#头条创作挑战赛 #
Like other parents, Mr. Wang picks up his four-year-old daughter from kindergarten after work.
His daughter Ruoruo is in a public kindergarten, which has a beautiful environment and good hardware facilities, and is a very good kindergarten nearby.
The main thing is that the teachers inside are knowledgeable, rigorous and serious, and very patient with children, and their daughters like the teachers in school.
Finally, the children in the long line came out, and Ruoruo happily shouted "Dad, dad, I'm here" after seeing Mr. Wang
Mr. Wang was also very happy, and he also beckoned to his daughter, thinking: "Finally received this little ancestor", as if seeing that her fatigue of the day had disappeared.
After a short greeting with the teacher, he took his daughter Ruoruo's small hand and walked in the direction of home.
Ruoruo was held by her father with one hand, and her small mouth was talking, because she was happy and unconsciously jumped and walked, and the two pigtails flicked one after another, just like a dancing childhood carefree and happy.
He habitually started a day of parent-child communication moments, mainly asking his daughter what she did in kindergarten, how she got along with children and teachers, and whether anything very interesting happened...
The daughter Ruoruo also answered her father's questions one by one, and suddenly the daughter stretched out her little hand that was not pulled behind her back and said to her father: "Dad, do you look good?" ”
Mr. Wang looked down at the back of his daughter's outstretched little hand, and saw that a special pattern was drawn on it, like a flower, but he couldn't see what kind of flower it was.
He looked at it carefully, and the pattern was a bit like a special symbol of some tissues.
So he tried to ask his daughter Ruoruo: "Baby, what do you tell your father what this is?" ”
The daughter Ruoruo said proudly: "It's a code."
When Mr. Wang heard this, his heart clicked. So he pretended to be surprised and said to Ruoruo: "So powerful? If there are all the code words? Can you tell Dad who is this code word for you? ”
Ruoruo replied very seriously: "It's a secret, the teacher said that you can't tell your parents."
Mr. Wang became even more skeptical when he heard this. So he guided his daughter to answer the question while thinking: "Is it?" Can you tell Dad that this is a secret that you are with with which teacher? Is it your homeroom teacher, Xiaomi-sensei? ”
The daughter Ruoruo was a little hesitant when she heard this, Mr. Wang took advantage of the victory to pursue, pretending to be sad and said: "Ruoruo can also establish a secret with his father, I don't tell others, and you don't tell others, so you have two secrets?" ”
Ruo Ruo heard what his father said made sense, so he secretly said: "It's not with my Xiaomi teacher, it's with a secret with a strange teacher." ”
Mr. Wang continued to guide his daughter to obtain more information. "Ruoruo told Dad, how did you meet this strange teacher?"
Ruoruo replied, "Just after school, we were all playing in the playground, and a strange aunt and teacher came over to help us draw a lot of hand back paintings."
After his daughter answered this question, Mr. Wang determined that this person was a personal trafficker, so he chose to call the police.
After returning home, he and his wife accompanied their daughter to play the game of how traffickers use the back of their hands to trick children away, and explained to his daughter that this strange teacher is a trafficker who specializes in kidnapping children, and after they abduct children, children can't see their parents, so children must not talk to strangers.
The final result was that after investigation and monitoring, the police finally caught the trafficker who was "crouching".
The kindergarten also further strengthens children's safety awareness through games, and the management is more strict.
With the enhancement of security awareness, many parents will also educate their children how to prevent being deceived and abducted, but the road is one foot tall, and many traffickers abduct children in an endless stream, but everything is unchanged, no matter how many scams are nothing more than these situations:
First, take advantage of your child's curiosity
Curiosity is in children's nature, and when a new thing, a new game or a new toy appears, their sense of safety is easily lost, and traffickers take advantage of this loophole to deceive the child.
Second, take advantage of children's "greed"
Greed and desire are human nature, but adults can control themselves and strictly demand how to avoid greed and desire.
Children are simple in nature, their possessiveness for food, toys, and fun things is always unconsciously strong, and traffickers use all available opportunities to lure children into being deceived.
Third, take advantage of the child's "weakness"
Children are weak, and if parents do not protect them properly, let children play by themselves or let children out of their sight, then it is easy for traffickers to take them away.
Fourth, take advantage of parents' negligence
According to statistics, traffickers like to deceive these kinds of children brought by parents the most: the elderly with children alone, the enthusiastic "Ma Daha" who likes to gossip, the woman who takes the child shopping alone, the woman who takes the child alone in the train at the station, the mother who has just given birth in the hospital, and the child who plays alone.
Fifth, use the child's compassion
There is also a kind of child who is too well protected by parents, they are very simple and kind, and they are very sympathetic under the influence of their parents and family. It is easy for traffickers to kidnap the children.
Parenting message in a word: The safety of children is the most important thing in a family, parents who lead children, must not let their children out of their sight, do not just focus on small talk to traffickers to take advantage of. With the popularization of safety knowledge, new tricks of human traffickers abducting and selling children are also emerging, which requires parents to pay more serious, careful and patient attention to and protect their children