Half a year of unemployment made me understand a few things: it is recommended that friends who have left or are considering leaving their jobs come in and take a look.
1. Learn to save for emergencies. Naked remarks are not terrible, and layoffs are not terrible. The most terrible thing is that there is no income after losing your job. If you do not have enough savings, or do not have the ability to earn passive income, it is advisable to think carefully before resigning. Don't overspend at ordinary times, and be sure to learn to save for emergencies. Otherwise, there will be only anxiety during unemployment. Follow the rule of two eight: don't quit your business or do self-media nakedly without any accumulation at all, because real entrepreneurship and doing self-media is not as simple as it is said on the Internet.
The best way for most people to save money is to work, you can understand and try, but don't take naked words as self-media as a lifesaver. If you need to look for a job, you still have to actively look for it.
3. Reasonable planning time. If you lose your job, don't be overly anxious and don't blame yourself. Plan your day well, don't stay up late, don't do nothing all day. Three irregular meals and doing nothing are not a good option. Only by making the most of the rest time can you make life more fulfilling. You can use the morning time to study and the afternoon time to write resumes and research recruitment. Only in this way can life be more fulfilling and without anxiety.
4. Action is the best way to cure anxiety. If you can't find a job, don't be afraid to do takeaway or Didi driver. Do not be afraid, do not be afraid, only practical actions can have results.
The general rushed and did not chase the rabbit. When you focus on what you want to do, you don't feel fear and anxiety. Maybe there will be a windfall.
5. Believe that you can do it. Whether it's an interview failure or a parent's accusation, or a PUA for leadership, don't doubt your worth. Time does not stand still because no one is paying attention, and the moon does not stop rising because there is no sun.
Everything in the world has its value. We don't have to equate our worth with what others say. We will eventually be the best version of ourselves, come on!