Before lu Liangwei met Yang Xiaojuan, he had been divorced twice, and both marriages were very short, no more than 1 year.
Lü Liangwei's first wife was Zhou Haimei, when Zhou Haimei was young, how beautiful, needless to say, the two fell in love in 1985 because of drama, 4 years later, into the palace of marriage, when Lu Liangwei was 33 years old, Zhou Haimei was 23 years old.
Because of the age gap led to personality conflicts, the contradictions between the two were manifested shortly after marriage, Lu Liangwei had a stable personality and a bit of machismo, while Zhou Haimei was born into a wealthy family, and some pampered princess tempers, these two personalities, when in love, may be positive energy driving factors, but put in the marriage after the chai rice oil salt is counterproductive.
Zhou Haimei likes to lie in bed, plus there is no regular shooting time, so she often sleeps until the sun is three poles, which makes Lu Liangwei's father very dissatisfied, once, Lü Fu complained to his son, complaining that Zhou Haimei did not get up, did not make breakfast for himself, and asked his son to manage a tube of daughter-in-law.
After Listening to It, Lu Liangwei said to Zhou Haimei that now that he is married, his father's health is not good, you sleep lazily every day, and it is not okay to take care of your father. Zhou Haimei was naturally dissatisfied when she heard it, and she retorted that she had been the one who had been served since she was a child, and it was a little difficult to serve people, and her own work was so tired that she had no time to take care of Lu Fu.
Hearing this, Lu Liangwei's machismo immediately surged into his heart, and his tone of speech was no longer gentle, and after that, the corners of the two mouths continued, and finally ended in divorce.
To be fair, Zhou Haimei is a bit overdone in this matter, but Lu Liangwei also did not consider the problem from his wife's point of view, if he can understand his wife, put himself in Zhou Haimei's position to consider the problem, speak more peacefully, less machismo, may not make a divorce, after all, a person's transformation takes time.
Lu Liangwei's second wife is called Kwong Meiyun, her popularity may not be as good as Zhou Haimei, but she is also a full beauty, she is the runner-up of Hong Kong sisters in 1982, and Weng Meiling, who is known as the most classic Huang Rong, is the eighth place in this Year's Hong Kong sister beauty pageant, which shows Kwong Meiyun's style.
The two had known each other since 1987, and Lu Liangwei was very fond of her, saying: "The first time I looked at her and smiled, she could convey that firm and warm kindness to you." However, at that time, Lu Liangwei had Zhou Haimei, and the two sides buried their feelings deep in their hearts.
Fate is always so unexpected, after Lü Liangwei divorced, at a party, met with Kwong Meiyun again, at this time, the feelings of the two quickly warmed up, Lu Liangwei launched a fierce love offensive, and Kwong Meiyun, who was deeply in love, offered to get married.
In 1996, the two held a grand wedding, He Jiajin was the best man, Zhong Liti was the bridesmaid, and the TV station also broadcast the whole process, however, the marriage finally broke up, and even when they parted ways, the two had not yet registered. Later, Lu Liangwei lamented in his autobiography that marrying Kwong Meiyun was a fate. He said: "I lost a friend who didn't talk about anything and got a marriage that couldn't be looked back on. ”
As for the reason for the breakup, the two are still secretive.
In 1997, when the Asian financial crisis swept through Hong Kong, Lu Liangwei not only became poor overnight, but also became heavily indebted, in which case he had to go to the mainland to develop.
Because he was collected by the creditor, his life was very helpless, and at this moment, a woman appeared in front of his eyes, bringing him a long-lost warmth, this person was Lu Liangwei's third wife, Yang Xiaojuan.
Guizhou girl Yang Xiaojuan, born in 1970, the family is superior, graduated from the Department of Economics of Peking University, she herself is still a strong woman, the two met at a dinner party, at that time, the two inadvertently talked about Lu Liangwei paint company, he once opened a paint company, the result was the so-called friend pit, more importantly, most of the funds of the registered company are borrowed, which makes him a headache.
Yang Xiaojuan, as a professional, helped Lü Liangwei to check the contract, and found the loopholes, suggested that Lu Liangwei sue, after this incident, Lu Liangwei looked at Yang Xiaojuan with a general appearance, and in getting along, Yang Xiaojuan also had love for the attractive man in front of him, and had repeatedly hinted intentionally or unintentionally.
As a veteran of the love scene, Lu Liangwei naturally understood Yang Xiaojuan's meaning, but he said that he could not accept Yang Xiaojuan, for two reasons, first, he was 15 years older than Yang Xiaojuan, and he had two failed marriages, while Yang Xiaojuan was unmarried. Second, he is heavily indebted and unwilling to drag Yang Xiaojuan's hind legs. Lu Liangwei even came up with his own debt slips, a total of 20 million.
However, Yang Xiaojuan did not care, she said that this debt is not nothing, as long as they are active and motivated, the two work together, it is not difficult to pay off. Yang Xiaojuan said this, and did this, once, two creditors rushed to Beijing to find Lu Liangwei to ask for a debt, Yang Xiaojuan did not hesitate, directly took the valuable jewelry to the other party, indicating that the money will be paid off.
After that, Yang Xiaojuan began to take care of Lu Liangwei's career, and with the help of Yang Xiaojuan, Lü Liangwei quickly turned over. At the same time, the two also summed up future marriages.
Seeing this, is it not to give people a feeling - full of money taste. If the mediocre-looking Yang Xiaojuan can't help Lu Liangwei make a comeback, will he still mention the marriage with Yang Xiaojuan? From another point of view, did Yang Xiaojuan tie Up Lu Liangwei's heart with money?
Later, it turned out that human nature is still more innocent, less calculated, in any case, the two people's emotional festival festival, Yang Xiaojuan ignored her parents' opposition, and had to marry Lu Liangwei in April 2001, in fact, it was also a bit of a forced palace, because Yang Xiaojuan was pregnant at that time.
When you lose, the person who is willing to accompany you is always worth cherishing.
With the encouragement and support of Yang Xiaojuan, Lu Liangwei not only took over many scenes, but also managed the company's industry under his command, and now, the value of the two has long exceeded 100 million.
And this marriage that was not optimistic about many people at that time has also lasted until now, for a full 20 years, no accidents, basically white head and old age.
As for their happiness? Again, this is a question of the soul!
The answer is yes, and this is evident from Lu Liangwei's vibrato, as he said: "Where there is a wife, there is happiness." ”