Now it is necessary for parents and teachers to know more about what students are thinking and needing at the moment. Elementary school maturity refreshes your worldview... Whether they are adults the height of children, or children of adult height...
In this day and age, you can look at some subtle changes brought about by the environment from another perspective. On the other hand, the high level of effort of children at present... It's a mindset upgrade. As an elder, only by upgrading your thinking can you make your life step by step and cultivate the next generation...
In fact, many parents are reluctant to admit that their child is an ordinary person. If ordinary children are forced to be placed in the top competition of the top 5%-10%, the child's ability to beat will be under great pressure, and a lot of psychological problems will naturally arise: anxiety, depression... If you want your child to get out of various predicaments physically and mentally, then parents must break the shackles of thinking and constantly leap to a higher level...
I firmly believe in my philosophy that the cultivation of children should be: moral, intellectual, physical, aesthetic and labor all-round development, cultivate the whole content of children, not single academic performance. 15% of a person's success depends on knowledge and ability, and the remaining 85% depends entirely on relationships.
I have always believed that the development of these four abilities is very important: personality ability, moral ability, learning ability, and group ability.
As a parent, we must think about the long-term for our children, and as a teacher, we must work hard to lay fertile soil for students' lifelong development, not just looking at the short-term benefits, not too utilitarian.
Especially setback education is when a child fails, giving him the courage to continue to move forward. Even if you encounter great difficulties, but with the support of your parents, you can receive it rationally and warmly when you return home, that is happiness. On the other hand, what parents often do in reality is to push to the opposite side and die to save face. Compare with other people's children, accuse... Children and parents gradually drift apart, become more and more estranged, and over time... Rebellion, leaving home, suicide. Therefore, parents should educate their children rationally....
I attach great importance to moral education, to put it bluntly, so that children can be accepted by the people around them. In particular, the upbringing of behavior should be set according to the degree of social acceptance. Now students are really different, growing up on the Internet, with higher thinking ability, understanding more and more, will consider more meaning in life... Live for what...
It is important to train children to love reading, even if they do not pass high school and do not get into college, but they can live a confident and good life....
Regarding the ability to be gregarious, the most important thing is to cultivate it from a small level. The ability to develop a child's ability to deal with groups is always greater than his academic performance. People live in animals in society, need to be sociable, it is impossible to live as an island... Let children be more good at sharing, good at helping others, good at cooperation... Keep a good heart...
My own experience is that if you are sincere and good to others, you will have more friends around you. Develop this good habit, that is, be kind to others.
Based on the above, let students have personality ability and moral ability, they must be prosperous in the class and school, and they will be accepted by society in the future. Being accepted and learned by society is more important than going to Tsinghua...
The following is the argumentative essay written by the 12-year-old student in my class, which can indirectly see the psychological changes of the child...
Today's children are a generation that has grown up with the development of the Internet. Times have changed, and so should the educational concepts of teachers and parents. From these small practice pens, we can see the growth trajectory and psychological state of this generation.
Because today's children come into the world with a natural sense of loneliness, and have long thought about an ultimate question, the highest philosophical question: What is the point of my existence...
Parents who have a heart pay more attention to their babies, understand the changes in their hearts, keep up with their children's footsteps, make progress together, and constantly improve...
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