking", it is directly a refusal to communicate.

He didn't care if he could let Zhu Dan know his true self, nor did he want to know Zhu Dan specifically.

Knowing your needs, but not giving a benign response;

Before doing something, I always have to choke you.

Such days are not dull, but suffocating.

Maybe it was because he was suffocated to the depths that Zhu Dan became the biggest black fan in Zhou Zhouwei.

The harder she tried, the more poignant it became.

mentioned that she wanted to participate in the show, and Zhou Zhouwei accompanied her, and she blurted out:

"He respected me more this time. (Disrespectful before)

When asked why she wanted to live with each other for the rest of her life, she said amazingly:

"We don't think we have to live a lifetime now. ”

Truth or dare, but brain, in short, for the relationship between the two people, Zhu Dan is obviously lacking in confidence.

Especially in the past few years, the public has continued to ridicule her marriage, and she has also continued to explain to the outside world.

She asked her husband to come to the show to show the mode of getting along between husband and wife, but the more it was displayed, the more loopholes appeared.

Why?

Because in their relationship, Zhu Dan is always the one who outputs emotions in one direction.

Zhou Zhouwei has been closed in the world of his own self, not responding to emotions, or even receiving emotions.

And Zhu Dan, who desperately needs an emotional response, has to prove that he is "happy" again and again.

This is probably also a certain essence of marriage, cold and warm self-knowing.

As an outsider, how else can you see, respect, bless.