Recently, according to Taiwan media reports, Taiwan's popular artist Zhu Xinyi gave birth to a second child after endocrine and thyroid problems, the sharp rise in weight was teased by her husband and son, Zhu Xinyi was deeply stimulated and finally lost weight successfully. Speaking of Zhu Xinyi, mainland netizens may not be very familiar, her husband is Jia Jingwen's younger brother Jia Pengli, then she is Jia Jingwen's sister-in-law.
Zhu Xinyi officially debuted in 2008 starring in the family comedy "Joyful To Amuse", and won the 46th Taiwan Television Golden Bell Awards Drama Program Supporting Actress Award in 2011 with "Sharp Wife", and many netizens know Zhu Xinyi because of "Sharp Wife".
In 2011, Zhu Xinyi and Jia Jingwen's younger brother Jia Pengli registered for marriage, and she was three months pregnant at the time of marriage, and in the same year she gave birth to her eldest son Dibao. Then in 2016 gave birth to the second son Lele, after giving birth to the second son Zhu Xinyi after postpartum fitness lost a lot of weight, but did not expect a short period of time to rebound, and a hair out of control, more and more fat, soon fat into a ball. Went to the hospital to check only to learn that there was an endocrine and thyroid problem, and the doctor diagnosed that she was emphysema and edematous.
Looking at Zhu Xinyi's round and rolling figure, Jia Pengli was very disgusted, and often sneered at her, saying that she was like a telephone pole. And the two sons also learned from their father's appearance to laugh at Zhu Xinyi's figure, and gave her a nickname, calling her "fat pig". The ridicule of her husband and son has always made Zhu Xinyi very uncomfortable, Zhu Xinyi revealed that once her younger son saw her appearance in "Sharp Wife" on TV and said that this aunt is so beautiful, Zhu Xinyi is very stimulated, so she decided to lose weight.
After some hard work, Zhu Xinyi finally managed to lose 5 kilograms, and she said that if she continued to lose 8 kilograms, she would be able to return to her previous physical condition. Since losing weight, Jia Pengli's attitude towards Zhu Xinyi has greatly changed, Zhu Xinyi said: "My husband now looks at me differently, and he didn't even want to walk with me before. ”
Netizens saw that Jia Pengli's attitude after his wife was out of shape due to illness was very angry, and they left messages asking Zhu Xinyi, "Why do such men stay?" ”
There are also netizens who leave messages about their own diametrically opposed experiences, this netizen said that he is also fat, but this does not affect the love of her husband and children for themselves.
More netizens said the truth: "As long as one of the husband and wife does not respect the other, the children in the family will also learn the same." ”
Indeed, when Jia Pengli sneered at his wife's disfigurement, the two sons also adopted the same attitude as their fathers. Parents' words and deeds will have a very important impact on their children's lives, so parents must pay attention to the following points:
1. Parents must respect each other, understand each other, and let children learn to respect others;
2, husband and wife care for each other, which can let children learn how to care for others;
3, couples maintain self-motivated and optimistic and positive attitude, will also make children become optimistic;
4. Husband and wife are civilized and polite to the surrounding environment and others, and children will also be polite.
It can be said that children are the mirrors of a family, and their words and deeds actually reveal the upbringing of the family, and even subtly reflect the relationship between the entire family. Because the child is growing up in this family, his words and deeds are influenced by his parents and other family members, and their growth process is actually a process of "learning from the same", so parents must pay attention to teaching by example and give their children a good example.