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Is Tong Chenjie confused or sober?
Some people say she's really confused.
After eighteen days of going around, the problem of having children or not being born has not been solved, Wei Wei is still so childish, and Tong Chenjie chose not to divorce, which means that he still chose a "mother-like" life.
Some say she is humanly sober.
Tong Chenjie, who has worked his own since childhood, can always see the essence of the problem, and even Shen Yifei said that Wei Wei's approach to Tong Chenjie is progress.
Revisiting the finale of the first issue of "Goodbye Lover" again, seeing What Tong Chenjie said to Wei Wei, I was shocked to realize that women who were confused and sober were more likely to be happy.
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Tong Chenjie did not get out of the car at first.
When she realized that the caravan had started, she hurriedly got up and shouted to stop, and a sharp brake, resulting in a red forehead.
Some say it's a plot arrangement.
I don't think so, not only because the red mark on my forehead is very obvious, but also because those five minutes of thinking are also reasonable.
When the hourglass flipped, what happened in these eighteen days, those good and bad pictures flashed in Tong Chenjie's mind like movie clips, she must have hesitation, sure that she and Wei Wei loved each other, and hesitated that she and Wei Wei still had to face many problems in the future. Where do we go from here?
Seeing Wei Wei running after the caravan outside the car window, Tong Chenjie ran out of the car happily.
"Some of my questions about him about love or not, I don't think I need to ask anymore, he must be in love."
Just because he could affirm Wei Wei's love for her, he was willing to dedicate his life, and Tong Chenjie was really confused.
However, why did her sweet interaction with Wei Wei always envy others, so that Zhang He and Wang Qiuyu, the two big men, couldn't help but spit on their love?
The sweetness of the new marriage is not enviable, and after the wind and rain, it is still as loving as ever, so that such a marriage is fascinating.
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Regarding the future, Tong Chenjie said this to Wei Wei:
"Husband, I hope that in the future days, we will all be more considerate of each other, and then don't have a lot of harsh requirements for each other, and then trust each other, I hope you trust me a little more, don't doubt my motives, because we are partners who are dependent on each other for life and death." 」
Zhu Yaqiong and Wang Qiuyu have loved each other for nineteen years?
What about Zhang He and Guo Keyu who have been married for ten years?
Not to mention their respective personalities and the many problems of the original family, it is worth pondering that no couple dares to mention the four words "life and death dependence".
Tong Chenjie dared.
Her lucidity lies in the fact that she knows that there are many problems between her and Wei Wei, but she also knows that love is the cornerstone of their marriage. For this love, Tong Chenjie is willing to go to the future, and he takes Wei Wei with him.
Seizing happiness requires more courage than choosing to give up.
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Teacher Shen Yifei said: There is a kind of husband and wife relationship that there is a rift in the marriage, and the key is that both parties still have motivation and have a way to pursue happiness.
Deeply.
Tong Chenjie and Wei Wei, one mature and calm, one childish, have many differences on the bottom line issue. So, in the show, we see not only sweetness, but also quarrels and cries.
However, there are two more details.
First, when the caravan started, Wei Wei found that Tong Chenjie did not get out of the car, and he almost did not hesitate to run towards the caravan carrying Tong Chenjie. Wei Wei was chasing his wife, full of fighting spirit.
The other is: at the end of the show, when it comes to the future, everything Wei Wei says is based on his own change.
Wei Wei's love gave Tong Chenjie the courage to run to the future, and Tong Chenjie's love and tolerance also gave Wei Wei great confidence and motivation.
A happy marriage is not without a rift, but accepting the rift and actively repairing it. And those marriages that break up while walking, don't say love anymore, because the person who loves you will not be willing to leave you.
Today's topic: Do you think a rifted marriage should continue or give up? Welcome to leave a message to discuss.
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Author: Suzune Qinxin; every life is worthy of being cherished!