In a well-to-do family in Xi'an, You Yongzhi grew up in an environment where his parents were busy with work and lacked proper discipline, and eventually grew up to be a rebellious "problem teenager". During his school days, he was idle, unskilled, and often had arguments with his classmates, becoming a headache in the eyes of teachers and parents.
However, at the age of 14, a chance chance changed the trajectory of You Yongzhi's life. You Yongzhi became obsessed with watching movies, a burgeoning hobby that ignited his passion for acting.
You Yongzhi secretly made up his mind to become an actor, however, when he told his classmates about this dream, he was mercilessly ridiculed, and everyone thought it was a "ridiculous" idea.
The god of fate gave You Yongzhi a lucky chance when he was 17 years old. One day, he received an enrollment flyer for the Xi'an Drama Theater on the street, and he did not hesitate to seize the opportunity and resolutely signed up for the selection.
Surprisingly, he successfully passed the assessment and officially stepped into the hall of acting.
After working in the theater for several years, You Yongzhi realized the importance of systematically learning acting skills. He made up his mind to go to university to lay a more solid foundation for his acting dreams.
Because of his love for acting and the spirit of hard work, You Yongzhi was successfully admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy and won the first place in the northwest region.
In this prestigious school, You Yongzhi is eager to acquire professional knowledge and accumulate valuable experience for his future acting career. His diligence and talent have been recognized by his teachers, laying a solid foundation for his future development in the film and television industry.
That's it, the once troubled teenager gradually moved towards his dream of being an actor through his own efforts and firm choices, showing great potential and determination.
After You Yongzhi stepped into the campus of Shanghai Theater Academy, he not only worked hard in his studies, but also encountered the first unforgettable love affair in his life. He fell in love at first sight with Liu Xiaochun from the same school, and the young and sweet love between the two was like a flower in early spring, blooming brilliantly and beautifully.
Liu Xiaochun, beautiful and kind-hearted, the light on his body made You Yongzhi feel excited. You Yongzhi expressed his love, and the meaning seemed to be understood by Liu Xiaochun.
During an unexpected walk, Liu Xiaochun was accidentally attacked by a football, You Yongzhi saw this, blocked the ball with his body, and protected Liu Xiaochun's safety, although he was also bruised, but this move completely touched Liu Xiaochun's heart and made the two officially come together.
Time flies, and the two walked from the campus to the marriage hall together, living a simple life, but enjoying it. However, the pressure of reality is like a double-edged sword, beginning to test their feelings.
You Yongzhi has just entered the society, facing various challenges at work, and often brings pressure home. He wanted to be understood and supported by his wife, but he ignored that she had her own troubles.
Liu Xiaochun is busy with housework such as laundry and cooking every day, and she also has to bear the burden of her husband talking about the pressure of work, and feels physically and mentally exhausted.
Due to the lack of effective communication and mutual understanding, the conflict between the two deepened. You Yongzhi is often frustrated because his wife doesn't understand his feelings, but he doesn't think about his wife's feelings.
They begin to quarrel over various trivial matters, and the once beautiful love is eroded by the troubles of life.
This failed marriage taught the young You Yongzhi that communication and consideration are equally important in love and marriage. Only by supporting each other can we face the challenges of life together.
This marriage had a profound impact on the trajectory of his life.
In 1988, You Yongzhi broke into the showbiz with the movie "The Price of Madness" and launched his acting career. However, what really changed the trajectory of his life was the movie "Crazy" in 1992, in which he collaborated with Xu Qing.
On the set, You Yongzhi was attracted by Xu Qing's beauty and temperament. He recalled: "The woman was wearing an old Beijing cheongsam, with a graceful figure and big and round eyes, as if telling a story."
Xu Qing's unique temperament was like a strong aphrodisiac, and You Yongzhi was instantly intoxicated by her beauty and couldn't extricate himself.
You Yongzhi had warm feelings and launched a fierce pursuit of Xu Qing. He devoted himself to this relationship, and tried his best just to win Xu Qing's love. Finally, he succeeded and turned Xu Qing into his man.
However, this precious relationship is as illusory as a mirage, fleeting.
It didn't take long for Xu Qing and Wang Zhiwen to collaborate on the TV series "Imperial City Roots". Their intimate interaction in the play makes You Yongzhi feel bad, so he tries to salvage the relationship. He begged the director to give him a small role to join the crew, just to protect the relationship.
However, Xu Qing did not choose him in the end.
The trick of fate made Xu Qing finally choose to leave, "I can't bear to tell you the news, but I am in love with someone else." This sentence was like a sharp blade, piercing deep into You Yongzhi's heart, he couldn't accept this fact, and his inner world collapsed instantly.
You Yongzhi collapsed because of the pain of falling out of love. He began to drink to kill his sorrows, indulging day after day, trying to numb his senses with alcohol and escape the cruelty of reality. His friend Ge You couldn't stand him torturing himself like this, and invited him to live at home temporarily.
In this way, You Yongzhi spent three years on the sofa of Ge You's house, and every day was muddy, as if he had lost his soul.
During this low period, You Yongzhi's life lost its direction. Friends couldn't stand his wasted life, and began to persuade him to regain his strength and move towards a positive life. Through the unremitting efforts of his friends, You Yongzhi's mental state gradually improved, and he began to refocus on his career and try to get himself back on track.
You Yongzhi was deeply hurt by the failure of this relationship, and he didn't dare to open his heart easily in the next 8 years, and devoted all his energy to his career, he used his work to numb himself, trying to fill the emptiness in his heart, trying to let the scars gradually heal.
Although he has no leisure to speculate about relationships, You Yongzhi has been steadily rising in his career for the past eight years. He poured all his passion and energy into his acting career, thus gradually gaining a foothold in the film and television industry, paving the way for future glory.
That unforgettable experience made You Yongzhi more cautious emotionally, and also made him deeply realize the importance of finding a balance between career and relationship. This experience became an important turning point in his life, pushing him to work harder and stronger on the road ahead.
After experiencing a low emotional trough, You Yongzhi is determined to change his fate. He heeded the superstitious advice and changed his name "You Yong" to "You Yongzhi", hoping to "change his life against the sky" through this move. Although it seems to be a simple name change, it seems to really touch the wheel of fate and bring an unexpected turn in his life.
In 2003, You Yongzhi ushered in a big turning point in his career, and the TV series "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" starring him became popular all over the country, and his tacit partnership with Li Yapeng made this drama a great success.
You Yongzhi regained the joy of work, and also made the audience remember him as a powerful actor.
You Yongzhi's acting career has risen sharply, so he has starred in many well-known works, including "No Thieves in the World", "Red Cliff", "Canghai", "Doctor's Benevolence", "Ordinary World" and so on. He devoted all his efforts to portray each role, making the character image deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and won unanimous praise from the audience and industry insiders.
In the two movies "No Thieves in the World" and "Our Father", You Yongzhi deeply analyzed the character and portrayed the character image with great affection, which won the love of the audience.
His acting skills can be described as extremely fine, and every look and action is full of dramatic tension, which is unforgettable.
You Yongzhi played the role of Qiu Limin, an old Chinese medicine doctor, in the TV series "County Party Committee Compound", and this role is known as "the most difficult nail household". You Yongzhi's excellent acting skills perfectly integrate the character's stubbornness, kindness and wisdom to create a vivid and vivid character image.
His performance is very tense, both life and artistic, which once again aroused a warm response from the audience, so that his career once again reached a peak and was in the limelight.
You Yongzhi has changed from a frustrated teenager to a powerful actor with his persistence and talent, and he tells us with facts that as long as you don't give up easily, there will be spring.
The take-off of his career is not only a reflection of personal ability, but also the best demonstration of his attitude towards life.
After an eight-year emotional gap, You Yongzhi's fate was completely changed in a chance party in 2001. That day, he met Shen Rong, who was ten years younger than him, and was immediately attracted by her innocence and vitality.
Although the age gap made You Yongzhi a little apprehensive, Shen Rong's good impression of him made no secret of the fact that in the face of You Yongzhi's accosting, she not only did not dislike it, but behaved very actively.
The two quickly came together, as if they had regained the warmth they had missed over the years. However, the relationship was not all smooth sailing. Shen Rong's mother has some concerns about You Yongzhi's age and previous marriage, and is worried about her daughter's future.
She didn't want to give her daughter to a mature man who had been married so hastily.
Fortunately, Shen Rong's father is very optimistic about the lovers. He felt that the two were very suitable and felt that You Yongzhi could take care of his daughter. Under the patient persuasion of his father-in-law, his mother-in-law finally accepted this family business, and You Yongzhi finally got the hard-won happiness.
After You Yongzhi got married, he cherished this relationship. He remembered the lessons of past relationship failures, cared for his wife, and thought about her everywhere. Despite being in the tempting environment of the entertainment industry, he has always been loyal to his wife and has never had any scandals.
His sincerity made his wife feel happy and at ease, and interpreted the true meaning of true love with practical actions.
For more than 20 years, You Yongzhi and Shen Rong's married life is as sweet as their first love. They always treat each other with courtesy, respect each other, and share the joys and challenges of life. While moving forward in his career, You Yongzhi still cares about his family and has become a good husband and father in the hearts of many people.
However, it is a pity that the two have not had children for so many years. Still, it didn't affect their well-being. They deeply understand that as long as the two of them are together, they already have the most precious gift.
You Yongzhi's story tells us that true love will always come at the right time. No matter what setbacks we encounter, as long as we maintain a positive attitude towards life, we will eventually meet someone who can be trusted with a lifetime.
Looking back on You Yongzhi's life, it is like watching a movie with ups and downs. He grew from a troubled teenager in Xi'an to an outstanding student of the Shanghai Theater Academy, experienced the failure of his first love, the heartbreak of Xu Qing's love, and finally achieved brilliant achievements in his career and established a happy marriage with Shen Rong.
His life has had its ups and downs.
The former You Yongzhi once gave up on himself for love, and in the eight years after falling out of love, he closed himself and did not dare to open his heart to others easily. However, this unforgettable experience made him understand the value of true love.
He did not deny love because of a failure, but bravely fell in love with Shen Rong again at the right time, and finally found his own happiness.
You Yongzhi's experience tells us to cherish the present, work hard, and wait for the wonderful chapter of life. Feelings cannot be forced, but they need to be firm. I hope that everyone can be like You Yongzhi, still love life after experiencing setbacks, and finally reap their own happiness.