Dr. Kang
Editor|Stone House
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Many people may think that old husbands and young wives are an abnormal husband and wife phenomenon, and even some contrary to human ethics, but different people have different outlooks on life and values, and we have no qualifications or positions to criticize other people's lifestyles.
So can such a couple's sex life be harmonious? Now that the situation of old husbands and young wives is becoming more and more common, can these husband and wife relationships be long-lasting?
Mr. Zhang, 48 years old this year, is in good physical condition and working condition, not only has a stable economic income, but also has his own company, which can also be said to have a successful career.
From the appearance point of view, although there are more traces of years, it is more mature and stable, coupled with a very good physical condition, so it also looks very attractive.
But Mr. Zhang has his own troubles, and his troubles are family.
Mr. Zhang's wife is 29 years old this year, not yet 30, and the age gap between Mr. Zhang and Mr. Zhang is not small.
He is at the age of the best appearance and temperament.
The relationship between husband and wife has always been very good, and the wife gave birth to a son to Mr. Zhang the year before last.
In the eyes of outsiders, Mr. Zhang's family is also very happy, but only Mr. Zhang himself knows his suffering.
The age gap has not affected their feelings, the husband and wife have always got along very well, Mr. Zhang is busy with his career, his wife is at home with children and taking care of the elderly, the wife has no complaints, Mr. Zhang also loves his wife.
But there are some problems in sexual life, and although the wife who is less than 30 years old is not particularly strong in that regard, she is much stronger than Mr. Zhang.
And because of his age, Mr. Zhang also has some weakness, which makes it difficult for Mr. Zhang to satisfy his wife during sex.
Although his wife did not complain about anything, Mr. Zhang could clearly feel his wife's dissatisfaction after each sexual life.
Since there are some differences in age, the physiological differences will not be small.
This is also a very real problem that many couples of old husbands and wives must face.
Even though many couples with old husbands and young wives are very good in terms of feelings, because of biological differences, there are some troubles in sexual life.
As men age, both physical strength and sexual desire will decline, but at this time, the age of the wife is not very large, and the still young wife still has a high desire for sex, in this case, the husband naturally cannot satisfy the wife.
This is a manifestation of incoordination, even if the relationship between husband and wife will not be greatly affected in a short period of time, but over time, the impact of this incongruity will become more and more, eventually destroying the relationship between husband and wife and affecting the feelings between husband and wife.
In fact, in terms of average life expectancy, men are 4 to 6 years shorter than women, and in terms of physiological fertility, women's decline is earlier than men.
It is known that men still have good sperm activity after the age of 70, which can make women conceive, but women will menopause around the age of 50 and will not ovulate again.
But this is not representative of ability, purely from the perspective of sexual ability, women even play better than men, and
Now many couples with old husbands and young wives, in order to be able to better maintain the relationship between husband and wife, but also to be able to make themselves better performance in sexual life, will choose to use some drugs.
Use drugs such as Viagra to stimulate your sexual function so that you can perform better during sex.
But in fact, the more so, the faster your sexual function will decline, and it will also be detrimental to your physical health.
Therefore, such a method is not advisable, so how should these problems be solved, and how to maintain the husband and wife relationship of the old husband and young wife?
As the old saying goes, "life is in sports", but for most people nowadays, the most missing thing in life is exercise, especially for middle-aged men.
Most of them are busy with their own careers and need to focus more time and energy on their work, so as to better maintain their current life stability.
But this also leads to his physical condition getting worse and worse, after all, there is not so much time to exercise in the process of work.
This is also the main reason why many middle-aged men are getting worse and worse, and the rate of sexual decline is accelerating.
Therefore, the advice to you here is to be able to take some time out every day to do exercises, especially squats, lifting exercises, etc., which can better enhance the flexibility of your lower body.
At the same time, check and exercise every day to improve your physical fitness and make yourself better perform in your sex life.
A healthy diet is very important for middle-aged men, after all, human nutrition is through food intake, if there is a problem with diet, it will inevitably be detrimental to men's health.
But now many people don't care about diet, basically how delicious and what to eat.
There are also some middle-aged men, because of work, resulting in a lot of entertainment every day, every day to fish and meat, so that their body will only get worse and worse.
Coupled with the fact that most middle-aged men have problems with smoking and drinking, these two will accelerate the decline of male sexual function.
Therefore, in terms of diet, we need to pay attention to the uniform combination of nutrition, in addition to fish, chicken, beef, but also should be more fruits and vegetables, or leeks, wolfberries and other foods with warm kidney nourishing effect, these foods are very good for their own health and sexual function improvement.
In addition, you also need to pay attention to your own eating rules, do not have a full meal or do not eat on time, etc., which will have some adverse effects on your health.