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For Zhu Xun, many people say that she is a "desperate third lady".
Indeed it is.
She has been hosting for more than thirty years now, with few mistakes.
And her colleagues mentioned Zhu Xun, all of them admired.
Every time she looked for Zhu Xun for something, she was either recording a program, busy on the spot, or going out.
Not once was it to sit down on a stool and rest, or take a sip of tea to watch others at work.
They all said that Zhu Xun was too desperate.
They persuaded Zhu Xun to take care of her body and let her rest more.
"But I never feel tired."
In the face of everyone's persuasion, Zhu Xun replied.
All this time, everyone did not understand.
Until later, she was on an interview show and had such a conversation with the host.
"You have always been a character of a desperate third lady, known as Zhu Dao, right?"
"They say I'm tired, they say I'm a model worker, but I never feel tired myself, and since I was seventeen years old, I have earned more every day."
If you say, simply hear this sentence.
You may think that Zhu Xun is deliberately elevating himself, but when you understand Zhu Xun's experience.
You will find that she is not exalting herself and making a gesture.
But really experienced life and death, looked down on life and death.
As she put it:
"Life will end, so why not be bold."
"If you want to study abroad, your family will not bear a penny, and you can make money yourself."
Zhu Xun, who was 17 years old that year, wanted to study in Japan.
After telling his parents about his decision, he exchanged such a sentence from his mother.
At that moment, Zhu Xun was sad.
She didn't expect her mother to say such desperate words.
Will clearly tell himself that not a penny will come out.
Her mother did not understand Zhu Xun's desire to study in Japan.
Of course, not only Zhu Xun's mother did not understand, but also the relatives and friends around him did not understand.
Because when Zhu Xun was 14 years old, he was favored by CCTV.
Became the host of the program "Our Generation".
In those years, she hosted shows and starred in films, and her future was promising.
So my mother couldn't understand Zhu Xun's idea of giving up her future and studying abroad.
But Zhu Xun wants to study in Japan, on the one hand, to enrich himself.
On the other hand, there is the desire to run to family affection.
As a child, my mother was never close to her.
Fundamentally, because she is a girl.
After her mother married her father, she gave birth to two girls in a row.
When I was pregnant with her, I always thought it was a boy.
So he was named Zhu Xun early.
Who knows that after giving birth, she will still be a girl.
This is a heavy blow for parents expecting the boy.
And the third child is still a girl, and in the eyes of the neighbors, it is a broken root.
Every time my mother went out, she was sneered at by others.
It happened that my father worked in Japan, so I couldn't stand gossip and strange eyes.
With the eldest and second, he went to Japan to reunite with his father.
Only Zhu Xun and his grandmother were left to rely on each other.
It can be said that Zhu Xun has not felt the warmth of family since he was a child.
But she expects the love of her parents.
She wants to study in Japan, and she is also looking forward to a family reunion.
Unexpectedly, this idea was opposed by the mother.
She always thought that her mother had left her in the country.
It's because of the last resort.
But this time I realized that there was not much love.
However, Zhu Xun is a persistent person.
If you want to study in Japan, you must go.
She applied to Asia University in Japan and was successfully accepted.
After receiving the acceptance letter, I went to Japan with my savings from those years.
Although I live in my eldest sister's home, the tuition is still not enough.
To put it mildly, my mother gave me one semester's tuition.
But it was only one semester, and the rest was up to her to figure it out on her own.
And the money in Zhu Xun's hands is not enough.
If you want to sustain it, it is impossible.
So Zhu Xun began to look around for short-term workers.
No matter what kind of work, as long as you give money, Zhu Xun will take it.
Even cleaned the toilet.
In those days, he was a toilet cleaner in a foreign country.
Zhu Xun was subjected to a lot of white eyes and bullying.
Once, she accidentally splashed water on a guest.
At that time, Zhu Xun immediately apologized, but the guest still did not adhere to it.
And colleagues who work with Zhu Xun.
Not only did he not want to find a way to solve the siege, but he also wore gloves that had just finished taking out the toilet.
Directly pressed on Zhu Xun's head, forcing her to kneel and bend.
This made Zhu Xun feel great shame.
But she couldn't resist because she needed the job.
Watching Zhu Xun suffer for money, his mother didn't say a word.
And Zhu Xun also saved enough money under such a difficult situation.
That's enough money to support the entire university.
But she didn't wait for her to breathe a sigh of relief.
The disease came to the door with pain.
Zhu Xun was found to have vascular cancer.
17 years old, a young age.
In a foreign country, the disease came, and life forced her into a corner between life and death.
Whoever it is replaced will collapse.
But Zhu Xun didn't.
First call from the hospital.
Zhu Xun was not flustered.
She turned to her mother for help, but was met with indifference.
At that time, doctors told her she needed two surgeries.
She hoped that her mother would accompany her.
But the mother, excused her busyness, refused.
After the second operation, my mother came to the hospital with half a piece of watermelon.
After coming, he only said two words and left.
Not to mention care.
The mother's indifference and disregard, the torment of illness and the proximity of death.
Zhu Xun almost collapsed.
A patient, or a cancer patient, is unaccompanied in the hospital.
It is a very heavy blow to both psychology and physiology.
"She stayed with me for half an hour and left, and before leaving, she put half a watermelon next to my bed, but at that time I was so painful that I couldn't spit out the watermelon seeds, so I could only swallow it."
"In the middle of the night, when I am hungry, I will eat a bite, because there is no one to feed me."
When he said these words, many years had passed since he fell ill, but Zhu Xun was still in tears.
She also wants to live, even if she faces the disease alone.
Fortunately, after the second operation, Zhu Xun was cured.
"This experience has made me go to bravery, take the initiative and embrace life, accept it without tension, and reach a reconciliation with my body, so easily I can cross this hurdle."
After recovering from his illness, Zhu Xun returned to school and ushered in the peak of his career.
First he was favored by NHK and became a host.
After that, he hosted the "Sino-Chinese Lecture" and "China-Japan Song Meeting".
During this period, he also starred in two films.
A succession of large-scale program hosts quickly made her famous in Japan.
Unfortunately, the career is in a good time.
Zhu Xun received a call from home.
The mother developed a hemangioma.
In order to take good care of his mother, Zhu Xun returned to China.
Accompanied his mother to treat his illness, and at the same time applied for the host of "Zhengda Variety Show".
At that time, Zhu Xun had just returned to China and was not comfortable with everything.
And the mother also needs treatment, and the pressure is so high that she always has insomnia.
But she does not admit defeat, in order to adapt to the rhythm of the country.
In her spare time to take care of her mother, she is studying with her life.
Slowly became the best host in China.
When the domestic business is developing smoothly.
The nightmare came again.
Zhu Xun suffered from cancer again.
This time, she still hoped that her mother would see her more.
Unexpectedly, my mother was still indifferent.
His mother's indifference made Zhu Xun fall into self-doubt.
She called her mother on the show many times and talked about the relationship between mother and daughter.
"That day, she walked forward without looking back, so righteous, I stood alone at the drop-off gate, looked at her and said: No, no, I hope my mother can look back at me, say you go back, mom is fine, but mom didn't, she walked so firmly and without turning back."
"I often ask my mom, Mom, do you really love me, why do you never look back at me."
Zhu Xun had burst into tears one question after another, but no one answered this question.
Fortunately, at that time, Zhu Xun was accompanied by his lover.
Her husband is also a moderator named Wang Zhi.
When the two first met, Zhu Xun was already famous in China.
And Wang Zhi is not famous.
They thought they wouldn't come together, but they didn't expect them to get married.
After marriage, I lived happily.
Especially Wang Zhi's mother.
Love Zhu Xun as if she were a daughter.
When Zhu Xun was in confinement, he took care of everything.
The gentle care of her mother-in-law made Zhu Xun, who had never felt her mother's love, feel warmth.
With a career and a family, the unhappiness of her life will eventually be cured.
Life will end, so why not be bold.
Zhu Xun's words can be called classics.
But ordinary people, incomprehensible.
After all
Not everyone can experience cancer twice in their lifetime.
Nor is it anyone who can compete with death twice for life.
It was also Zhu Xun's strength that allowed her to avoid the scythe of death.
It is precisely because of this that she thinks that from the age of 17, she will earn one more day of living.
The title of "desperate three niangs", there are a few people in the circle who can do it.
Zhao Liying has, it was her ten-year filming, in exchange for a glory.
Zhu Xun also has it, it is her two cancers, never compromised, worked hard, did not waste a minute, in exchange for glory.
Many people chase stars, or they like faces, or they like talent.
But I like Zhu Xun, but I appreciate it.
Appreciate her strength, her abilities, her talents, and her experiences.
She is like a rose growing on a cliff, subjected to wind and rain every day, and strong winds.
But it still bloomed with fiery red flowers.
She can become a CCTV host and can become a host appreciated by the public.
It is the glory of itself and the existence that we should worship.
Especially her understanding of life, her attitude towards life.
Chasing stars when chasing Zhu Xun.
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