She has pursued freedom all her life, without the ties of her family, but she has experienced another rich life.
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Author|Wan Muzi
What is a casual, transparent and sober life?
She is Yao Chen's "biological mother", and she plays Su Mingyu's mother, Zhao Meilan, in the TV series "All Very Good".
In reality, she is a powerful actor, Chen Jin.
Although her life is not complete in the worldly sense, she lives a better life than anyone else.
Chen Jin has devoted half of his life to his acting career.
She is a real Grand Slam actress and a well-deserved old drama bone.
She put the Huabiao Award, the Feitian Award, the Magnolia Award, the Hundred Flowers Award, the Golden Rooster Award... I won all kinds of grand prizes.
But excellent as her, but an exception in the entertainment industry.
She made an appointment with her own brother at a very early age:
"If you don't get married for the rest of your life, you won't have children, and when you are old, you will accompany each other."
Although such an idea is incomprehensible, her pursuit of freedom is also admirable.
Because, not everyone has such boldness.
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Only with self-discipline can we be fearless
In 1964, Chen Jin was born in Jinan, Shandong Province, to a fairly good military family.
Perhaps because she grew up in the army dean, she also has self-discipline genes in her bones.
Since she was a child, she has been particularly interested in dialogue drama, and finally with her own efforts, she was admitted to the drama department of Shandong University of Arts.
With excellent professional ability, Chen Jin played the leading role in the drama "Snow Peak Banquet".
With the support of excellent professional ability, the play received rave reviews as soon as it came out, and finally won the Fifth All-Army Literary and Art Performance Award.
In 1998, Chen Jin, who was only 24 years old, starred in the heroine of the movie "Devoured Woman".
After the film was released, it received unanimous praise.
Originally thought that her acting career could always go smoothly.
She went to the interview, and the director was often dissatisfied with her appearance, saying that she didn't look like a heroine.
This is a blow to an actor's self-esteem.
During that time, because she felt uncomfortable in her heart, she didn't care too much about her diet and gained a lot of weight.
The appearance is not outstanding, and the figure is not well managed, and no crew is willing to give her a chance.
Chen Jin began to doubt himself, feeling that he had chosen the wrong path and was really not suitable in this circle?
After hitting a wall one after another, although Chen Jin suffered a lot of setbacks, she did not admit defeat and adjusted her mentality, she wanted to change.
So, Chen Jin made up his mind to control his diet.
She is also ruthless to herself, and staple foods such as white rice will not be eaten if she does not eat.
There are even times when you eat only one peach a day.
This persistence is 20 years.
Luckily, her efforts paid off.
She has won the Flying Award, Golden Eagle Award, Huabiao Award, Magnolia Award and Golden Rooster Award.
These awards are the greatest affirmation of her.
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Half a life, live casually and soberly
Despite her highest honors and achievements in her career, she is a blank slate emotionally.
No marriage, no children, no family of their own.
Chen Jin's unmarried infertility is also related to a "vow" made by his brother Chen Zhun.
In her youth, Chen Jin yearned for freedom, as did her brother Chen Zhun.
But at that time, Chen Zhun was already old enough to start a family, and his parents would often chant this matter in Chen Zhun's ear, and Chen Zhun was a little upset.
Chen Zhun told his sister Chen Jin about this.
Unexpectedly, Chen Jin was very supportive of his decision, she said that she would accompany her brother, and if her brother did not want to get married, then she would be with her brother.
This is only an "agreement" between the two when they were young, and as for the reason why Chen Jin did not choose to get married and have children in adulthood, most of it may be due to busy work.
Coupled with the concept of the value of solitude, at the age of 59, she is still unmarried and childless.
In an interview, when asked about marriage by the host, she confessed:
"Whether you have a family or children, a person will always get along with himself all his life."
Such a view of marriage and life is really transparent and sober.
Yang Wei said: "People who live transparently do not have a relationship that they particularly want to maintain, nor do they have anything they particularly want, those who approach do not resist, those who leave are not forced to stay, and they are too lazy to even consider losses." ”
In fact, loners are really powerful, they can not care about the eyes of others, can not be bound by other people's thoughts.
They live freely, casually, transparently and soberly.
Truly enjoy being yourself!
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Live another life without family bonds
"You can do without men, but you definitely can't do without jewelry."
This is what Chen Jin said.
In addition to filming, Chen Jin's biggest hobby is jewelry.
In an interview, Chen Jin also said that he likes to collect jadeite, and even has a cabinet of collections at home.
It is reported that the most expensive set of jade jewelry that Chen Jin wore in an event was as high as 300 million.
Some people also picked up that Chen Jin's jade necklace in the play was also suspected to be his personal belongings.
It can be seen that Chen Jin really loves Jadeite deeply.
In addition to jewelry, Chen Jin is actually very frugal in real life.
She wears no designer brands or expensive cosmetics.
She really doesn't have much pursuit in terms of material.
Jewelry collecting is just a hobby.
She has pursued freedom all her life, without the ties of her family, but she has experienced another rich life.
People who are alone with themselves sometimes seem to be lonely, but in fact they actively choose to stay away from the hustle and bustle.
Because they're strong inside, they don't care what other people think, what you think, that's your business, how I live, that's my business.
They always believe in the saying that low-quality social interaction is far inferior to high-quality solitude.
Enjoying yourself in your own world doesn't matter in someone else's world.
The circle is small, there are few things, it is very good, the mind is calm, the heart is calm, and it is also very good.
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Author: Wan Muzi, CCDM China career planner, BSC senior career planner, American Shubo School career planner, more than 9 years of enterprise project management, registered international psychological consultant, more than 5 years of corporate training lecturer, platform signed author, mother of two children.