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In the entertainment industry.
You Yongzhi is a radiant actor.
But he has experienced a sad relationship journey.
With 8 years of silence, it tells the pain of an abandoned heart.
With a three-year trough, the desire for new life is precipitated.
When he stood up again, everyone held their breath.
Can a true brave man stand again on the battlefield of emotions?
And what made him regain his new life and achieve his current glory?
Heroes sad beauty off: You Yongzhi and Xu Qing's love and hate
In 1991, You Yongzhi quickly became popular with his first starring movie "Mad".
It's also smooth sailing in my career.
However, he was at his most popular.
But during the filming of the film, he had an affection with Xu Qing.
And after falling in love at first sight, he devoted himself wholeheartedly to the pursuit of Xu Qing.
Even the time after work is dedicated to waiting and accompanying her.
Just when the relationship between the two was developing steadily.
The filming of the TV series "Imperial City Roots" became a turning point in this relationship.
In this drama, Xu Qing's need to cooperate with Wang Zhiwen is gradually frequent.
The acting skills in front of the camera and the communication behind the camera are also very close.
Let the relationship between the two become closer and closer.
This made the sensitive and suspicious You Yongzhi very worried.
It is thought that Xu Qing will be impressed by Wang Zhiwen's charm.
Thus abandoning yourself.
So he entered the crew, just to keep an eye on the two.
However, You Yongzhi could not stop Wang Zhiwen from taking Xu Qing's heart after all.
In this emotional battle, You Yongzhi was defeated.
Caught in deep self-doubt and negative decadence.
After being pulled back to reality by his friend Geyou.
He knew that Xu Qing had chosen Wang Zhiwen.
This blow caused an incomparable wound to You Yongzhi's emotional world.
The bad news of the breakup made You Yong desperate.
He couldn't accept another failed emotionally.
Shut down all day and let alcohol lose yourself.
For the next three years, he had no intention of working, so he could only send people under the fence of Ge You's house.
After this failed romance, You Yongzhi rediscovered himself.
But he no longer dared to try new feelings easily.
Friends and family advised him to let go of the past, but he preferred to pounce on work.
Stop believing in love fairy tales.
In fact, You Yongzhi is not such a delicate person.
Perhaps it is the loneliness of childhood that is difficult to fill.
He craves intimacy too deeply, so once someone pays attention.
They will quickly rely on it and devote themselves wholeheartedly, fearing loss.
But true affection requires both parties to operate together.
Unilateral giving cannot be exchanged for eternity.
When he was disappointed, You Yongzhi was even more afraid of being injured again.
Simply self-isolated, preferring to be alone and no longer believe in romance.
It is reported that he once said that the breakup with Xu Qing broke his heart.
For the next eight years, I couldn't start a new relationship.
Relatives and friends advised him that he did not have to, a successful man.
You don't need to be in a relationship to live well.
But the weakest and hardest part of You Yongzhi's heart.
As early as the breakup, it turned into a deep rift.
However, this is not You Yongzhi's first relationship.
Back in college, he also experienced a failed relationship...
You Yongzhi's first love past
You Yongzhi had a relationship experience before becoming famous.
At that time, he was also studying acting at the Beijing Film Academy.
met Liu Xiaochun, a girl in the same major.
Liu Xiaochun is beautiful and kind, always smiling, giving people a warm feeling.
She doesn't like to dress up, but she has beautiful facial features and fair skin.
Despite his family's superior situation, Liu Xiaochun still likes to be helpful.
This made You Yongzhi appreciate her kindness.
The two quickly fell in love and often held hands for walks around campus.
It is reported that one day, they were chatting by the playground.
A football suddenly flew in and hit Liu Xiaochun directly.
You Yongzhi's eyes were quick, and he hugged her and avoided her.
The football hit the tree hard, causing his elbows and knees to graze.
Liu Xiaochun felt sorry for his injury, and the relationship between the two deepened.
You Yongzhi will often make Liu Xiaochun happy.
He was always able to tell all kinds of funny jokes and stories.
Liu Xiaochun would laugh back and forth after hearing this.
Silver-bell-like laughter echoed in the shade of the trees.
You Yongzhi looked at her eyebrows dancing.
Indescribable happiness and contentment welled up in my heart.
It is reported that after graduation, You Liu and the two got married in Beijing.
At first, life was tight, and Liu Xiaochun never complained.
Just be satisfied with your lover.
You also works hard to improve his life.
But his job was precarious, and Liu Xiaochun gradually felt desperate.
Hopefully he can stabilize.
It is said that on one occasion, Liu Xiaochun asked You Yongzhi for money to buy clothes.
But he glared impatiently.
Liu Xiaochun then discovered that You Yongzhi had changed.
No longer the person who would have cared about her.
At this point, the relationship between the two finally came to an end.
This first love brought sweetness and pain to You Yongzhi.
It became a unique experience in his acting career.
Let him be more mature and stable in his career.
Although the relationship ended in failure.
But it taught You Yongzhi an important lesson about love and responsibility.
This also allows You Yongzhi to cherish and maintain more in the future emotional road.
And after that, he also met his wife Shen Rong, who could accompany him all his life...
You Yongzhi's encounter with his wife Shen Rong
In 1997, You Yongzhi finally ushered in the first highlight of his life.
He played the leading role in the family drama "Big Family".
Play as a successful businessman with a complex personality and a bumpy experience.
You Yongzhi portrayed this character well.
Showed amazing acting talent.
This also won him the honor of Best Actor at the China TV Golden Eagle Award that year.
This undoubtedly greatly encouraged You Yongzhi to continue to work the road of acting.
Three years later, You Yongzhi played a restrained and strong role in the movie "Emergency Landing".
The character is loved by the audience.
He once again contributed a Hundred Flowers Award for Best Supporting Actor to You Yongzhi.
He has won important awards in the television and film circles.
You Yongzhi's acting career has reached a new peak.
The achievements in his career also changed You Yongzhi's fate on the emotional road.
One late spring in 2001, 38-year-old You Yongzhi met Shen Rong, who was 10 years younger than him, on a blind date.
Although the difference is not small, it is wonderful to fall in love at first sight.
Shen Rong is not only young and beautiful, but also a loyal fan of You Yongzhi.
You Yongzhi was initially worried that the age difference between the two was too great.
But Shen Rong said very cheerfully.
Both his parents liked You Yongzhi's works very much.
I don't mind the age difference between the two at all.
Shen Rong's enthusiasm quickly dispelled You Yongzhi's concerns.
It didn't take long for the two to register as a legal couple.
Life after marriage is very happy, and You Yongzhi has also ushered in a peak period in his career.
He starred in many popular dramas that are familiar to the audience and have won many awards.
At the same time, his relationship with his wife is getting better and better.
It is a model of love and happiness.
It is reported that You Yongzhi once said frankly in an interview program.
Every day with my wife is like falling in love.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, You Yongzhi and Shen Rong have reached old age.
Hand in hand through more than 20 spring and autumn years.
Despite not having children, the two are still sweet and carry out their love to the end.
You Yongzhi has experienced failed marriages and painful lovebreaks.
But he did not give up the pursuit of love.
Heaven finally favored this kind and diligent actor.
Let him find true happiness in Shen Rong.
You Yongzhi has suffered betrayal and abandonment from marriage.
At the lowest point in his life, he did not give up and remained focused on his career.
I have also been eager to find true love.
After many years of testing, he finally found a happy marriage here in Shen Rong.
The business was also a great success.
Perhaps, this is the meaning of love, which takes time to precipitate.
Difficulties need to be overcome in order to achieve happiness.
You Yongzhi tells us with his own story.
Just have enough courage and perseverance.
You can overcome the difficulties of life and move towards happiness.
You Yongzhi once said that he and Shen Rong were like a newlywed couple.
Even if we have been together for many years, it is still sweet and sweet.
Maybe this is what true love looks like, without too many words.
As long as two people are together, they feel extremely satisfied and joyful.
And You Yongzhi tells us with his own story.
Just have enough courage and perseverance.
You can overcome the difficulties of life and move towards happiness.
epilogue
In general, on the road to love, we will all encounter ups and downs.
The story of You Yongzhi and Shen Rong inspires us.
But whether they end up really happy.
It remains to be seen.
Because love needs the test of time after all.
Today, 20 years later, is their relationship still the same?
This is left to everyone to think for themselves.
We may never know the truth.
But we can draw strength from their stories.
Believe in the power of love and believe in the meaning of persistence.
Trekkers on every life path.
One day, I will have my own answer.