9 years later, Huang Haibo was changed by the word wife, and the shadow of the past lingered
On November 30, 2014, Huang Haibo approached the door step by step with heavy steps.
At the end of the six-month education period, he was apprehensive and didn't know what was waiting for him after stepping out the door.
Fortunately, his girlfriend Qu Zhazha was waiting outside the door with a smile on her face, and when she saw the haggard Huang Haibo, she hurriedly stepped forward and held his hand.
For a while, Huang Haibo had mixed feelings, he was arrested at the party, his career reputation was ruined, and the last thing he wanted to face was his girlfriend.
However, his girlfriend became his harbor and shoulder, giving him warmth and strength.
Qu Zhazha rejected Huang Haibo's request to break up, decided to marry him, and accompanied him through the haze of life.
Parents objected, friends did not support, others ridiculed, Qu Zhazha ignored it, and took Huang Haibo abroad before getting married.
The two friends, the rented wedding dress, and Qu Zhazha's unhesitating attitude made Huang Haibo feel a little more pressured while being happy.
What to do to be worthy of his wife's unhesitation, Huang Haibo thought about it for a long time.
Now, 9 years have passed, Huang Haibo has appeared in front of the public again, in addition to being restrained, he is a little more determined and light-hearted.
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On May 16, 2014, Huang Haibo was taken away for misbehaving with a happy woman, and then, when he was popular, he was pushed to the forefront.
At that time, the relationship between Qu Zhazha and Huang Haibo was not long exposed, and the emotional foundation was not very solid.
Ex-girlfriend Mo Xiaoqi's "Xie Huang Haibo's grace of not marrying back then" made him a laughing stock, and in the flashy entertainment industry, everyone defaulted to Qu Zhazha and walked away.
never thought that Qu Zhazha would marry Huang Haibo, and Huang Haibo made up his mind that he would never live up to Qu Zhazha and would not let her pay into a joke.
In 2015, Huang Haibo's son was born, and he shared his joy "Being a father, happy, grateful to his wife." ”
Huang Haibo said that the birth of his son saved him.
He called all his friends, and everyone only understood that he had a son, and the rest was his crying in a mess.
Huang Haibo said the birth of his son saved him and his family.
For a long time after his son was born, he held his son in a trance, not believing that that little life was a continuation of his life.
During that time, he closed himself off, and even rumored to be poor and dependent on his parents for support.
Especially in 2018, Huang Haibo's father had a serious illness, and he did not get into the account, so he was under a lot of pressure and almost collapsed.
After the father woke up from the operation, he mentioned two things, salary and little grandson.
It was the two words of his father's illness and his wife that completely changed Huang Haibo.
"This person is like a big child, extremely simple and simple, especially upright, he won't turn around when he speaks, right is right, wrong is wrong, upright and kind, he is such a good person, he will not be bad."
"My husband is a very upright person."
More than once, Huang Haibo was at a friend's place and heard his wife's evaluation of him.
At that time, Huang Haibo felt that he was not worthy of any beautiful word, and he kept doubting himself.
"Am I upright?"
Huang Haibo himself couldn't believe that these two words would belong to him.
Later, he felt that this was his wife's affirmation of himself, and he began to use these two words to demand that he change little by little.
There was no opportunity to perform, Huang Haibo began to do some behind-the-scenes work, Qu Zhazha also started filming, and life slowly got on the right track.
Qu Zhazha said that she was sad and difficult to transition through that period, and now she is very happy, and everything is worth it.
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After all, Huang Haibo still loves acting, and he opened an acting workshop to teach young people to act.
He said that acting is the thing he has spent the most time in his life and does not want to give up.
Qu Zhazha said that Huang Haibo's morality is very serious, there are no distracting thoughts, and he is very persistent and strict.
Huang Haibo resolutely refused to let the students call themselves teachers, and asked them to call them Haibo or Bo Ge.
"Heaven and Earth Monarch Teacher", in Huang Haibo's heart, the teacher is very heavy, he feels that he is not qualified, and he is ashamed.
Huang Haibo is very attentive to teaching young people the knowledge of acting, sharing his experience with them, and making friends with them, hoping that they will avoid detours and eventually become excellent professional actors.
He doesn't like the word explosive acting, and thinks that it is not so simple to shape people, like Qin Hao in "The Long Season" and Zhang Yi and Zhang Songwen in "Hurricane", which can be called creating characters.
Chen Youwei was criticized by Er Dongsheng for "embarrassing performance", so he found Huang Haibo to study, and after studying for a while, he had a new understanding of performance.
"There was no acting skills at all before, but now there is, as for how much improvement it has, it depends on the audience's evaluation."
When he was in class, Huang Haibo was very sharp and ruthless, he wanted to break the inherent second- and third-rate models of the students, improve their knowledge and aesthetics, and let them have qualitative changes.
When filming "Hurricane" as Cheng Cheng, Qu Zhazha consulted Huang Haibo, and the last classic scene of putting lipstick on the boat was designed by Huang Haibo for his wife.
Every time she saw Huang Haibo teaching students, Qu Zhazha couldn't hide her admiration for her husband.
She always firmly believes that she is not wrong to marry.
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"I think my wife should have a wedding."
For his wife, Huang Haibo has always felt guilty, and he has always wanted to make up for the wedding he owes.
is about to celebrate their 10th wedding anniversary, and last year, Huang Haibo and Qu Zhazha made up their wedding photos.
Huang Haibo said that Qu Zhazha is a person who is very happy when he drinks a little wine, very simple, and two simple people are very happy when they meet together.
They are very attentive to their children, but they do not put too much pressure on them.
After Qu Zhazha gave birth to a child, he has been filming, and Huang Haibo is responsible for taking care of the children many times, and he picks up and drops off the children to and from school, basically without the participation of the elderly on both sides.
Huang Haibo and Qu Zhazha are just doing their best to be parents, hoping that their children will live the life they want to live, as long as they are safe and happy, and they can do what they like.
The host said that Huang Haibo was a little more determined than a few years ago, but after a conversation, it was not difficult to find that the past deeply affected Huang Haibo, and the shadow lingered.
Huang Haibo didn't let his son watch the scenes he filmed, he said that he would turn the page when it was over, and he didn't dare to think about whether his son would be an actor in the future, and even he didn't have a clear plan and expectations for the second half of his life.
Huang Haibo said that he doesn't know what the second half of his life will be, and he doesn't know what tomorrow will look like, but he just does today's things and lives the present.
Huang Haibo's performance workshop has two signs, one says "Patience" and the other says "Conscience, Justice, and Practice", which is Huang Haibo's requirement for himself.
Huang Haibo, although he has walked through the haze, is not the high-spirited Huang Haibo when he was popular.
He has a beard and ambition, he just wants to live in the present, not thinking about the future.
9 years have passed, and Huang Haibo has not completely come out of the shadow of the past, even if many viewers have already forgiven him.
Fortunately, Qu Zhazha has always been by Huang Haibo's side, never abandoned, and his worship is still the same.
Now, their son is 8 years old, they have taken wedding photos, and on the 10th anniversary, Huang Haibo plans to give Qu Zhazha a wedding, which he says she deserves, and family is the most important thing in his life.
"Haibo, all these years have passed, have you really let go?"
In the face of the host's inquiry, Huang Haibo's expression kept changing, he sighed, bit his lip a few times and said, "It seems that I haven't picked it up, so why put it down?" ”
He especially likes "The Long Season", and feels that his life is also like a long season, just like Mr. Fan Wei said at the end of the TV series, "Look forward, don't look back." ”
To err is human?
I hope that Huang Haibo will completely let go of the past, enjoy the happiness of the fireworks world with his wife and son, and look forward and don't look back.