The secret of the cousin's pregnancy and miscarriage before marriage was still known to the in-laws, and the husband insisted on divorce

Many parents say they love their children, but how many people are hurting their children under the guise of love? Some injuries can be remedied, while others are lifelong.

My cousin was pregnant and miscarried before she got married, or her in-laws knew about it, her mother-in-law called and said she was going to send her cousin back, my aunt panicked, I knew why did I have to do it in the first place?

My cousin was the daughter of my aunt's family, and my grandmother called her grandmother. In the 80s and 90s, family planning was strictly enforced, my aunt's family already had two children, and my cousin was my aunt's supernatural child, and my aunt put her in my grandmother's house in order not to pay the fine.

I grew up with my cousin and had a very good relationship. She was beautiful and obedient since she was a child, with a very docile personality, and she followed my sister and sister's shouts behind my ass all day.

She was picked up by her aunt when she was in the fourth grade of elementary school. But she would come to our house on weekends, and sometimes on Fridays when school was over, she would ask her aunt to send her over, and maybe in her heart, this was home.

I was three years older than my cousin, and when I was in high school, she was in junior high school. When I was in college, she dropped out of school to work in Shanghai, and my aunt said that girls are people sooner or later, why read so many books?

Later, the cousin talked about a boyfriend, and the other party was a colleague with the cousin, a very handsome young man.

I had dinner with them a few times, and although the young man had little culture, he was very down-to-earth and reliable, and he was also very measured in his speech and work. Very attentive, as you can see from his every move, he is very good to his cousin. The two are in love, really a good match.

The boy came to his aunt's house once, bought a lot of things in large bags, and after the aunt saw the young man, she did not object to their love. And later, when my cousin's brother got married, I also invited the young man to come, and the young man also gave 1000 red envelopes as a gift.

At that time, this was already a lot, and the aunt also received it, which in our opinion, the aunt's family was acquiescing to this son-in-law.

The two had been living together for more than two years, and they had planned to earn more money to get married the next year, but at this time, the cousin accidentally became pregnant.

The cousin's house and the boy's house are not a city, and the distance is about 300 kilometers. At that time, private cars were not common, and usually traveled by train. The young man rushed to my aunt's house by train with his parents to discuss marriage.

Generally speaking, the girl is pregnant, the two are in love, and the woman's parents should be more anxious to get married than the man.

But the aunt's attitude was not enthusiastic, and she was cold-spoken throughout the whole process. The young man thought that his aunt was angry about his cousin's unmarried pregnancy, and he swore to his aunt that he would treat his cousin well, if he couldn't do it, he would let his aunt scold. The aunt said that the cousin married so far, one is not willing, and the other is who takes care of her when she is old.

My mother was also present at the time, and she privately advised her aunt that parents were not willing to marry their children far away, which was understandable. But when the fate of the two arrived, they still had to go with the flow. The daughter has an iron heart to marry, the young man is not bad, then follow the daughter's wishes, and the girl has understood things since she was a child, and filial piety does not lie near and far.

But the aunt did not listen at all, completely disregarding the fact that her cousin was pregnant, she told the young man that if he wanted to get married, she could let the boy buy a house in our town and live here.

This made the young man difficult, he was the only son in the family, and it was impossible to live on the cousin's side. And the aunt made this request, which was not necessary, a brother and a sister above the cousin were all around the aunt. But the aunt's drunken intention was not to drink.

In fact, the aunt is not too far away, or she does not look up to the boy from her heart, dislikes his family is rural, dislikes his parents for farming, and dislikes them for being poor.

Later, the aunt opened her mouth at the bride price and deliberately embarrassed the young man's family, at that time, we were all eleven thousand bride price, but the aunt wanted 100,000.

The young man's parents also saw it, the aunt did not look at them at all, nor did she plan to marry the cousin to the young man, the aunt has been messing around, not at all in the normal talk about marriage.

After the young man's family left, the aunt left her cousin at home and persuaded her to beat up the child, she said that the cousin looked so beautiful, what kind of home could not be found, ran so far to marry the poor boy, I did not raise you so big in vain.

But the cousin was reluctant and bent on finding the boy.

The aunt locked her cousin in the house, did not let her contact the young man, and did not listen to the family's advice. The young man was in a hurry and took the train every three to five to see his cousin, but the aunt wanted to die and not let the two meet.

Once, the young man was in a hurry and called the police in order to see his cousin, but the qing officials could not break the housework, and in the end they did not coordinate well. The cousin who was locked in the house looked at her lover who was close at hand but could not see each other, and burst into tears. She wanted to marry the young man, so she sneaked out of the window and wanted to go away with the boy.

This jump, the child in the belly jumped out, which is also in line with the aunt's heart. The cousin was extremely sad, the child was gone, she felt sorry for the young man, and she did not want the young man to be embarrassed by the aunt again, she herself was tired, maybe more desperate.

The cousin seemed to change in an instant, and she proposed to break up according to her aunt's request, and the fate of the two ended.

The cousin gave up the resistance completely and found a job as a cashier at the local supermarket. Later, the aunt entrusted someone to find a mother-in-law's home for her cousin, which was in the next town, and the man's family conditions were very good, and the people were general.

The cousin is no longer so eager to fall in love and get married, and everything is decided by the aunt.

But the man did not know his cousin's past. After more than a year of marriage, her cousin has not been pregnant, and her mother-in-law is anxious to hold her grandson, so she found a familiar doctor to take her cousin for examination. What can hide from the eyes of a gynecologist.

The doctor saw that the cousin had been pregnant and miscarried, and that she was not recovering well at that time, so it affected the recurrence of pregnancy.

The doctor may have thought that her cousin's pregnancy was also her husband's, so he told her cousin's mother-in-law about the situation. You can imagine how annoyed the in-laws are. The cousin's husband could not accept this premarital concealment and deception and filed for divorce.

The in-laws were so angry that they called my aunt and asked her to come and take her cousin away, and if she didn't come, she would send her back, and the original bride price would be returned.

It's a shame.

My aunt panicked, and in the end, we went to pick up my cousin. After the middleman said that he and his aunt had returned half of the bride price to the family. In this way, the aunt was only distressed about the money returned. Maybe she didn't bring it up, I really don't have any feelings.

After that, my cousin's spirit was not very good, and she talked to herself all day, laughing but not crying.

She never went back to her aunt's house and lived with my grandmother. Until now, more than ten years have passed, my cousin still follows my grandmother every day, and I don't need anyone to explain, I know how to take care of my grandmother's diet and living.

Some time ago, my aunt came, hugged her cousin, and said that she realized her mistake, it was she who hurt her cousin, and she should not have forcibly broken up her cousin's happiness in the first place. But the cousin was expressionless, did not say a word, and looked at the sky blankly, as if she had forgotten what had happened, and as if she was a wordless rebuke to her aunt.

Yes, my aunt is older and knows how to reflect. But what's the point of all this?

It's late, it's all too late... If you knew that, why did you do it in the first place?