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Peach Blossom Eyes
Peach Blossom Eyes
Preamble:
A girl, lacking the love of her parents since she was a child, studied and worked hard in a foreign country alone, helpless and lonely in the face of illness.
There are small achievements in the career, but they have to hover between honoring their parents and self-development.
Her relatives left her one by one, and the hardships of life followed.
In the face of the heavy blow of fate, what supports her to move forward? Does Zhu Xun's experience also resonate with you in your heart?
In this era, more and more people have to travel far away from home, adrift, and bear the double pressure of career and family.
How should the wounds in their hearts be healed? Let's go into Zhu Xun's story and look for that glimmer of hope.
Lonely childhood
In 1968, Zhu Xun was born in a family of ordinary workers in Hunan.
The parents didn't like this little daughter born unexpectedly, and soon after Zhu Xun was born, they both went abroad to work, leaving her young to be raised by her grandmother.
Zhu Xun in childhood, the biggest wish every day is that his parents can come back as soon as possible and the family can live happily together.
But the reality is ruthless, and the parents have not heard from them for many years, as if they have completely forgotten this daughter.
However, there was little news from the parents.
In Zhu Xun's memory, they neither attended her birthday nor wrote to her.
Zhu Xun often asked his grandmother when his parents would come back, but his grandmother just sighed and shook her head.
Gradually, Zhu Xun understood a cruel reality - his parents would not come back for a while.
Her heart was full of questions: Do I really make them so annoying? Or is it that in their hearts, career is always higher than that of their daughter? The sensitive heart of the girl planted the seeds of inferiority and doubt.
Although Zhu Xun could not get the love of her parents, she was optimistic and cheerful by nature.
Grandma loves her, and although she lives poorly, she is also happy.
Grandma taught her a lot of principles of being a human being, telling her to be strong and independent, study hard, and become a useful person in society in the future.
Zhu Xun remembered her grandmother's teachings and did not let the hardships of her childhood kill her dreams.
At the age of 14, by chance, Zhu Xun became the host of CCTV with his beautiful appearance and good eloquence.
This made her, who has always lived in a small city, see the colorful metropolis for the first time, and her heart is extremely yearning.
She secretly vowed that she must realize the value of life through her own efforts and make her grandmother proud of herself.
Study in Japan
Zhu Xun decided to go to the United States, the birthplace of the film and television industry, to further her studies, but on the eve of leaving, her parents called from abroad and asked her to go to Japan to study.
Zhu Xun had mixed feelings in his heart, on the one hand, he was relieved that his parents were finally willing to care about him, and on the other hand, he was disappointed in their capriciousness.
But she still chose to respect her parents' decision.
Although Zhu Xun didn't understand why his parents suddenly cared about his studies, he still gave up the opportunity to go to the United States and went to Japan to study with a glimmer of expectation for them.
She hopes to take this opportunity to repair her relationship with her parents and regain their love.
Zhu Xun, who had just arrived in a foreign country, faced the dilemma of language barrier and expensive tuition, so she had to go to work to earn living expenses.
My first job turned out to be to clean the toilet for others.
Despite being bullied and despised, Zhu Xun gritted his teeth and persevered, and completed his studies by working and studying.
The hardships of living in a foreign country made Zhu Xun experience the warmth and coldness of human feelings and the coldness of the world.
But instead of becoming cynical, she developed the qualities of hard-working and perseverance.
She is convinced that as long as she studies hard and masters real skills, she will one day be able to live a decent life.
Unexpectedly, just when Zhu Xun was just adapting to life in Japan, a serious illness quietly struck.
When she was young, she was diagnosed with a cerebral hemangioma, and the doctor ordered surgery as soon as possible.
This bad news is undoubtedly worse.
Zhu Xun, who was alone in a foreign country, felt extremely desperate in the face of high surgical fees.
She couldn't help but ask herself, why did fate always play such cruel jokes on me, and was it that I was destined to endure the test of these sufferings?
A ray of light in despair
Lying on the hospital bed, Zhu Xun plucked up the courage to call his parents, hoping that they would come to Japan to take care of themselves.
On the other end of the phone, my father was silent for a moment, only said "take care", and then hung up in a hurry.
Her mother came to see her once, but she only stayed for half an hour and left, without even eating a meal.
Zhu Xun's heart was once again wounded.
She couldn't understand why she couldn't even get a little sympathy and love from her parents when she was sick.
Is it true that in their eyes, they are really worthless?
Zhu Xun was desperate.
The torture of illness, the loneliness of a foreign country, and the indifference of her parents almost crushed her.
Fortunately, a kind doctor took good care of her and contacted her for a low-cost surgery, which saved her life.
After recovery, Zhu Xun couldn't calm down for a long time.
This serious illness made her clearly realize that only self-reliance and self-improvement are the foundation of survival.
From then on, she secretly vowed to prove herself with her strength and become an excellent and powerful person.
This ordeal stimulated Zhu Xun's long-dormant fighting spirit.
Since then, Zhu Xun has studied harder.
She knows that only by her own ability can she gain a foothold in this world.
After graduation, Zhu Xun returned to China to develop his career, and soon emerged in the hosting industry and became a CCTV celebrity loved by the audience.
Step by step, she relied entirely on her own efforts and persistence.
It is also in the experience of his career that Zhu Xun gradually regained his long-lost self-confidence, and his heart became stronger and stronger.
She is grateful for the hardships of these years and allowed her to grow into a woman in her own right.
Inseparable family affection
When his career was booming, Zhu Xun's mother was diagnosed with cataracts.
In order to treat his mother's illness, Zhu Xun resolutely gave up the opportunity to study abroad, stayed in China to take care of his mother, and paid high medical expenses.
Although his mother neglected Zhu Xun for many years, Zhu Xun never resented.
She always remembers her mother's kindness in giving birth and raising, and longs to use her filial piety to warm her mother's old age and make up for each other's regrets.
Not long after his mother recovered, his father was diagnosed with terminal cancer, and Zhu Xun became his father's backbone again.
Facing his seriously ill father, Zhu Xun put down all his work and took care of him, hoping to accompany his father through the last journey of his life.
Taking care of his parents who had been ill for a long time, Zhu Xun was physically and mentally exhausted, and he was also diagnosed with a vocal cord tumor.
At a low point in her life, she felt the warmth of her family for the first time.
Her in-laws worked tirelessly to take care of her and encourage her to overcome her illness.
With the support of his relatives, Zhu Xun overcame the difficulties and his condition gradually improved.
This experience made Zhu Xun truly understand the value of family affection.
She is grateful for the kindness of her in-laws, and she is also grateful to her husband for his support and tolerance.
Since then, home has become a harbor for Zhu Xun's soul, no matter what the wind and rain outside, there is a place to go back.
However, blessings and misfortunes lurk.
Not long after my father died, not long after I was reunited with my mother, my mother died of illness.
Zhu Xun was so grief-stricken that he couldn't cry.
She kept asking herself why God played such a trick on people, so that before she had time to honor her parents and express her love, they passed away like this.
Guilt and reluctance almost swallowed Zhu Xun.
But she knows that no matter how difficult life is, she must raise her head and start again.
Because she is burdened with the expectations of her parents, and she is also responsible for her family.
She wants to use her strength to support this unfortunate family.
Epilogue:
Zhu Xun's life is full of ups and downs.
The indifference of her parents, the torture of illness, and the death of her relatives did not break her, but instead created a tenacious, optimistic, self-reliant and self-reliant woman.
Although fate is unpredictable and the world is unpredictable, as long as you have the support of family and inner strength, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.
As Zhu Xun said, "Life has taught us to learn to reconcile with suffering and be able to get back up after falling, which is the most precious treasure in life." "
Zhu Xun's story has inspired countless people who are struggling on the road of life.
That is, don't be trapped by the trauma of the past, dare to come out of the haze and embrace a new life.
Maybe everyone will experience different hardships, but as long as you have hope and never give up, you will definitely be able to wait for your own clear sky.
Let us take Zhu Xun as an example, learn self-love and self-respect, learn to be grateful for life, and embrace every day of life with a positive and optimistic attitude.
This world has never owed anyone, nor does it favor anyone.
Only by cherishing the people in front of you and being kind to the things around you can you reap happiness and joy.
May everyone who has fallen be able to get back on his feet; May every wounded heart be healed.
Life always goes on, and hope lies ahead.
Let us walk hand in hand and warm this world with love and kindness.