I always think that beautiful women have better luck and are more likely to meet their own happiness, but there are countless beautiful women in the entertainment industry, and marriage and love are not smooth.
In the early years, she was beautiful and dazzling, middle-aged she was a "shrew professional household", Xu Songzi's acting skills were impeccable, but the marriage for many years broke down at the age of 58, and now she is childless and childless, and she is still alone, and there are always too many indescribable acids.
Xu Songzi, formerly known as Xu Changsong, was born in Changchun, Jilin in 1955, as a northeastern girl, she has the arrogance of the northeast people, she has loved art since she was a child, and she is also obsessed with art.
At the age of 17, she was admitted to the Changchun Repertory Theatre, and in the 1970s, she became popular with the missing young woman "Li Xiaoxia" played in the drama "Save Her".
Xu Songzi, who became famous in world war I, did not become complacent and complacent, she was still working the stage she loved, and she was admitted to the directing department of the Central Academy of Drama in 1982 and continued to study.
In her junior year, she fell in love with her classmate Gu Rong, whose original name was Ren Xiaoguang, the two were the same age, Gu Rong's parents were diplomats, the family was superior, she had been a young man, a soldier, and a journalist, with rich experience.
At that time, Xu Songzi looked beautiful and was still famous, who could not dislike such a girl? To be able to make such a girlfriend, it must be more face-to-face to say it.
As a classmate, Gu Rong also fell in love with Xu Songzi at first sight, and he took the initiative to confess to Xu Songzi at that time, in fact, Xu Songzi did not intend to accept this feeling at that time.
However, on Xu Songzi's birthday, Gu Rong invited Xu Songzi to eat dumplings, and then bought small walnuts for Xu Songzi, so that the most common meal between men and women missed Xu Songzi's life.
The social atmosphere at that time was very different from today's, not everyone eating and chatting together is reasonable, if there is no definite relationship to date, it is a matter of style.
Coincidentally, this "wrong" date also happened to be discovered by a classmate, so this relationship that had not yet begun was faked in the rumors.
At this time, Xu Songzi was 27 years old, which seemed to be undoubtedly an elderly youth at the time, and there was no need for you to explain, so everyone made a very accurate positioning of their relationship.
In order not to affect each other's reputation, Xu Songzi was somewhat driven to the duck shelf, and promised to be with Gu Rong, can the marriage that is forced to fall in love be happy?
Free love marriages are scattered, and their reluctant love affairs naturally sow the seeds of hidden dangers for future marriage relationships.
In 1985, Xu Songzi was invited to participate in the filming of the feature film "Furong Town" directed by Xie Jin, and Xie Jin was already a famous director in the world.
At that time, the assistant director specifically went to the Chinese opera to select actors, and as a member of the director's department, Xu Songzi took the initiative to ask Miao to help, and as a result, the deputy director looked at her well and planned to take her to try the play.
To this end, Xu Songzi also specially made a fuss, combing her shawl hair, wearing a fashionable nizi coat, beautiful and not unwanted, and as a result, Xie Jin only looked at her and directly refused: No, this is too beautiful, not suitable.
In fact, Xu Songzi herself knows in her heart that her dress is far from the role, and her direct personality of the northeast girl is exposed, and she blurts out directly: How do you know that it is not appropriate?
Then, he confidently said to Xie Jin: You will regret not using me, of course, I will certainly not regret it if you use it.
Xu Songzi is not a wild mouth, she became famous as a teenager, she has been on the stage for many years, she is still very confident in her understanding and grasp of the role, and she is a director born, and she is also clear about how to shoot the position, which simply occupies the right time and place.
She borrowed the military coat of the assistant director and hid it in the shawl, as if she had become Li Guoxiang, the director of the Commune Revolutionary Committee in "Furong Town".
With her rigorous and delicate acting skills, she brilliantly shaped the image of this character with complex mentality, rich emotions, and hateful and pitiful, and finally won the recognition of Xie Jin, and also expressed her position at that time, letting her be her own intern director.
There will always be opportunities, but also on your own, if you are always hesitating, the opportunity is likely to pass you by, when you regret and reminisce, it will not help after all.
Xu Songzi played the cold Li Guoxiang, creating a screen image of a "disaster messenger", she raised her hands and feet, with a trace of cold laughter, a cold gaze, all appropriately expressed the characteristics of the character.
Unsurprisingly, this drama was a great success, Xu Songzi was once again famous, Xie Jin's appreciation for her is also self-evident, and this play also makes her and the film queen Liu Xiaoqing still a good girlfriend, even if Liu Xiaoqing is the most depressed, she has always been with each other.
With the release of "Furong Town", Xu Songzi also ushered in her own marriage, she and Gu Rong finally entered the palace of marriage, both of them were busy, so they casually found a free prayer to get a certificate.
The wedding date is exactly June 3, not an auspicious number, although we are not superstitious, but marriage is a big thing, the average person will choose a zodiac auspicious day or a special day to get a license.
But they did not, and no matter what the reason, their marriage eventually broke up, after the two people married, they have cooperated together in three films such as "The Old Shop", "Red Dust" and "Red Swan", and in the eyes of outsiders, they support each other as a happy couple.
But marriage is like people drinking cold and warm self-knowledge, cheerful Personality Xu Songzi, strong and capable personality, husband often said that he married a mother, but big things and small things are all thrown to Xu Songzi to solve, and even Gu Rong's script has no money will find Xu Songzi to solve.
Although their love affair was forced to begin, Xu Songzi after marriage was dedicated, and in the relationship, women are doing addition, while men are doing subtraction on the contrary.
Xu Songzi's love for Gu Rong even used his own life to "protect her husband", but marriage is not as long as one party is willing to pay can be saved.
In 2013, Xu Songzi finally ended this 30-year marriage with Gu Rong, for this unfortunate marriage, Xu Songzi once frankly said: Like planting land, I worked hard to water and fertilize, and when I finally harvested, the fruit did not belong to me.
In fact, as early as 1998, Gu Rong began to separate from her, and in this long 15-year separation life, it also brought a lot of trouble to Xu Songzi.
She had never thought about divorce and tried to save her marriage, but her husband had never given her a chance, and in this marriage, Xu Songzi had been very depressed, and even suffered from depression after separation.
She didn't want to go out, she didn't want to connect with people, and most importantly, she was in such a bad state that she couldn't remember her lines, and before that she had memorized a page of lines two or three times, and then she couldn't even remember a few lines.
This is a great blow to an excellent actor, she gradually feels that she is not suitable for being an actor, once more than 3 lines of the scene did not dare to take, so that for many years, she has been in a semi-reclusive state.
The failure of the career feelings was not smooth, once let him have suicidal thoughts, or Gu Rong heard about it, took the initiative to contact her, after chatting with her, she was slightly relieved, and completely stopped filming, began to adjust her mentality.
Until 2011, when she was invited to participate in a play, she stood on stage and trembled, and she could no longer perform on stage, which made her, who loved acting, really can't be so depressed anymore.
In 2013, she starred in "Let's Get Married" in the real mother "Feng Lanzhi", the evil mother-in-law "Jia Xingmei" in "Old And Dependent", and finally returned to the second spring of her career.
Because she portrayed the evil mother-in-law in "Old And Dependent", so that she attracted a lot of scolding on the Internet, she also truly became a "shrew professional household".
Xu Songzi, who has been muddy in the marriage for many years, after the rise of his career again, really began to examine his failed marriage, and finally chose to let go, ending this marriage that has long existed in name only.
Today, Xu Songzi is 65 years old, but in the early years, because she and her husband were busy with each other, they did not have time to have children, and then fell into a separate life, and they could not have children, and eventually the child also became a regret in her heart.
Now she is alone, even at home fell down no one knows, can only call the neighbors to help buy medicine and buy food, can't help but tears, a "wrong" date, missed her life, really sad, but also really sad.
Marriage should be a way to happiness, but it has become a cage of her misfortune, and a woman should not choose a hasty and make-up marriage when she is getting older, because you never owe others a marriage, nor do you owe anyone a child, and you only owe yourself a happy appearance!