The 35-year-old Ni Ping would not have imagined that the appearance of an actor named Chen Hong in 1994 would change her marriage with Chen Kaige, and even almost ruin her life.
At that time, Ni Ping was dressed in black, wearing white flowers, and stood haggard at the funeral of Chen Kaige's father, Chen Huaigao, and she took care of the guests, busied herself with the outside world, and presented herself as the chen family's daughter-in-law.
After the busy, Ni Ping will sit down and imagine, and after the funeral, she and Chen Kaige will take the time to get the certificate, and then take Chen Kaige to check the body, the two have lived together for nearly 4 years, have always wanted to have children, helplessly their stomach has not moved.
At this time, she was still immersed in the fantasy of a better life, and she did not know that the crisis had quietly come.
In the same year, Chen Hong walked into the casting office of "Wind and Moon", and the sun sprinkled on Chen Hong's young face, her long hair fluttering, lazy and casual, bright and moving.
At that moment, Chen Kaige fell in love with Chen Hong at first sight, and the love of the three people competed, and Ni Ping was out.
Poor Ni Ping, who was still a daughter-in-law at the funeral yesterday, has become an abandoned woman today.
Betrayed, she could only cry silently and digest the emotional wounds alone, she said: "This is a period of time without self-esteem, losing herself." ”
And unfortunately, it didn't stop there. The appearance of Chen Hong and the departure of Chen Kaige are like the domino effect, pushing down one after another, pushing Ni Ping to the trough of life.
After leaving Chen Kaige, she hurriedly married Wang Wenlan, a warm male photographer, but the sweetness of the new marriage was soon diluted by her son's illness.
The 4-month-old tiger was diagnosed by the doctor as a "congenital cataract" with the possibility of blindness.
Looking at the doctor's diagnosis, Ni Ping collapsed to the ground countless times: "Every time I go to the hospital, it is like the execution ground, only to see the doctor's gesture of OK is relieved, and then the whole person is paralyzed." ”
Her son's illness was so difficult, but even more difficult was her relationship with her husband. In order to treat her son's illness, Ni Ping and her husband Wang Wenlan tried their best, but there was also constant friction, and the feelings of husband and wife gradually faded.
In 2005, Tiger's illness was not yet better, and the two divorced. Ni Ping lived with her son and became a single mother.
During the day, she took her son to seek medical treatment, and when she returned home from the treatment, she had to continue to take care of her son, because the tiger's eyesight was not good, and if she did not pay attention to it, accidents might occur, and Ni Ping lived all day long.
In the middle of the night, the tiger fell asleep, and Ni Ping got up again and smoked alone in the living room, smoking whole packages, and the floor was full of cigarette butts. She also knew that smoking was bad, but it was the most relaxing time of her day.
In the dead of night, Ni Ping will also reflect on how her life has become like this, suddenly from a national goddess to an embarrassing middle-aged woman, overwhelmed by life.
Ni Ping's heart was very unwilling, after all, she was really beautiful.
When she was young, Ni Ping was a sister of CCTV, notoriously quick-witted, with a good mouth, gentle temperament, dignified and atmospheric. Even Zhao Benshan openly confessed to her: "Ni Ping is the only goddess"
Because of her excellent work ability, Ni Ping has hosted the Spring Festival Gala for 13 years, partnered with Zhao Zhongxiang, and talked and laughed in front of the screen.
In addition to the Spring Festival Gala, other programs hosted by Ni Ping are also very popular, at the peak of her career, she has won all the industry's large and small awards, the best host award, the golden microphone award, the golden microphone special honorary award... Ni Ping has been in the pocket, the career is winning, becoming a sister of CCTV, and her life is very beautiful!
When the smoke is gone, the sky is light, Ni Ping also returns to real life, the scenery is no longer there, does she have to confess her fate?
Ni Ping's grandmother told her: "If you don't fall, you can pass anything, and if you fall, no one can support you." ”
"Capable people are getting stronger and stronger the more they are smashed, and those who can't are suddenly smashed down"
Although the days are difficult, it is good to have the support of relatives, friends, and sons. For their sake, Ni Ping also had to grit her teeth and insist.
Losing her job as a host, she started her old job of acting.
When she was young, Ni Ping always played the goddess, playing a young girl, with a bright smile, innocence and cuteness.
At the age of 46, she appeared on the screen again and became a rural mother, with a simple and rustic appearance.
During that time, many netizens looked at Ni Ping's stills and life photos, always mocking her old state, out of shape, and the goddess style was no longer there.
In the face of this ridicule, Ni Ping's mentality is very calm, she said: "I am old, and no matter how much makeup I make, I can't make Gong Li." ”
Although Ni Ping admits that she has become older, her spirit of hard work has not changed.
When filming, Ni Ping ate 15 buns in a row, and when she filmed the 7th time, she really couldn't eat it, and others advised her to fake it, but Ni Ping refused, and she didn't want to fool the audience.
When filming "Loach is also a fish", in order to get close to the role, Ni Ping did not wash her face and hair for 3 months, just to find the difficult state of migrant workers.
Her efforts paid off, and in 2006, "Loach is Also a Fish" made Ni Ping win the trophy for best actress at the Beijing University Student Film Festival.
Relying on this fighting spirit, Ni Ping's career is getting better and better, she has starred in film and television works such as "Snowflake That Drifts", "Big Sun", "Sister-in-law of the Moon" and other film and television works, and created classic roles such as Zhang Yu'er and He Meili on the screen.
Ni Ping conquered the audience with her excellent acting skills and excellent works, and told the public with actions that even if the beauty is no longer there, she will still shine on the screen.
Now Ni Ping has played Shen Jilan's mother-in-law in "Meritorious Service". At the age of 62, she starred in plain face, doing housework and planting crops, and was a typical rural woman.
When she watched her daughter-in-law guard the new house alone, The sea mother could not stop apologizing, and touched Dalanzi with a piece of sincerity, and since then the mother-in-law has a heart.
When the daughter-in-law was ostracized by the villagers, the sea mother was not good at words, but stood firmly behind the daughter-in-law and fully supported her.
The relationship between The Sea Mother and Dalanzi's mother-in-law and daughter-in-law touched many viewers, and countless netizens praised Ni Ping as a "good Chinese mother-in-law" and a good actor, and some netizens said that Ni Ping is an eternal goddess.
In fact, the so-called goddess does not just refer to a beautiful girl, when a woman works hard, treats others well, does her best in her post, and shines, she is a goddess.
The 62-year-old Ni Ping has won the title of "goddess" with her efforts, and except for her, every woman in front of the screen who works hard to live, kind and loving is a goddess.