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If you give something to someone by mistake, you may do something bad with good intentions, or it may be thankless. Since giving something is an act, you should also think twice.
1. Nowadays, people generally think that their own things are the best things
Even if you give someone something good, others will not think it is a good thing, and the inertia of other people's thinking will think that a good thing will not be given away, and giving it away is not a good thing.
Netizen message: My own things, even if they are idle things, I will spare them. Nine times out of ten, the things that others give me are superfluous things or things that they don't want, and they are like chicken ribs to others, and they are tasteless to eat, and it is a pity to give them to me when they are discarded. So when someone gives me something, I am torn between not wanting to laugh at it and not saying no.
Comments: No matter how good other people's things are, they are also someone else's, and other people's really good things will be hidden, such as in the antique store, most of the objects put out are fakes, and the gifts are estimated to be defective products in the fakes.
Second, no one lacks things, and no one wants to owe a debt of favors.
Now that the era of lack of food and clothing has passed, others give away useless things, which is equivalent to giving up the residual heat of useless things. Sending something means giving away a love debt, and the thing you send is still priceless, and over time the love debt will become a burden, and the days of being debt-free and light are gone.
Netizen message: What others gave me is useless to others, and it is useless to me, and it will take up space in my house. Whenever something someone gave me came into view, it always reminded me that I was in debt in terms of favors, so I gradually learned to refuse and repay the debts I owed one after another.
Comments: The most difficult debt in the world is the debt of human affection, if it is not paid off, it will be short of hands to take other people's things, even if it is used as an ornament, others will think that you have taken a big advantage.
Third, the exchange of gifts has changed taste, and the ushering in has deteriorated.
If you don't return it in time, even if others don't ask for help, you will wait for the opportunity to help others. Nowadays, the pace of life is already fast, everyone is very busy, and sending things back and forth is both a formality and a formality.
Netizen message: My in-laws are particularly keen to give me things, but I am not good at returning gifts, so it has become my heart, even if I am thinking about returning gifts, my in-laws will pick fat and thin, and the return gift is self-defeating, which makes me worry and entangled.
Comments: No one will be attentive to nothing, people send things between people, have to waste time and energy in the process of returning gifts, the collateral effect of things has far exceeded the thing itself.
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