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Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

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In November 1938, the Sixth Plenum closed in Yan'an, chairman Mao and Wang Jiaxiang met a young and beautiful girl in the restaurant, Mao Zedong looked very familiar with her, introduced her to Wang Jiaxiang and said:

"This is Zhu Zhongli, my little compatriot, she is a hospital surgeon in our border area, we are all under her control, and you will have to deal with her too."

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Chairman Mao and Wang Jiaxiang

Both Wang Jiaxiang and Zhu Zhongli were amused. At this time, although Wang Jiaxiang was over thirty years old, he was still alone, and when he saw the cheerful and generous Zhu Zhongli, he couldn't help but be dazzled. At this time, they would not think that it was this meeting that opened the prelude to their love.

< h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > Wang Jiaxiang has a crush on Zhu Zhongli</h1>

After Wang Jiaxiang saw Zhu Zhongli this time, he felt that the flame of love that had been extinguished in his heart for various reasons had once again been ignited, and he asked Mao Zedong: "How did you know Xiao Zhu?" ”

Chairman Mao was very happy to hear Wang Jiaxiang say this. Because Wang Jiaxiang was 32 years old at the time and still single, Mao Zedong, as his good friend, could not help but care about his life's events, hoping that he could have a satisfactory wife.

Before, there were also some comrades who had a good relationship with Wang Jiaxiang who wanted to introduce him to a girlfriend, but Wang Jiaxiang had experienced two failed marriages before, so that he did not dare to hope for love.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Mao Zedong delivers a speech

Mao Zedong once said to him: "I heard that many comrades have made matchmakers for you, why don't you like it?" Are you ready to become a monk for the rest of your life? ”

Mao Zedong's words were humorous, but wang Jiaxiang sounded sad for a while, he did not yearn for love, but the first two marriages really hurt him too much.

When Wang Jiaxiang first married, he was only 19 years old, when he was still a student in high school, but he was forced to marry the bride his father had found for him under pressure from his family.

At that time, Wang Jiaxiang was originally influenced by the new culture, and his heart was extremely opposed to this kind of arranged marriage, but the more he opposed it, the more his father wanted to use this traditional way to tie his son to his hometown.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Figure Comrade Wang Jiaxiang

The bride that his father married to Wang Jiaxiang was Zha Ruixiang, the daughter of Wang Jiaxiang's primary school teacher, because the two young people did not have any emotional basis before.

In addition, although Zha Ruixiang was born in ShuxiangMendi, due to her father's pedantic nature, she did not let her receive an education, so she was basically illiterate, and her mind was full of the "three from four virtues" ideology instilled by the feudal family, and Wang Jiaxiang, who was ideologically progressive and knowledgeable, was naturally incompatible.

Faced with this situation, Wang Jiaxiang and his father said: "It is okay for me and Char Ruixiang to live, but you have to let her go to school with me and learn culture." ”

However, the father thought that the woman's reading was deviant, not to mention that Zha Ruixiang was already his daughter-in-law, so he coldly refused:

"No, there is no reason for a married daughter-in-law to go out to study!" Seeing his father's resolute attitude, Wang Jiaxiang left this feudal cage-like home without looking back and threw himself into the revolutionary cause.

In the same year, Wang Jiaxiang was sent to Moscow University for further study because of his outstanding performance, and Wang Jiaxiang had thought about divorce before leaving.

But kindly, he thought that under the social conditions at that time, a woman like Zha Ruixiang had no job, and after a divorce, it was very difficult to remarry someone else, so he had to maintain the nominal marriage, and he went to the Soviet Union to pursue his revolutionary ideals.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Wang Jiaxiang went to the Soviet Union to study

Although Zha Ruixiang, who remained at home, did not have much personal feelings for Wang Jiaxiang, in the old thinking, it was always extremely undignified to be left at home by her husband and ignored them, and such thoughts made her extremely depressed, and she died in pain and illness shortly after giving birth to Wang Jiaxiang's child Wang Ming.

Wang Jiaxiang also had an inexplicable heartache after hearing that Zha Ruixiang had died, although there was no love between them, but after all, Zha Ruixiang was also his former wife.

Wang Jiaxiang knew in his heart that Zha Ruixiang would eventually die from the shackles of feudal etiquette and his own conservatism. Wang Jiaxiang studied hard at The Eastern University and was admitted to the Red Professor College.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Wang Jiaxiang returned to China to participate in revolutionary work

At this time, although Wang Jiaxiang had already experienced a marriage, but the age was only 22 years old, and he was knowledgeable, he soon attracted the attention of a Soviet girl, the Personality of the Soviets was relatively open, and she even directly expressed her love to Wang Jiaxiang.

Wang Jiaxiang was in a foreign country at that time, and he was inevitably a little lonely, plus this girl was also working as a secretary in the branch of Sun Yat-sen University, so he slowly accepted this girl. It's just that Wang Jiaxiang didn't expect it at this time, and this love was another deeper disaster for him.

<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > endured hardships and finally married Zhu Zhongli</h1>

Wang Jiaxiang was very happy at first after establishing a relationship with this Soviet girl, because he had never tasted the sweetness of love in his previous arranged marriage.

However, this woman approached Wang Jiaxiang, but what she liked was not Wang Jiaxiang's soul and character, but more importantly, she saw Wang Jiaxiang's position in the party, knowing that after he returned to China in the future, he would inevitably hold an important position, and he could also achieve a class leap through marriage with him.

Wang Jiaxiang was blindly immersed in the romance given to him by this girl, and soon talked to her about marriage. In the autumn of 1928, Wang Jiaxiang married his Soviet girlfriend.

Although there was no presence of his parents, in the blessings of his friends, Wang Jiaxiang still felt very happy, although the marriage room was just a dormitory for him to study, Wang Jiaxiang still felt that he was a happy groom.

Unfortunately, in the post-marital life, the contradictions between the two sides were soon exposed, Wang Jiaxiang was kind and introverted by nature, while his wife was extroverted and lively, which led to them often making a big fuss over some small things in life.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Figure Wang Jiaxiang

This woman's soul is shallow, and sometimes she likes to talk about others, and Wang Jiaxiang is also unaccustomed to this kind of small citizen habit, and the two people are gradually drifting apart in their thinking.

By the autumn of 1929, after only one year of marriage, Wang Jiaxiang's initial love had been consumed, and he resolutely chose to break up. But the kind Wang Jiaxiang still gave up his house and daily necessities to the woman when he broke up, and he lived alone in a small house.

After experiencing these two unfortunate marriages, Wang Jiaxiang was even pessimistically prepared for celibacy, and was no longer ready to accept the love of any woman.

Later, Wang Jiaxiang returned to China to carry out revolutionary work, and because of his busy work, he did not have time to consider his personal problems, until after meeting Zhu Zhongli, he felt that his heart window had once again been pushed open, and began to ask Chairman Mao about everything about Zhu Zhongli.

"My little fellow is good, isn't he?"

Wang Jiaxiang said honestly, "Well, not bad. ”

Mao Zedong looked at Wang Jiaxiang's expression and knew that there was a door to this matter, so he told him: "The next time you want to see her, you will go to Xiao Jinguang, who is her brother-in-law." ”

In order to pursue Zhu Zhongli, Wang Jiaxiang wrote a note to Xiao Jinguang: Comrade Xiao Jinguang, please transfer me two small Mongolian horses. Also, bring your aunt and sister to my place to play.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Zhu Zhongli's father, Zhu Jianfan

Although Wang Jiaxiang has experienced two marriages, when writing this note, he still obviously feels that his heart is beating faster, and he looks forward to seeing the beautiful Zhu Zhongli again.

After Xiao Jinguang received Wang Jiaxiang's note, he also understood Wang Jiaxiang's thoughts about Zhu Zhongli, so he discussed this matter with his wife, and Zhu Zhongli's sister also expressed her willingness to let her sister and Wang Jiaxiang understand, so she took Zhu Zhongli to see Wang Jiaxiang.

At that time, Zhu Zhongli was only 23 years old, it was the time when a young girl's love Dou dou first opened, although Wang Jiaxiang was much older than her, but Wang Jiaxiang's profound knowledge and noble character still deeply attracted her, and later after a long period of understanding, they accepted each other in their hearts.

One day, Wang Jiaxiang sent a note to Zhu Zhongli: Xiao Zhu, if you have time, please come to me and sit down, Jiaxiang.

Zhu Zhongli passed quickly, but on this day Wang Jiaxiang was unusually silent, Zhu Zhongli did not ask him, just quietly accompanied him, after a long half a day, Wang Jiaxiang said softly:

"Zhongli, when are we going to get married?" Zhu Zhongli felt very sudden, she couldn't help but blush, although she also loved Wang Jiaxiang in her heart, but when it came to marriage, she couldn't help but feel embarrassed, so she asked him: "Why is it so fast?"

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Figure Shi Liang, a lawyer who once defended Zhu Zhongli

Wang Jiaxiang immediately replied, "As long as you want, you can do it whenever you want!" Zhu Zhongli could see that Wang Jiaxiang was serious, so he did not resign again, which was equivalent to acquiescence. Although Wang Jiaxiang is more wooden in terms of falling in love, he is quite sharp in the matter of marriage.

He made a marriage report to the organization on the same day, and the leaders of the organization at that time were Li Fuchun and Cai Chang, who quickly approved Wang Jiaxiang's report. Although the marriage report was approved, Zhu Zhongli still made a request to Wang Jiaxiang, that is, to quit smoking.

Wang Jiaxiang originally did not smoke, but when he encountered an air raid, he was seriously injured, coupled with the poor medical conditions at that time, so that Wang Jiaxiang fell behind the sequelae, sometimes the injury recurred, he could only use smoking to divert his attention, but this method of treating the symptoms and not curing the root cause not only did not alleviate his pain, but also made him addicted to smoking.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Figure Dr. Bethune

Zhu Zhongli, a doctor, was distressed by Wang Jiaxiang's body, so he "willfully" demanded that he must quit smoking before marrying him.

Later, Zhu Zhongli met Li Fuchun, and he deliberately joked with Zhu Zhongli: "When will you do a happy event with Wang Jiaxiang?" Although Zhu Zhongli was already Wang Jiaxiang's girlfriend at this time, she still felt very embarrassed when asked such a question, and said:

"I'm going to wait for him to quit smoking and never have a cigarette in his hand anymore." Li Fuchun smiled: "Such a powerful sister, before she is married, she has to take care of her husband, I can't see it, right?" ”

In fact, this sentence is still a proverb, although Wang Jiaxiang tried to quit smoking under the supervision of Zhu Zhongli, but finally after 22 years of marriage with Zhu Zhongli, he completely got rid of cigarettes.

Wang Jiaxiang was already in his thirties at this time, and he really did not want to drag the marriage any longer, so on March 5, 1939, he and Zhu Zhongli held a wedding.

Although this was not the first wedding in his life, he was still very happy. At Wang Jiaxiang's wedding, Chairman Mao was also very happy, Wang Jiaxiang was his best friend, and Zhu Zhongli was his hometown, and Chairman Mao was also a matchmaker for the couple. Chairman Mao smiled and said to Zhu Zhongli:

"When I saw you in Changsha for the first time, I was still a little doll!" In the blink of an eye, I am going to be a bride! When Zhu Zhongli heard Chairman Mao say this, she couldn't help but blush with shame, but in her heart she was already happy to blossom.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Picture Chairman Mao in office

Although the marriage room in Yan'an is slightly simple, a couple feels that this is the happiest moment in their lives, and there are only some local specialties of Yan'an at the wedding banquet, but it does not affect their vision of the future in the slightest. In this way, in the sound of everyone's blessings, Wang Jiaxiang walked into his third marriage.

<h1 class= "pgc-h-center-line" > happy married life</h1>

After marrying Wang Jiaxiang, Zhu Zhongli began to take care of his life wholeheartedly, although Zhu Zhongli was born noble and was a descendant of Zhu Yuanzhang in blood, but in his usual style, he always kept a low profile.

Zhu Zhongli later discovered that her husband, Wang Jiaxiang, was a workaholic, and sometimes when he was busy at work, he could even sleep and forget to eat.

In this regard, Zhu Zhongli was very distressed and often advised her husband to rest more. Zhu Zhongli is very considerate, and when the summer heat is unbearable, she will peel sweet and watery tomatoes for Wang Jiaxiang, and in the winter, she will make him a favorite coffee. Under the care of Zhu Zhongli, Wang Jiaxiang's body has greatly improved, and he has gradually begun to recover his health.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Figure Xiao Jinguang and his wife

After Wang Jiaxiang's health improved, Chairman Mao looked at it in his eyes and was very happy in his heart, knowing that zhu Zhongli's care had played a role, so he praised Zhu Zhongli and said: "Comrade Jiaxiang is now in good health and can work more than 10 hours a day, which is the credit of your doctor, and you are a good wife!" ”

For Wang Jiaxiang, Zhu Zhongli is not only a good wife, but also a confidant of his life and a revolutionary ally.

Wang Jiaxiang's health is not good, and many times he needs Zhu Zhongli's care in life, for which Wang Jiaxiang's heart is very grateful. Wang Jiaxiang often feels that he is very lucky to have a gentle and generous wife like Zhu Zhongli in this life, and she is very good at taking care of people.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Figures: Wang Jiaxiang and Zhu Zhongli

If there is any regret in their personal lives, it is that they have not been able to have children of their own. Zhu Zhongli once conceived Wang Jiaxiang's child, but during the pregnancy, she unfortunately had a serious illness, and to make matters worse, she also had appendicitis, and when she was sent to the hospital, the doctor suggested that artificial abortion and sterilization surgery should be done at this time, which is conducive to Zhu Zhongli's recovery.

When Wang Jiaxiang heard that his wife's body had to be sterilized now, he couldn't help but secretly shed tears, he was a great communist fighter, but when his wife Zhu Zhongli was first pregnant, he was also like a most ordinary father, looking forward to the birth of this child, and even he dreamed of the cute appearance of the child after birth.

But now that he was going to beat him up and sterilize his wife, he couldn't help but feel the sting of his heart, but he looked at Zhu Zhongli, who was lying on the hospital bed, and still resolutely promised the doctor that he was willing to beat the child.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Pictured by Wang Jiaxiang and his third wife, Zhu Zhongli

At the same time, he also consoled himself: "It is better not to have children, so that you can concentrate on your work." In this way, Wang Jiaxiang exchanged the price of their husband and wife's life without children in exchange for the health of his wife Zhu Zhongli, and this deep affection was really touching.

In the later years, although they did not have children of their own, this did not affect the feelings between them, and they later worked hand in hand through countless ups and downs, whether they were ambassadors in the Soviet Union or returned to China to work.

Although Wang Jiaxiang and Zhu Zhongli have a special status, they have always kept a low profile, even for the ordinary guards around them, they are taken care of as relatives, and everyone has a high evaluation of them, and they can always be indifferent to fame and fortune.

Unfortunately, in 1974, Wang Jiaxiang died of a heart attack and later died after the rescue was ineffective. Zhu Zhongli's liver and intestines were broken when she cried, and her mind was full of her husband's tenderness to herself before she died.

Oh, yes! Wang Jiaxiang, a man who is more conscientious about his work and more wooden about his personal life, gave Zhu Zhongli all his life's tenderness.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Figure The elderly Wang Jiaxiang and Zhu Zhongli

After Wang Jiaxiang left, Zhu Zhongli felt that every day her heart was like suffering from Ling Chi's pain, every day she didn't think about tea and dinner, she cried tired and slept for a while, woke up and thought that there was no longer that person, went to take herself for a walk, and would start crying again, and her crying eyes were often red and swollen, and she suddenly looked much older.

Zhu Zhongli's situation was looked at by her old leader, and his heart was anxious and painful, and he understood Zhu Zhongli's feelings of losing his beloved very well, but he also knew that people could not be resurrected from the dead, Comrade Wang Jiaxiang had already gone, and Zhu Zhongli wanted to cry her body again, but how could she get it.

So he directly rebuked Zhu Zhongli and said, "You still have a lot of things to do, how can you just cry now?" ”

Listening to the words of the old leader, Zhu Zhongli began to reflect on her own behavior, thinking that Wang Jiaxiang still had many manuscripts that had not been written before his death, Zhu Zhongli realized that she should complete her husband's unfinished business, which is the best memorial to her husband.

Wang Jiaxiang likes 23-year-old Zhu Zhongli, Chairman Mao: My little fellow is not bad, right? Foreword Wang Jiaxiang has a good feeling for Zhu Zhongli and has gone through hardships, and finally married Zhu Zhongli as a happy married life

Zhu Zhongli, who was widowed, picked up the pen in her hand

Zhu Zhongli, who is already a year old, after making up her mind, Zhu Zhongli picked up the pen in her hand and created and completed many of her own works, most of her works are autobiographical themes, mainly telling the decades that she and her husband Wang Jiaxiang have gone through, and their love for 35 years.

In the continuous creation, Zhu Zhongli also came out of sadness, although her lover has left, but she left him in people's hearts in a literary way, so that more people know Wang Jiaxiang, a great communist fighter, willing to dedicate, loyal to the life of the party and the people.

Zhu Zhongli, as the wife loved by Wang Jiaxiang all her life, uses pen and ink to let the great spirit of her lover be learned and understood by more people, which is also the happiest ending of love!

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