You Yongzhi's married life can be described as ups and downs, full of twists and turns. His first marriage was to Liu Xiaochun, a classmate of the Shanghai Theater Academy. At that time, they were in their youth and loved each other very much, and the newlywed Yan'er happily built her own nest on the campus, ready to start a new life.
However, the good times were short-lived. Trivial household chores soon became a whetstone on the way to get along with the couple. Originally, they were young, beautiful and energetic when they were on campus, but after entering married life, this vitality gradually wore out.
The daily events of life began to dilute the original love, and the relationship between them gradually drifted apart.
What's even more unfavorable is that You Yongzhi, as an actor, often has to go out to shoot in other places, and has been separated from his wife for a long time. Due to frequent separation, the husband and wife gradually lost their emotional communication and considerate understanding, and the distance between them widened further.
In this way, after only a short year, the couple who have been in love for several years finally broke up helplessly in the face of trivial real life, ending the love of holding hands and entering the marriage hall. On the long road of life, You Yongzhi has been walking alone on the road of art career. Years of loneliness made him gradually lose confidence and yearning for married life.
It wasn't until 2001 that a friend enthusiastically introduced him to a good couple, Miss Shen Rong. When they met for the first time, You Yongzhi couldn't overcome a kind of inferiority complex in his heart, and felt that he was an unknown little actor who was difficult to be favored by such a talented and excellent woman.
Unexpectedly, after seeing You Yongzhi's introverted and low-key tenacity and strength, Shen Rong had a great impression of him. So, the two began to consciously or unconsciously find topics to communicate and understand each other.
After a period of getting along, they found that they had an unusual tacit understanding. In this way, the two who were just strangers at the beginning finally decided to enter the palace of marriage hand in hand.
You Yongzhi devoted all his efforts to this marriage. He is always considerate and meticulous to take care of his wife, and leaves all the housework to her to take care of and arrange.
Whenever he returns from going out to shoot, he always takes the initiative to share the responsibility of housework, and often prepares surprises for his wife, rendering a strong romantic atmosphere. In this way, the relationship between the two has always maintained a temperature like love, and the days are prosperous, happy and delicious.
It's a pity that due to work, they missed the opportunity to give birth, and the lack of children has become a permanent regret in their hearts.
The twists and turns of the emotional experience
In You Yongzhi's long life journey, the emotional experience can be described as ups and downs, and there are many ups and downs. His crush on Xu Qing, an actress, can be traced back to a movie when he was young.
Back then, You Yongzhi and Xu Qing starred in the movie "Crazy" together. At the first sight of Xu Qing's youthful and energetic appearance, he was deeply attracted in his heart.
Xu Qing's unique aura and softness touched the softest corner of You Yongzhi's heart, and made him begin to nurture his love for this girl.
In order to get close to her, You Yongzhi was always considerate and caring during the shooting, and spent a difficult shooting time with Xu Qing. Although they got along day and night, You Yongzhi still maintained restraint and did not show any transgressive emotions.
However, everything changed when the film was finished, and he began to fear that he would never see the woman who moved him again, and his heart was full of anxiety and uneasiness.
As a result, You Yongzhi began to do everything possible to maintain contact with Xu Qing, and always paid attention to her recent situation through phone calls, text messages, etc. Although the beauty is like a cloud and the competition is fierce, he always has a glimmer of hope, believing that he will be able to touch Xu Qing's gentle heart with his sincere care.
Who knew that the good times would not last long, with the start of filming of the next drama "Imperial City Roots", an unexpected interfer appeared in front of You Yongzhi - the popular student Wang Zhiwen.
At that time, Wang Zhiwen was handsome and chic, and he was in his prime, which made countless girls salivate, and even film and television stars like Xu Fan had a love for him.
In the play, Wang Zhiwen and Xu Qing play young couples, and there are many rivalry scenes. During the filming of the crew, the scandals about them flew all over the sky like falling cherry blossoms, and everyone was praising "What a golden boy and a beautiful girl, a talented and beautiful woman!" Every time he hears these rumors, You Yongzhi feels extremely painful in his heart, but there is no way to verify the accuracy of the true relationship between the two.
It wasn't until an interview many years later that Xu Qing finally confided that she and Wang Zhiwen had a long-lasting relationship.
This sudden confession undoubtedly dealt a heavy blow to You Yongzhi's heart. Years of warm expectations came to naught, and the dream shattered all his longing for Xu Qing.
Since then, he has been trapped in a years-long process of self-redemption, and has almost given up on finding true love.
Seeing that he was becoming more and more lonely, relatives and friends were all worried about it, and under the repeated guidance of his parents, You Yongzhi reluctantly agreed to meet the beautiful woman introduced by his friends.
Unexpectedly, this opened a new chapter in his heart, and a new and happy relationship story began.
The beginning of his acting career
You Yongzhi's love for the performing arts can be traced back to his childhood days when he watched the works of movie superstar Wang Xingang. During the movie, he already longed in his heart to become a dazzling star on the screen one day.
This dream has always haunted You Yongzhi's heart and accompanied him through every stage of his life. When he was in high school, he wrote down the passionate words "My dream is to become an excellent actor" in a study summary.
Although he was ridiculed and ridiculed by the teacher in public at that time, this did not break his confidence, but like a fire, his persistence in his dream burned even more.
After entering the Xi'an Drama Theater, You Yongzhi officially began his acting career. Here, he showed exceptional talent and a studious attitude, and soon grew into a mainstay in the theater.
Because of his unique talent, the theater naturally hoped to keep such a valuable talent forever, so when You Yongzhi wanted to further his studies, he explicitly refused to issue him any letter of recommendation.
However, You Yongzhi did not give up on his dream. In order to be able to study in the theater, he did not hesitate to delay important performance tasks and also took exams. In the end, with his outstanding performance, he got his wish and was admitted to the play.
During the play, You Yongzhi was still a naughty and mischievous childish student. His playful and flamboyant personality has made him miss the opportunity to appear in wonderful plays many times.
But it was this childishness that also made him prosperous on campus and the envy of his classmates.
By chance, You Yongzhi got the opportunity to participate in the movie "Crazy". This film not only formed a lifelong fate for him and Xu Qing, who has been secretly in love for many years, but also made him stand out on the screen for the first time.
With his excellent performance in the film, You Yongzhi created a vivid role of a police officer, a novel character that could be described as breaking new ground in domestic films at the time.
The wonderful performance won the favor of major directors, and he has since embarked on the road of Beijing's development.
A model of acting achievement
Beijing, the city that carries You Yongzhi's countless dreams, has witnessed the take-off of his career and the fruitful results of his achievements. As soon as he arrived, You Yongzhi devoted himself to the tide of his acting career.
With his superb acting skills and unique personal charm, he has successively starred in many excellent film and television masterpieces such as "The Bell of Qingliang Temple", "Big Family", "Dream Pastoral", "Emergency Landing" and so on.
Every time it is performed from the heart, and every role is permeated with his dedication to his career.
For the creation of each new character, You Yongzhi will always repeatedly study the script, deeply analyze the character personality, carefully design action scenes for it, and strive to make the character image more vivid and three-dimensional.
For example, in "The Bells of Qingliang Temple", he played an unknown mute role vividly, vividly and naturally, winning direct praise from director Xie Jin as a "powerful faction", and brought him the Golden Rooster Award for Best Supporting Actor nomination.
In addition to his outstanding acting talent, You Yongzhi has a tenacious professional ethics towards his career. Take the drama "Emergency Landing" as an example, after the finale, he only rested for 4 days before devoting himself to the filming of the new play.
For him, only by doing each role to the extreme can he show the true colors and strength of the actor. With this dedication to his work, he has won many heavyweight awards such as the Best Actor at the China TV Golden Eagle Award and the Most Popular Male Artist on CCTV.
In the entertainment industry, You Yongzhi is praised as a powerful person who "eats all the past and present, and moves forward bravely on the spot". Whether it is a modern character or a costume character, he can control it with ease, and interpret the charm of the score in three points.
The gentle son of a family, the big man born from the heart, is not a problem in his hands. As the saying goes, "one minute on stage, ten years of work off the stage", all these achievements embody You Yongzhi's diligent work day after day, year after year.
The journey of life is tortuous and arduous, and masters like directors Xie Jin and Ling Zifeng are undoubtedly important promoters of You Yongzhi's career. Working with them is not only a great stage to show yourself, but also a valuable opportunity for growth and learning.
As he himself said, "Opportunity always favors well-prepared actors, and it is equally important to show your talents."
The artist's bumpy journey
Despite today's success, it has not been all smooth sailing for You. From the initial entry into the Xi'an Drama Theater to his later determination to go to Beijing for development, he has encountered many obstacles and doubts.
When he first joined the Xi'an Drama Theater, You Yongzhi quickly grew into a mainstay of the theater with his extraordinary talent and diligence. But because of his outstanding talent, the theater was afraid of losing such a valuable actor, so when he asked for further study, it explicitly refused to issue him any letter of recommendation.
The theater's behavior is undoubtedly a hurdle for You Yongzhi's development. In order to be admitted to the theater as he wished, he had to delay important performance tasks, and even risked being expelled from the exam.
In the end, although there was no recommendation letter from the theater, with his outstanding performance, he still passed the assessment of the theater as he wished.
After entering the opera campus, You Yongzhi still maintains his childish side. His mischievous and mischievous personality made him popular at school and became the envy of his classmates.
But this also created some obstacles to his growth path, and made him miss the opportunity to appear in excellent plays many times.
The opportunity is rare, and finally by participating in the movie "Crazy", You Yongzhi showed his strength for the first time on the screen and created a distinct image of the role of a police officer.
This novel interpretation of the character was unique in China at that time, and won him the attention of major directors.
However, at this moment, his love life came to a halt. He has been secretly in love with Xu Qing for many years, but during his cooperation with "The Roots of the Imperial City", he accidentally discovered that his sweetheart may have had a long-lasting relationship with Wang Zhiwen.
This news undoubtedly dealt a heavy blow to You Yongzhi, who fell into years-long self-healing.
Fortunately, with the explanation of relatives and friends and the support and encouragement of his family, You Yongzhi finally bravely regained his yearning for love. With the introduction of a friend, he met his wife Shen Rong and started a new love life.
In this way, after experiencing the darkness of the emotional world, You Yongzhi still resolutely chose to embark on the road of Beijing's development.
It is the stage for him to realize his dreams, and it is the best place to show himself and display his talents.