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Tong Chenjie and Wei Wei are the most controversial couples in the whole show. Tong Chenjie is 39 years old, and Weiwei belongs to the second marriage, the two people have been married for seven years, Weiwei has always wanted a child, but Tong Chenjie has been hesitating, afraid that the child was not born in a happy family, when they came to participate in "Goodbye Lover", they were already facing the possibility of divorce.
Wang Qiuyu and Zhu Yaqiong are also a very strange couple, the two have been together for nineteen years, divorced and remarried, and now have a six-month-old son, and now they are facing divorce again, and they have become a mystery.
The reason why Tong Chenjie does not have children is because Weiwei always drinks, as long as he drinks, his temperament changes greatly, and he even has a posture of ignoring it, playing drunk or drunk unconscious. Tong Chenjie had to give him an end every time, watching him lying drunk on the ground like a pool of mud.
Wei Wei said, my drinking has become the reason why you don't have children, is it not that you will not have children if I drink.
Tong Chenjie said, is it that if I don't have children, we can't be together. Can't we live a good life without children, just the two of us?
Wei Wei said, no, the future can not be without children.
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Wei Wei is a very traditional man, warm and cheerful, loves to make friends, and is a master of enlivening the atmosphere. In every interaction with Tong Chenjie, you can see the hot love in his eyes, but for marriage, he is not a qualified husband. In particular, there was a period when their mothers came over and advised Tong Chenjie to have a baby. Late at night, Wei Wei went to the convenience store and bought a lot of wine and came back. After returning to the hotel, he pulled the staff to accompany him for a drink.
That kind of addictive drinking, even if no one is with you, you have to drink. When Tong Chenjie went out to look for him, he also had to pull Tong Chenjie to accompany the wine, not to mention that Tong Chenjie was very disgusted, and I felt very embarrassed across the screen.
The problem is that every time the two people have a conflict, Wei Wei will play a child's temper and even say harsh words to Tong Chenjie. Tong Chenjie wanted to say good things to him, like a child, to give him a step down, and finally the two people would be reconciled.
There is also the problem of cooking, Weiwei's reason is that women cooking is a natural thing, and he never cooks, eat ready-made when he comes home, and thinks that cooking is difficult, and now there are so many recipes on the Internet. He felt that he just didn't want to do it, and if he did, he could do it in minutes. He also has a theory that tong Chenjie is allowed to cook for him to eat because it gives her a chance to perform.
He went home and ate the food she had cooked, and praised her for the delicious food, which was a reward for her. Otherwise, what she did at home, there was no sense of accomplishment at all.
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Are women born to cook, are women born to like to cook? This is a ridiculous misconception for men, to find reasons for their laziness.
Tong Chenjie said, do you think I like to cook, do you think cooking is not hard?
Ni Ping said that I have lived to be sixty years old, and it is the first time I have heard this theory.
Zhu Yaqiong has been with Wang Qiuyu since she was in her twenties, and she has always been in his denial. She is a talented singer-songwriter in Supergirl. Wang Qiuyu said that the songs she sang were difficult to hear.
When the two people got married, Zhu Yaqiong put on makeup very seriously and felt that it was a grand day, but Wang Qiuyu said that she was ugly.
I think that on this important day, Wang Qiuyu's words will be deeply imprinted in Zhu Yaqiong's heart, and every time I think about it over the years, it will hurt.
In Wang Qiuyu's eyes, Zhu Yaqiong was very stupid. Can't do anything well, too emotional, a child's temper, always want to play is a play, singing is what he hates, even hugging is perfunctory.
Zhu Yaqiong said that once she knocked on the door of Wang Qiuyu's study and wanted a hug.
Wang Qiuyu said that he could only hug for one minute.
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After waiting for a minute, Wang Qiuyu patted Zhu Yaqiong and said that the time was up, and asked her to leave quickly.
Zhu Yaqiong said that after all these years of living in his denial, she became more and more unconfident, and even hated her own name, because Wang Qiuyu said it was not good.
Wang Qiuyu said that if you are married, don't be so childish, you are already a wife, a mother of a child, you must do what a wife should do, you have to take care of the child. As for those romantic things, there is no need at all, because there is no time.
Two people have completely different frequencies, and even two people who should not be combined. But fate allowed the two of them to meet in this way, and it also created an unpleasant experience.
Professor Shen Yifei of sociology said that many people say that the original family, but the two people affected by the original family, the life direction is diametrically opposite, the reason is that everyone interprets the world differently, the views are different, and even the direction of life will be different.
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Tong Chenjie's original family is unfortunate, living in a very turbulent environment, her parents frequently quarrel, she does not know who to help, every day she lives in fear, and even in the end her parents divorced, her heart is full of unstable factors, there is no sense of security.
But after she grew up, she did not reproduce the personality attributes of her parents, but let herself go to another side, warm and gentle to people, and even full of motherhood. He is very tolerant of Wei Wei's little temper and is full of patience to deal with emotional crises. She didn't want to live like her parents, and she didn't want to have a marriage like her parents.
Wang Qiuyu's original family is also very bad, he said that his father will not let him speak, and if he speaks more, he will lose, as long as he studies well. Mom likes to eat noodles, and he doesn't like to eat, so mom keeps reprimanding him, and he thinks his mom doesn't like him.
He went to junior high school at the age of eight, was a gifted child in the eyes of others, and had always received adult education. He didn't get a lot of emotional links, which made his values very strange, as others say "daddy".
Criticizing Zhu Yaqiong's head is Dao, completely raising her as a child. I have to say that Wang Qiuyu gave Zhu Yaqiong a good life and appeared in time when she needed help. But emotionally, he was very stingy and never liked to spend a little more thought.
Because he has never received the illumination of love since he was a child, he can only love others in the way he is loved, so Zhu Yaqiong has become a victim of his emotional model.
Fortunately, in the course of eighteen days of getting along, we have been seen and reflected on each other, and we have changed a lot. I hope that Tong Chenjie and Weiwei can give each other more support in later life, and it will be very painful not to change their lives together. I hope that Wang Qiuyu and Zhu Yaqiong can get along in a different way, even if they are not together, they must make each other more comfortable.