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Whether you want a child is not a fill-in-the-blank question, but a multiple-choice question; Everyone has a choice. But choosing not to have children will definitely regret it, although you may regret having a child.
There are many people in life who regret having children. They may feel that they have more to pursue in their careers, or they may enjoy a free and independent lifestyle. Some people worry that children will limit their personal development and make them lose their interests and passions. They may be afraid to take on the responsibilities of parenthood and not be able to give their children enough love and education.
In addition, the stress of life is also a consideration. Raising children takes a lot of time, money, and energy. Some people worry that they will not be able to bear this financial and psychological burden. They may be concerned that having children will adversely affect their careers and finances.
In addition, changes in society have also affected people's attitudes towards fertility. In modern society, people face more and more choices and opportunities. Women's opportunities to pursue careers are increasing, and traditional family structures and values are changing. These factors make some people skeptical about fertility.
There is no denying that parenting is indeed a huge challenge. Children's education and growth require the attention and commitment of parents. Raising children requires patience, perseverance, and boundless love. This is not an easy task, but one that requires effort and sacrifice.
However, despite the possibility of regretting having a child, many parents still consider children to be the most important part of life. They get great joy and satisfaction from their children. Watching children grow up healthy, hearing their laughter and greetings, and feeling their love for their parents, the joy brought by this parent-child relationship is incomparable.
Take the people around me as an example, many colleagues and neighbors have thought about not having children, feel that giving birth to children will bring all kinds of trouble, education is hard and not necessarily educated, and reduces the quality of life, will bring a lot of pain and suffering, they think that even they can't take care of themselves, how to take care of a child?
But as they grow older, looking at the faces of other people's children, watching them go from babbling to now going to kindergarten, elementary school, junior high school and high school, and college, and then seeing the warmth between their mother and son, father and son, grandchildren, the charm of life alone is the most tender piece that will touch everyone's heart.
In addition, children are also the link of the family and an important way to pass on the family bloodline. They are able to give hope and inspiration to their parents, and become the support and pride of the family.
Therefore, as a normal adult, it is to work hard, make your life more secure, so that you can be more handy in the future cultivation of offspring, no matter how hard and tired it is, you see that the child is living well, living happily, healthy and happy is getting bigger and bigger, sweet calls "dad" "mom", that sense of happiness and pleasure, is incomparable to anyone and anything.