What is the meaning of marriage? Some people say that getting married is not about finding someone to eat with, have children together, and pay off the mortgage together.
It's because people are born lonely, but they long for long-term companionship. 找个伴侣，是为了遇事有人一起扛，有人一起带娃，一起做家务，一起分享生活里的苦与乐。
On October 25, Anhui, a wife shared that her husband went out, put on his shoes, and went straight across the garbage bag at the door.
In the picture, the wife bundled up two large bags of garbage and put them at the door to throw them out.
But because I was busy taking care of the children, I didn't have time to go downstairs. At this time, the husband packed up at home and prepared to go out to dinner with his brother.
The wife sat in the living room, expecting her husband to take the garbage downstairs. I was going to open my mouth to tell him, but later, after thinking about it, I didn't open my mouth to see if he would pick up the garbage.
Unexpected. After the husband put on his shoes, he stepped directly over the garbage and walked out. He had already lifted his legs, and the garbage was under his nose, and he still pretended not to see it, or saw it, thinking that the matter of throwing garbage had nothing to do with him. I pulled the door and went out.
Looking at her husband like this, the woman had mixed feelings in her heart. This man was completely like two people before and after marriage.
Before getting married, he was very industrious. During the period when the two lived together, they did laundry, cooking, cleaning up housework, and took the initiative to do everything. More diligent than the donkeys of the production team. Because of this, I decided to join hands with him in the marriage hall. Thinking that after getting married, with him sharing the housework, life should be good.
But since he got married, his whole person has changed. I don't like to do housework, and I don't have work in my eyes. Like a car grunt, push it, turn it, and don't turn it if you don't push. It's very depressing.
The garbage at home will never be thrown away for you, and occasionally he is caught throwing it once, and he shows special reluctance. Not only throwing garbage, but many other things, he didn't bother to do.
It takes no more than three minutes to take a child. As soon as the child cries, he throws the child to himself, and he will not be patient to coax. I always feel that these things are not in his hands.
Now, except for his monthly salary, his hands are not touched at home. Sometimes it's really broken, it's tiring enough to take care of the children every day, and you still have to do the big and small things at home.
This kind of widowed marriage, it is not clear how long it can last. Things at home such as throwing out the garbage, mopping the floor, cooking are all small things.
And these seemingly inconspicuous little things accumulate on a person for many years, which is a mountain, which makes people breathless.
Marriage didn't make me better, happy and happy. On the contrary, it is consuming the enthusiasm for life.
I understand that some women would rather leave the house with their children than continue to live. Because then, at least one less giant baby to take care of, less stress.
In this regard, some netizens said that although they are all sesame trivials, picking up sesame seeds all over the ground one by one will really make people collapse.
Some netizens said that if every woman has to do everything at home after getting married, it doesn't matter if she doesn't get married, because no one wants something.
However, some netizens said that stop him and let him take it away, sometimes men are more careless, and appropriate reminders can reduce the burden without being entangled.
Author's point of view
Although the matter of throwing out garbage is a very small matter, such a small thing, he is too lazy to raise his hand to do it, do you want him to do something else at home? From this little thing, it can be seen that this man is a hands-off shopkeeper at home.
There is no work in his eyes, he turns a blind eye to housework, and completely treats his wife as a free employer.
You must know that home is a home shared by two people, and it takes two people to work together. If a family is completely dependent on one person, it will be tired over time. When she is physically and mentally exhausted, the marriage is not far from disintegrating.
Therefore, many people divorce not because of major issues of right and wrong, but mostly because of these daily trivial matters.
What do you have to say about this?