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Time flies, and in an instant, You Yongzhi has entered middle age. This iron-blooded man, who was brave and resolute and full of vitality in the past, has also entered the sunset stage of his life at this moment.
Looking back on his long life journey, he has made outstanding achievements in his career and has won many high-praise and commendations from heavyweight awards. However, there are some holes and flaws in family life that cannot be avoided.
As an outstanding acting star, You Yongzhi has continued to surpass himself and set monuments in his career, but the small world of him and his wife Shen Rong is filled with a touch of coldness and loneliness.
Since they got married, they have never been able to usher in a new life, which brings deep regret to You Yongzhi.
In the prime of his youth, You Yongzhi was full of expectations and longed to have a lively and lovely child, and built a small family full of warmth and happiness with his wife. However, the reality is always so cruel and ruthless, and in the blink of an eye, he has entered the age of knowing his destiny, and the hope of having children has become more and more slim.
However, as an elder who has experienced vicissitudes, You Yongzhi knows that children are certainly the well-being of husband and wife, but they are not the whole of life. As long as the two can still love each other, support each other, and work together, it is enough to be called happy.
Therefore, although the child's wish is difficult to fulfill, You Yongzhi does not have too many regrets and complaints. In the company of his wife Shen Rong, he still lives a plain and quiet life.
It's just occasionally, when he sees other families gathering together and sharing their families, he will inevitably feel a faint sourness in his heart. However, he prefers to be grateful for the life he has now, after all, he has experienced the twists and turns of the emotional road, and now it is really hard to have a close lover by his side.
Looking back on the past, You Yongzhi made mistakes twice on the emotional road due to "impulsiveness", and paid a heavy price for it.
For the first time, he fell in love with his college classmate Liu Xiaochun and quickly entered the palace of marriage. At that time, they fell in love at first sight when they first met, and each other's hearts beat faster. You Yongzhi is burly, dignified, and in the prime of life; And Liu Xiaochun has a beautiful appearance and elegant temperament, which can be called a pair made in heaven.
In that youthful era, they were radiant and sweet, and became the focus of attention on campus.
Shortly after leaving the school gate, the two protagonists decided to enter the palace of marriage without delay, and held that eye-catching grand wedding with enthusiasm. The time after marriage is as sweet as a honeymoon, the two are sweet and affectionate, accompanied by each other day and night, deeply in love with each other, and the happy atmosphere makes everyone intoxicated! .
However, good times are always short-lived. After only a few years, tensions between them began to build up. You Yongzhi, an outstanding actor, is gradually breaking through the bottleneck of acting skills and his acting career is thriving, however, this also makes him negligent in his care for his wife.
He is busy with the filming of film and television dramas all day long, and rarely has time to spend with his family.
And Liu Xiaochun, as a good wife and mother at home, can only watch her husband's return alone, and her heart is full of endless loneliness. The difference in the focus of their lives became the fuse of the contradiction and gradually escalated.
One is to devote himself to his career and neglect his family; The other is looking forward to the early return of her husband and enjoying the warmth of the family.
You Yongzhi is deeply caught in the challenges and successes of his career, and it is difficult to extricate himself; Liu Xiaochun, on the other hand, felt that his married life was drifting farther and farther away, as if he had come to an end. Just when You Yongzhi planned to return to the family wholeheartedly and regain the harmony between husband and wife after completing a movie, Liu Xiaochun could no longer bear this wait and resolutely chose to leave.
Although You Yongzhi tried hard to keep him, Liu Xiaochun's firm determination forced him to give up. As a result, this pair of golden boys and girls on campus in the past are now strangers, all of which are the consequences of You Yongzhi's over-impulsiveness.
The next story is You Yongzhi's passionate pursuit and obsession with the popular actress Xu Qing. He was attracted by Xu Qing's talent and beauty, and took the initiative to launch a fierce offensive, devoting all his energy to caring for her.
He gave all his heart and soul to her, both in life and work, and supported her with all his might, using almost all means.
However, in the face of You Yongzhi's sincere feelings, Xu Qing was always indifferent, and finally chose Wang Zhiwen as his partner. This result undoubtedly dealt a heavy blow to You Yongzhi, causing him to fall into an eight-year trough in his career and relationship.
This is the tragic price that You Yongzhi paid for his "impulsiveness" on the road of love.
In the face of Xu Qing, You Yongzhi can be said to have poured his enthusiasm and wisdom into it. At that time, he was deeply attracted to this radiant actress, and constantly worked hard to pursue this beautiful relationship, eager to win her favor.
In his daily life, You Yongzhi is full of love and thoughtfulness, waiting for the call of life at any time. Whenever he hears any of Xu Qing's needs, he always goes all out and completes them with 100% seriousness.
He cooks with his own hands, satisfying the taste buds of his beloved with elaborate dishes; Seeing her tired expression, he would silently massage her to relieve her stress; Whenever she faced a challenge at work, he always gave encouragement and did everything he could to help.
In terms of career, You Yongzhi firmly supports Xu Qing's every decision. No matter what new plan she proposed, he would not hesitate to accept it and cooperate wholeheartedly, never complaining in the slightest.
Sometimes the work is heavy and you need to be busy day and night, but You Yongzhi always maintains his professionalism and treats every job meticulously. He is like this, expressing his deep friendship with practical actions.
His deep affection for Xu Qing has long been spread in the entertainment industry. Friends heckled him, teasing him for his infatuation, praising him as the embodiment of "true love", and even joking that he was more infatuated than the male protagonist in the novel.
However, in the face of You Yongzhi's sincere confession, Xu Qing remained indifferent and turned a blind eye to his efforts.
Just when You Yongzhi was pursuing it painstakingly, people learned that Xu Qing had already fallen in love with Wang Zhiwen in private. This was undoubtedly a thunderbolt in the clear sky, which deeply pierced You Yongzhi's soft heart.
For him, who has always loved Xu Qing deeply, this news is like a heavy punch, which makes him miserable.
Looking back on the past, the relationship between You Yongzhi and Liu Xiaochun can be called a good story. The two met at the Shanghai Theater Academy and fell in love at first sight, igniting that precious campus romance.
You Yongzhi is burly and handsome, and can be called the prince on campus at that time; And Liu Xiaochun is a beauty with outstanding appearance and elegant temperament, which is simply a match made in heaven.
When they were young, they were radiant and sweet, all showing the vitality of their youth, attracting countless envious eyes on campus.
Soon after graduation, these two talented women did not hesitate to step onto the red carpet, which symbolizes love and commitment. Although You Yongzhi's family background is ordinary, his superb acting skills are eye-catching, and he quickly emerged in the film and television industry and became famous.
And Liu Xiaochun was born in a scholarly family, erudite and talented, and can be called a model of intellectual and elegant women. On the occasion of the newlyweds, they are like glue, incomparably affectionate, accompanied by day and night, and the sweet happiness makes countless people envious.
However, the good times are always short-lived, and in just a few years after their marriage, the conflicts between them gradually accumulate and intensify. As a powerful actor, You Yongzhi's career is thriving, entering his peak, being favored by major film and television companies, and busy shooting all kinds of new works.
However, this also led to his negligence in caring and caring for his wife, making it difficult for him to take care of family affairs.
You Yongzhi runs between sets all day long, and rarely has time to go home to spend with his wife. And Liu Xiaochun, although he existed in name only at this time, could only watch his home alone, waiting for her husband to return, and her heart was full of endless loneliness.
Due to the difference in the focus of their lives, the conflict arose and escalated.
One side is busy and physically and mentally exhausted for the sake of his career; On the other hand, they are looking forward to the early return of their husbands, and they have been longing for a long time. You Yongzhi is intoxicated with the ups and downs of his career and has no time to take care of anything else, while Liu Xiaochun feels that his married life is rapidly on the verge of collapse and does not see any hope.
Just when You Yongzhi planned to devote himself to family life and regain the warmth between husband and wife after completing the filming of a movie, Liu Xiaochun could no longer bear this kind of waiting, and resolutely filed for divorce.
Although You Yongzhi tried hard to save this relationship, Liu Xiaochun had made up his mind, and in the end he had to reluctantly accept the reality. As a result, the golden boy and girl on the former campus are now strangers and have missed the rest of each other's lives.
When the scandal between Xu Qing and Wang Zhiwen came out, it was undoubtedly a heavy blow to You Yongzhi, tearing apart the tenderness in his heart like a thunderbolt in the clear sky. For a long time, he has always regarded Xu Qing as the love of his heart, poured all his emotions into pursuing her, and tried his best to please her.
However, when the woman he loved so much finally chose someone else, You Yongzhi fell into deep pain and despair, as if the whole meaning of life had dissipated.
In the following eight years, You Yongzhi's belief in emotions in the depths of his soul suffered a devastating blow, and the whole person became melancholy and silent. He was often alone in alcohol, and his career came to a serious standstill.
It is difficult for him to find the role he likes on the big screen or TV screen, and he can only play a supporting role.
In the past, You Yongzhi was so heroic and dashing, majestic and high-spirited, however, due to that painful emotional trouble, the course of his entire life completely deviated from the original trajectory.
Just as he was about to fall into the abyss of completely losing himself, his friend Ge You did not hesitate to lend a helping hand and tightly grasped this friend who was on the verge of collapse. Ge You inspired You Yongzhi with his firm belief and advised him not to be bound by the painful experiences of the past, but to stand up bravely and continue to forge ahead in the journey of life.
Ge You knew You Yongzhi's predicament at that time, he was always by his side, patiently enlightening him, guiding him to regain his self-confidence and slowly get out of the haze. Under Ge You's careful care, You Yongzhi finally realized that he must unswervingly go on the road of acting, and he must not be dragged down by those old emotions and shadows that cannot be shaken off.
He began to analyze himself deeply, devoted himself to the study of acting, and gradually regained his love for his career. You Yongzhi has worked hard and practiced diligently, and finally achieved remarkable results in the field of supporting roles, and has been recognized by many important awards one after another.
He rose again from the trough and once again showed his own bright light.
You Yongzhi finally tied the knot with Shen Rong, who was ten years younger than him, and opened a new chapter in his life. The encounter with Shen Rong made him see the dawn of re-embracing love and finding the qualities that his previous two wives lacked.
Shen Rong is gentle and kind, knowledgeable, and a confidant worthy of his affection. You Yongzhi is no longer as fiery as when he pursued his first two wives, but expresses his heart with sincerity.
Perhaps there was some kind of tacit understanding between them, Shen Rong was deeply moved by his sincerity, and the two quickly fell in love after a short time together.
This time, You Yongzhi was not as impatient and impulsive as before, but chose to slow down and experience this new relationship in a leisurely and warm way.
They are like a match made in heaven, sympathizing with each other, supporting each other and spending time together in the most beautiful stage of life. With the blessings of relatives and friends, the couple walked hand in hand into the sacred hall of marriage side by side.
Since then, Shen Rong has become the only and crucial bride in You Yongzhi's life. In the days after marriage, they were in love and sweet, although they have not been able to usher in the crystallization of love, their lives are still full of happiness and laughter.
With Shen Rong, he finally found a spiritual shelter and dispelled the gloom and loneliness that he had been lying for a long time.
Looking back, You Yongzhi knows that being able to marry Shen Rong is largely due to the profound lessons learned from the failure of the previous two marriages.
From these experiences, he learned many valuable truths, how to manage a sincere relationship, and how to maintain a happy family.
He deeply realized that he should not rush for quick success, let alone be blindly impulsive. In the past, he was too passionate about his feelings, and often ignored various factors of reality, thus creating irreparable regrets.
However, in the process of getting along with Shen Rong, he has learned to slow down the pace, use gentle and affectionate steps, to savor the beauty of this love, and to carefully weigh whether each other is really suitable.
In addition, he has learned how to find a balance between family and career, and no longer obsessed with one side as he used to be, so that he ignores the importance of the other.
Only by maintaining this balance can life move forward in harmony and order.