"The Sea of Dreams" 5 couples, 3 couples ended in divorce! Why Chunsheng siblings are happily married

"The Sea of Dreams" has 4 episodes to finale, and the love and marriage of the 5 couples in the play are also presented one by one. Today, Dewdrop will come to talk to you about the 5 couples in the play.

Why did these 5 couples, the remaining 3 couples, end up in divorce, and only Xiao Chunsheng, Tong Xiaomei, Xiao Yanqiu Qi Tian, these 2 couples have a happy marriage?

01 Ye Fang and Chen Hongjun: The love and marriage that opened in the name of "rape" are destined to be twisted and failed

Ye Fang was praised by netizens as the most sober and independent woman in "The Sea in Dreams". However, as the so-called "the authorities are obsessed, the bystanders are clear", Ye Fang sees other people's feelings and marriages very thoroughly, but when it comes to herself, she has taken a particularly twisted and twisted path.

Ye Fang's mother is very strong and very controlling, so Ye Fang's personality is as strong as her mother, while her brother Ye Guohua is more cowardly and unassertive.

Ye Fang, who has an independent personality and a strong personality, is extremely disgusted with the marriage that her mother "arranged" for her, so Ye Fang did not hesitate to use a very strange and outrageous method to get rid of her mother's arranged marriage object.

That is, sacrificing Chen Hongjun's reputation and accusing Chen Hongjun of raping her.

At that time, Chen Hongjun was just a "hutong stringer", his family was poor, and he was mixed with Ye Guohua and Xiao Chunsheng, and he was flattered by Ye Fang's love.

Therefore, although he was saddled with a "crime" of "rape", he could win Ye Fang's favor with this, and he could marry Ye Fang, so as to rely on the big tree of the Ye family, Chen Hongjun's heart was more surprised and satisfied than humiliated.

However, this sense of humiliation is pressed in the heart, and sooner or later it will take root and break the ground.

Chen Hongjun, who was jokingly called "Ye Chen's" by netizens, later developed his performance can be described by a poem in the dream of the Red Mansion: "The sub-line is a mountain wolf, and the ambition is rampant."

From the beginning of obedience to Ye Fang's words, to the later complains in his heart, to the brazen dissatisfaction with Ye Fang after becoming an official, and finally to the "Golden House Hidden Jiao" to raise the junior, Chen Hongjun's true face and villain's heart gradually revealed as his status grew.

Not listening to Ye Fang's dissuasion, he insisted on recruiting Xiao Chunsheng into the customs and working under him, partly because Chen Hongjun still cared about this brotherhood, but the more important reason was that Chen Hongjun wanted to show his skills and achievements in front of Xiao Chunsheng, the former "big brother", and regain the "face" lost when he was a humble brother in the past.

But when Xiao Chunsheng was better than others in the unit and more popular than him, Chen Hongjun's jealousy broke out again. He was afraid that Xiao Chunsheng would surpass him, so he set a trap and forced Xiao Chunsheng to leave the customs.

I have to say that Chen Hongjun is a "white-eyed wolf".

However, when it comes to the marriage of Chen Hongjun and Ye Fang, it cannot be said that Chen Hongjun is the fault of one person.

The relationship and status of husband and wife should be completely equal, but Chen Hongjun has always been like a subordinate in front of Ye Fang. And Chen Hongjun has always wanted to have a child, but Ye Fang is resolute not to.

Ye Fang hated her mother's strength so much, but she unconsciously lived like her mother, moreover, she lacked her mother's flexibility and stubbornness.

If Ye Fang and Chen Hongjun had a child, their marriage might not have reached the step of divorce.

However, because Ye Fang hated her mother's strength, she was afraid that after she had a child, she would also become a person like her mother, so she insisted on not having children.

Chen Hongjun saw this clearly, Chen Hongjun said that Ye Fang did not love him, and the reason why he was chosen in the first place was only because he was obedient and easy to control.

Ye Fang, who regards her husband as a subordinate and regards it as a work created by herself, and sees the feelings of others thoroughly, is confused and extreme in her marriage.

The failure of her marriage with Chen Hongjun was doomed from the very beginning when Chen Hongjun was reported for "rape".

02 Ye Guohua and He Hongling: A selfish and narrow-minded man and woman

Ye Guohua and He Hongling are really a perfect match, because both of them are so selfish and so small-minded. They are people who put practical interests first and foremost their feelings.

When He Hongling was young, she also had pure love once, that is, she rejected Ye Guohua, who was appreciated by her mother and had better conditions, and fell in love with Xiao Chunsheng.

Falling in love with Xiao Chunsheng did not delay He Hongling to make full use of Qi Tian and Ye Guohua's love for her to achieve her goal of becoming a literary soldier as she wished.

Ye Fang saw clearly that He Hongling wanted both realistic bread and ideal fiery love.

When the two could not be both, He Hongling gave up love and chose reality.

If you choose reality, choose reality, and be able to say goodbye to the past freely. But He Hongling couldn't afford to put it down.

When she returned to Beijing a few years later and saw that her former lovers Xiao Chunsheng and Tong Xiaomei were getting better, He Hongling was sad and jealous, and asked Xiao Chunsheng why she "abandoned" her in the first place.

From here, it can be seen that He Hongling is a petty and calculating woman.

Unexpectedly, Ye Guohua was more careful than her.

In fact, looking at Ye Guohua's various help and care for He Hongling, I thought that after the two of them got married, Ye Guohua would definitely hold He Hongling in the palm of his hand and love.

But unexpectedly, Ye Guohua was also a stingy.

And through Ye Guohua's attitude towards He Hongling after they got married, it can be seen that Ye Guohua's love for He Hongling is mostly out of admiration for He Hongling's beautiful appearance and the competitive heart of competing with Xiao Chunsheng for his girlfriend.

If he really loves He Hongling, Ye Guohua will not understand He Hongling's love for the violin, and will not support He Hongling to pursue his career.

Before chasing He Hongling into his hand, all kinds of begging for perfection, fawning everywhere, really married, but picky everywhere, calculating, entangled and cared about He Hongling's previous love with Xiao Chunsheng.

There were even doubts everywhere whether He Hongling had been thinking about Xiao Chunsheng in her heart, and every day she used this matter strangely to tempt, satirize and ridicule his wife.

How can such a marriage be happy? How can it last?

03 Megumi and Kuroko: A man who is abusive cannot want, and a marriage that lacks trust will collapse sooner or later

Kuroko likes Megumi because she likes her beauty, but at the same time she is worried that Megumi is "amorous" because she is beautiful and cuckolds him.

The two usually have a good relationship, but Kuroko's hypochondria attacks occur from time to time. When you have a seizure, either make trouble or hit Xiaohui.

But after the trouble passed, he began to regret it again and began to apologize to Xiaohui. Megumi also softened her heart again and again and forgave Kuroko again and again.

But Megumi is also essentially a crisp and hearty woman, and when she saw that she forgave Kuroko again and again, in exchange for his increased suspicion and beating, Megumi decisively chose to leave.

I have to say that Xiaohui's decision is very wise. A character like Kuroko cannot be changed, and once domestic violence has a beginning, it will never end.

In fact, Kuroko and Ye Guohua are a bit similar, they love the appearance of their wives, not the inside. As a result, they will be suspicious and unable to respect and trust their wives.

04 Qi Tian and Xiao Yanqiu: Accompany each other through the ups and downs of life

The pair of Qi Tian and Xiao Yanqiu is very ordinary and ordinary, but also very happy.

Qi Tian belongs to a man with great affection, and once he identifies the other party, he will remain unchanged for the rest of his life.

And Yanqiu is also an unpretentious and good woman, she is tolerant and understanding of her husband, and supports her husband's correct decision.

When Qi Tian was pitted by a sunspot, the commissary was forced to close, and she couldn't find direction for a while, and when she was decadent, Xiao Yanqiu, who was pregnant, did not scold her husband or complain about him, but chose to take over the work of pasting boxes by herself to reduce the financial burden on the family.

Xiao Yanqiu belongs to that kind of traditional, virtuous, simple woman, and Qi Tian loves his wife, is not machismo, knows how to respect his wife, loves his wife, and loves the house and Wu, cares about his wife's brother, and is also a good man who is down-to-earth.

Such a couple, life is dull, stable and happy.

05 Xiao Chunsheng and Tong Xiaomei: silent care and companionship, natural love

Xiao Chunsheng loved He Hongling at first, not Tong Xiaomei.

But Tong Xiaomei never calculated, always silently cared about Xiao Chunsheng's every move, silently paid for him, and even, in order to make Xiao Chunsheng happy and make his love complete, she actually gave her place in the literary troupe to He Hongling, just because Xiao Chunsheng liked He Hongling and wanted to help He Hongling realize her desire to become a soldier.

Love him and make him happy, even if the person he loves is not me.

Tong Xiaomei's love is dedicated, selfless and great love.

After Xiao Chunsheng was injured, he saw clearly who was the real good girl and who was the girl who was the same as his three views. In Xiaomei's daily companionship and encouragement, Xiao Chunsheng's heart, from the beginning of gratitude and dependence, gradually sprouted love.

Because of love, Xiao Chunsheng discovered that Tong Xiaomei was the "library girl" he admired back then.

The love of two people is a bitter and happy thing for Xiaomei, and it comes naturally; For Chunsheng, it was a surprise that looked back, but the man was in the lamplight.

Xiao Chunsheng is Tong Xiaomei's first love, but Xiao Chunsheng's first love is not her, but He Hongling.

However, unlike the narrow-minded Ye Guohua, Tong Xiaomei is tolerant and generous, and she is also full of confidence.

Tong Xiaomei trusts Xiao Chunsheng infinitely, she believes that after Xiao Chunsheng falls in love with herself, she has no love for He Hongling at all, which is her atmosphere and her self-confidence.

When He Hongling appeared on the skating rink many years later, putting on the Little Red Riding Hood costume again, and when He Hongling went to question why Xiao Chunsheng left a letter to "abandon her", Ye Guohua and Tong Xiaomei sat in the distance and watched them from afar.

At this time, Ye Guohua sighed that the two of us seem to have the same illness, we have never been the protagonists, the aura is theirs, we only deserve to hide in the shadows and enjoy their performances. Between the words, there was sour envy, jealousy and loss.

But Tong Xiaomei didn't care at all.

Xiaomei said, "Sometimes, it's just timing, the timing is right, whether there is light or not, in fact, it is not so important." ”

Ye Guohua then asked, "You trust him so much?" ”

Xiaomei replied confidently: "Yes, I fully believe him. ”

From Ye Guohua's questioning, it can be seen that he does not fully trust He Hongling, and secondly, he does not have confidence.

Tong Xiaomei, on the other hand, believes in herself and Chunsheng.

Because of trusting each other, because of self-confidence, Xiaomei never suffers from gains and losses, so Xiaomei and Chunsheng can be happy.

And once Chunsheng identified Xiaomei, he "ruthlessly" removed He Hongling from his mind, and let He Hongling express his love again, and his heart did not make waves at all.

This is the correct attitude of a man who is responsible for love and life.

Ye Guohua and He Hongling both have mustard in each other's hearts, and they are both very stingy, so their marriage is getting more and more cold, without warmth and fireworks.

Tong Xiaomei and Xiao Chunsheng, on the other hand, trust each other, encourage each other, and are willing to support each other to achieve their careers, so they can always be happy.

In the relationship between husband and wife, if you want to say what is the secret of happiness, in fact, it is simple and simple, it is difficult to say, and these 3 are enough!

First, the relationship is equal and mutual respect.

The second is to appreciate each other and trust each other.

The third is to live in the present, to discuss things when encountered, to share joy and suffering.

I hope that young viewers who watch "The Sea of Dreams" can learn something from the marriage relationship of the 5 couples in the play, and I hope that this article of Dewdrop can give readers a little inspiration.

Thanks for reading.

(Text/First Dewdrop)