In love for 4 years, but it can't be worth a year of marriage, the love between Liu Xiaochun and You Yong is a mirror after all.
In the play in 1984, You Yong fell in love with Liu Xiaochun at first sight;
The two came together in love and were in love from freshman to senior.
The year he graduated, You Yong said to Liu Xiaochun: "I have nothing, will you marry me"?
"Of course I do". Liu Xiaochun did not hesitate at all, took the family registration book, and registered his marriage with You Yong.
Both of them are "three-nil people", which can be regarded as a real "naked marriage".
Just a year later, Liu Xiaochun and You Yong took the divorce certificate and said to each other: "I really regret getting married."
After that, the two never saw each other again. Liu Xiaochun resisted criticism, married Guo Kaimin and gave birth to a son, happy and happy.
But You Yong had no children and no daughters in his life, and when he saw Liu Xiaochun so happy, he only had envy in his heart...
01. Four years of love, get married after graduation
In 1980, the Xi'an Repertory Troupe enrolled the fifth batch of students, and the recruitment teachers traveled to many schools to select good seedlings.
After selecting many people, the recruitment teacher returned to the drama troupe and found that there was still a place.
It just so happened that there was a hairy boy outside the door, and he was afraid to sign up for the drama troupe exam.
The recruitment teacher saw that this child had dignified facial features and was also very handsome, so it was better to choose him.
In this way, You Yong entered the drama troupe by mistake to study.
During his four years in the drama troupe, this recruitment teacher became his master and cared about him very much.
Everyone else learns in class, and he can get a "private biography".
The teacher said to him, "Xiaoyong, don't put all your thoughts on the drama troupe, you have to look farther." In the future, when I have the ability, I will go out of here, go to Beijing, and go to Shanghai to develop."
You Yong's Mandarin was not standard at that time, so the teacher gave him a newspaper every day and asked him to come to his home to practice Mandarin pronunciation.
Under the careful cultivation of the teacher, You Yong was really admitted to the theater, and at that time he still won the first place in the professional course in Shaanxi.
When he went to the play, another little girl also stood at the door of the play with a smile on her face.
You Yong looked at the girl in front of him and felt that her face was very delicate and very good-looking.
In short, his heart was beating violently, but the girl ran fast and disappeared in the blink of an eye.
You Yong thought to himself, they are all studying in the same school, and there will always be a day when they meet again.
Unexpectedly, when he went to class the next day, he saw the girl in his heart. Her name is Liu Xiaochun, and she is in the same class as herself.
Liu Xiaochun is luckier than You Yong, she has already filmed a lot of plays before reading the play;
Therefore, in school, she is often the object of praise from teachers.
In contrast, You Yong is much inferior, he has only been on the drama stage, and has not really filmed.
You Yong is very concerned about Liu Xiaochun, and before the two finished reading in their freshman year, they quickly fell in love.
In his sophomore year, Liu Xiaochun went to participate in "Love Man Yellow Mountain", and You Yong was still a little envious.
He told his girlfriend that he was not as lucky as her, and maybe he would have to raise her in the future.
Liu Xiaochun was also not angry, saying that if he was popular, he would definitely find him a scene to film, and would not let him idle at home.
For four years in college, the two lived very sweetly, reading books together, walking together, and climbing mountains together.
The sneaky hand in hand made the affection between the two stronger.
In 1988, Liu Xiaochun and You Yong graduated.
The day after graduation, You Yong said to Liu Xiaochun: "I don't have anything, but I want to marry you, can you agree"?
Liu Xiaochun nodded happily and said that he was willing to marry him without complaint or regret.
A few days later, the two registered their marriage and became husband and wife.
02, flash marriage and divorce, each remarried
In the second month of marriage, You Yong participated in "The Price of Madness", and his wife also received a work.
The two of them go south and north, each going one side, and it seems to set the outcome of their marriage in advance.
You Yong misses his wife very much in the crew, and often writes to her.
At first, the wife would also reply to the letter, but the crew of the two was constantly changing, and by the time the letter came, they had already left.
Therefore, for most of the year, it was in a state of uncontact.
After the filming of the scene, You Yong ran home to see his wife with great interest, only to see a letter on the table.
You Yong opened it and saw that his wife went to film again, this time it would take three months.
You Yong's heart suddenly became cold.
He didn't know, if the two had always been like this, what was the point of the marriage continuing? Will the two live with their thoughts in the future?
Three months later, the two finally lived together, but before the stove could fire, the two went to their respective crews.
The two thought twice and chose to divorce and set each other free.
Their divorce is not because they don't love, but because they can't stand each other's work hard for their careers, and no one wants to take a step back for the sake of family.
You Yong thinks traditionally, and he hopes that his wife will give up her career and stay at home.
Liu Xiaochun became popular, naturally unwilling to give up his career, the two quarreled over this, so they quickly divorced.
No one delays the development of anyone, this is the last decency of the two.
After the divorce, You Yong deeply hated the place in Shanghai and went to Beijing alone to work hard.
In Shanghai, he still had teachers and friends to support him, but when he arrived in Beijing, he had nothing.
When it was slightly bright, he went to the crew to audition, but he didn't find a role for most of the year.
Own money, already gone! If it goes on like this, even eating is a problem, and he needs to find a film.
At this time, he heard that his old friend was in Hokage, so he went to Hokage to find a friend to help.
When his friend saw that he was pitiful, he let him live in his dormitory.
At that time, there were still Wang Zhiwen, Pang Hao, Zhang Jiandong and others in the dormitory, everyone had no money, and when they were the poorest, they bought a bowl of noodles and went home, and several people had to eat them separately.
I really can't eat enough, so I asked the boss to make an extra bowl of soup, and everyone drank more soup and ate less noodles.
It took him 8 years to become popular with "Big Family" and won the Golden Eagle Best Actor Award.
After becoming a movie king, he finally didn't worry about filming, but when he saw his ex-wife's life, he felt very sad.
After the divorce, his ex-wife Liu Xiaochun's career was very prosperous, and by chance, she met Guo Kaimin.
At that time, Guo Kaimin had a wife, and after the two gave birth to a son, the relationship has not been good.
After meeting Liu Xiaochun, Guo Kaimin divorced his wife.
Many people say that Guo Kaimin is a negative man, empathizing and falling in love within marriage.
But Guo Kaimin and his wife's relationship has gone wrong, and divorce is only a matter of time.
However, when he saw Liu Xiaochun, he suddenly understood that he was no longer suitable for the previous marriage.
Later, Guo Kaimin married Liu Xiaochun, and the two have been living happily.
Liu Xiaochun wanted to fight for his career, and Guo Kaimin proposed that the two temporarily separate and work hard for their own careers.
In the future, she didn't want to work hard in her career, so the two lived together, had children, and lived a happy family life.
The freedom he gave made Liu Xiaochun very moved.
Therefore, the two separated for about three years after marriage and have not lived together.
Occasionally visiting each other's crew, the two seem to be in love.
In 1992, Guo Kaimin left the film and television industry and went to Hainan to become a host.
But his reputation was always boycotted because of abandoning his wife and son, and eventually he gave up the entertainment industry and founded a film and television company in Hainan.
Liu Xiaochun also wants to work in Hainan, but she can't do anything but film.
In the end, she could only find an ordinary 9-to-5 job, which paid less than one-tenth of what she did when filming.
The life of the two is bitter, but the relationship is getting stronger and stronger.
In 1993, Guo Kaimin opened several branches, and his wife was also pregnant.
A year later, Liu Xiaochun gave birth to a son, and the family of three often showed affection, and friends in the circle were envious of the life of the two.
After You Yong found out, he felt a little entangled in his heart, and he felt that he should also get married and have children.
03, Liu Xiaochun has a son, You Yong is very envious
In 1996, Liu Xiaochun gave up her job to become Mrs. Kuo and stay at home full-time with her children.
Guo Kaimin is more fond of his wife, friends gatherings, company activities, as long as he appears in the place, he will definitely bring his wife.
You Yong fell in love with Xu Qing while enviing his ex-wife, but Xu Qing did not want to get married, so he abandoned him when he turned around.
In 2001, You Yong met Shen Rong at the urging of his family.
Shen Rong was not an insider, she was still in college at the time and was an art student.
Young and beautiful, she liked You Yong for the first time.
You Yong disliked that the other party was too young and was embarrassed to pursue, so he did not leave contact information.
Unexpectedly, a few months later, Shen Rong would visit the crew and chat with him.
Shen Rong asked You Yong, did he think she was not worthy of him, otherwise why didn't he go to her?
You Yong blushed, he said that he was old and married for the second time, and he was not worthy of her.
After the two explained the misunderstanding, Shen Rong expressed his intentions, and You Yong accepted it calmly.
At the age of 39, he also has some longing for children in his heart.
He was thinking, if he married Shen Rong, would the two also give birth to a cute child?
Shen Rong stayed on to teach at the school and became a university teacher, and she is not busy with her work.
In order to prepare for pregnancy, the two took a lot of Chinese medicine conditioning, but after two or three years of marriage, there was still no good news.
You Yong was a little anxious, so he took his wife to the hospital for examination, and the doctor said that both of them were healthy, which may be caused by mood.
After returning home, You Yong took his wife out to travel, and they enjoyed the beautiful time of the mountains and rivers.
Unfortunately, a year later, the wife is still not pregnant.
You Yong also tossed enough, he said that if there are no children in this life, it will be okay, as long as the two live happily.
In the blink of an eye, more than ten years of marriage, both of them are old, and it is more difficult to get pregnant.
Every time You Yong returned to his hometown, he saw that his relatives and friends had children, and he was still sad in his heart.
Once, he held his little nephew and did not let go, and his wife couldn't help crying when she saw it.
She said that she delayed You Yong, maybe he married someone else and had children.
You Yong hugged his wife with tears in his eyes, and the two comforted each other.
You Yong is also very entangled in his heart, whether to adopt a child, the two are getting older and older, what should I do if I have no one to take care of them when I am old in the future?
Although his career is prosperous, if he is helpless in his old age, he can't imagine whether he can survive that kind of life.
Occasionally, You Yong also hears the love story of Guo Kaimin and Liu Xiaochun, whose children have grown up and have long been married and have children.
His ex-wife has already become a grandmother, and she can't even make it for her father, which puts a lot of pressure on him.
Perhaps in order to alleviate this mood, You Yong did not retire in his later years, but has been insisting on filming.
In 2022, he also played the role of "Lao Qiu" in "County Party Committee Compound".
In the blink of an eye, he and Liu Xiaochun have been divorced for 34 years!
Although his career is better than that of his ex-wife, his ex-wife's family life makes him very envious.
He sometimes wondered, if he hadn't divorced in the first place, would it have had a different ending?
Epilogue:
After marriage, You Yong spoiled Shen Rong as a little princess.
As long as Shen Rong wants him to stay at home with him, he will put down his career and concentrate on staying at home.
As he grew older, he became more and more aware of the importance of family.
Therefore, he only takes on half a year's plays, and the remaining half of the year is spent with his family and wife.
The fact that the two did not have children is a lifelong regret, but to this point, You Yong has no way to change.
Friends suggested that the two adopt a child, but Shen Rong was unwilling.
She said that the world of the two is very good, and having one more child will only increase the troubles.
Today, Liu Xiaochun is married to Guo Kaimin and lives a happy life.
And although You Yong found the love of his life, he had no children and no daughters, with a slight regret.