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Some people say that life is like an extreme journey, and if you can't enjoy happiness, you can only endure hardships.
When the opportunity comes, brings the opportunity to become rich, and becomes a rich person, then you may be able to live a comfortable life and no longer work for food, clothing, shelter and transportation. So, you think the world is worth it.
However, if you do not encounter opportunities in your life, continue to work hard, but it is difficult to accumulate wealth, and suffering continues to surround, making life worse. At this point, you may be disappointed in the world.
Life, like human destiny, is often "the fierce and fearful of the strong". "Big fish eat small fish, small fish eat shrimp", who has more powerful power, life will let who enjoy happiness; Whoever is weak will suffer more in life.
There is an old saying: "Thunder splits true filial piety, wealth is ruthless." The hemp rope is specially selected and broken, and the bad luck is specifically looking for the bitter man. "Life seems to be more inclined to bully the poor, and Buddhism seems to be more willing to help the rich.
There is no way to do it, but sometimes it can cause harm. The sudden distress brought great pain.
First, you can't make money, but your family is sick.
There is a phenomenon in life that the families of wealthy people are usually healthy and unharmed. The families of the poor are plagued by illness for many years, and even if they are sick, they are often afraid to seek medical treatment.
We can consider the question, why is the former happier and the latter more unhappy?
The answer is simple and clear, rich people don't have to be exposed to the sun and rain to make a living, nor do they need to overdraw their bodies to earn money overtime, so they have more time to take care of their bodies. However, the poor always have to experience storms and sunshine, and perennial diseases are commonplace.
Of course, if you don't make enough money, but you are healthy, life can still go on. On the contrary, if you can't make enough money and your health is not good, life becomes bleak and full of despair.
"Poverty and disease", poverty and disease are intertwined, this is the cruelest scene in life.
If you have difficulty making money, you may wish to let go of the burden of your body and cherish life.
Second, if life is not good now, children may repeat the same mistakes.
As parents, we often want our children to be "better off than us" and realize their aspirations for better generations to come. However, this vision is often difficult to achieve.
The current reality shows that most children do not surpass their parents, and some are even inferior to their parents. Even though parents work hard, children are often mediocre, unable to earn enough money, or even unemployed after graduation.
Not so long ago, there was such a story. A father who works as a takeaway saves money to provide for his children's college education. However, after graduation, the children followed their father to do takeaway, which made his father feel helpless.
Why is it so difficult for children to surpass their parents and change their destiny? The answer lies in the fact that background, relationships, resources, and capital are crucial. Without this, poverty is often difficult to change, even after a lifetime of hard work.
Han Yue of the Tang Dynasty once said: "Maxima is often there, but Bole is not often." "Maxima, that is, gifted people, are everywhere. And there are very few Bo Lè who really know how to discover Maxima.
It is difficult for children to surpass their parents, or even inferior to their parents, indicating that the development of the family has reached a bottleneck.
Third, the turning point of life is always contrary to the original intention, and it is difficult to realize the wish.
Many people have dreams of becoming doctors or celebrities as children, but spend their adult lives in ordinary white-collar jobs. Some people are ambitious as children, but find that they are just ordinary people after all.
Ordinary and ordinary are actually the norm in most people's lives. The most disturbing thing is that many ordinary and ordinary people often find it difficult to get their wishes, and encounter the reality that backfires.
For example, when you see someone else making a lot of money buying a stock, you follow suit yourself, but you lose nothing and your savings for many years are wiped out. This is the saying "if you have the intention to plant flowers and flowers, you will not open the willows without intention". Deliberate pursuit is often counterproductive, while a calm mind is more likely to succeed.
For example, people who are eager to make money often do not do so. They may want to pay off their debts as quickly as possible, but they unexpectedly lose their jobs and then struggle to find new jobs, leaving debts on their lives like boulders.
It is almost impossible for ordinary migrant workers to achieve their wishes. The reality is brutal.
Life is full of challenges, unemployment means hardship, unable to maintain a family.
Someone once made the point that young people today may work 996 a week, but they can choose; Older people, on the other hand, enjoy leisure despite retirement. Only middle-aged people, trapped by anxiety, can only strive to move forward.
Today's young people may not be married or have children, but can focus on developing themselves and ensuring the livelihood of the whole family. The elderly have some savings, or have real estate as a pension guarantee.
Middle-aged people are different, they have families, there are old people, there are children, life is very stressful, and the first task every day is how to earn money to maintain family expenses. Once unemployed, middle-aged people will be in trouble.
Layoffs are fairly common among middle-aged people. Today's companies are more inclined to recruit employees under the age of 30, and many over the age of 30 have been laid off.
The most frustrating thing for middle-aged people is that they become "overwhelmed." In the harsh winter season, middle-aged people who do not have connections and backstage are easily swallowed by the cold wind.
This is exactly what the saying goes, "People in the rivers and lakes, they can't help themselves". Sometimes, our destiny is beyond our control.
Written by Serena Nightingale;
Follow me and let the rhythm of words compose the music of life;
"The nightingale jumps in the moonlight, its feathers shining silver. Its singing voice was like a burst of beautiful music that deeply touched my soul. "