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Some people say that marriage is a woman's second life, and the family should be a woman's lifelong goal. But when you get married, can you live a happy and beautiful life like the fairy tale tells us?
In today's era of constant temptation, the divorce rate is higher than the marriage rate in today's society, in fact, whether it is a celebrity couple in the entertainment industry or an ordinary life couple, they will face the dilemma of marriage disillusionment.
For example, last year, Kang Zini, who ended her 18-year marriage relationship with Lin Xiaofeng, restored her free body and posted on social platforms, a year of work life after being reborn, and the article was accompanied by a photo of wiping tears.
Just a year has passed since last year's shocking divorce, and Kang Zini, who has regained her freedom, has regained her professionalism and engaged in the insurance industry.
This year's work and life, for Kang Zini is a new challenge, from her social platform posts, the new life can be described as a mixture of tastes, she is more self-encouragement, where to fall where to laugh and stand up.
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After Marrying Lin Xiaofeng, Kang Zini, who was married by Fengzi, gave up her work in front of the curtain and devoted herself to the family to take care of her two sons, Lin Bao and Lin Xi.
Kang Zini regarded her two sons as the whole of her life, but forgot her own needs. Ex-husband Lin Xiaofeng also said that he was willing to let go and give Kang Zini the lost freedom and happiness.
Unfortunately, Kang Zini, who has been out of touch with society for many years, will naturally face many setbacks and difficulties when she enters the society as a "newcomer", which is also the most painful place for full-time mothers.
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This year's free life made Kang Zini feel a lot. Earlier filming the reality show "Middle Girl Easy to Do" incarnated as a clerk of the rice noodle shop, because of the excessive pressure and burst into tears on the spot, so that Kang Zini better understand the difficulties of all working classes in society.
I believe that Kang Zini, who has been engaged in the insurance industry for a year, must also know the bitterness and helplessness of this line. But in this job, she finally embodied her own value and found herself.
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The tear-wiping photos that Kang Zini posted on social platforms worried netizens and left messages encouraging her to live a good life.
In fact, Kang Zini is a person who is soft on the outside and soft on the inside, ending an intimate relationship of up to 18 years, for a woman from one person to middle age, it takes a lot of courage.
After the divorce, Kang Zini also sang a sad love song in the live broadcast, secretly hurt and even burst into tears, I believe that for this marriage relationship to be broken, she is also quite unwilling.
But a woman's whole life, not only to achieve a family, she should also have her own life, have self-worth.
Kang Zini never declared to the outside world that marriage had made her lose everything, but instead chose to get married in the first place, which was her personal choice. After divorcing Lin Xiaofeng, the two did not tear their faces, even if the outside world had different opinions about the reasons for their divorce.
A woman is willing to retire in the rising period of her career, which requires a lot of courage, and when a person reaches the middle age, she gives up her lifelong dependence and returns to society again to work for the career that has passed away.
All walks of life have its difficulties, each age stage will also have different pressures and times to face setbacks, I wish this courageous "middle girl" Kang Zini, bravely challenge the difficulties of life or work.