Surfing the Internet for many years, we have seen funny bloggers, whole bloggers, beauty bloggers, I don't know if you have seen such a type of blogger, they can be collectively called "fight disease bloggers".
They themselves suffer from more serious diseases, and their families are not very good, so they share their lives on social platforms, on the one hand, record the treatment process to find patients to communicate, on the other hand, they may also get more attention and help.
And such bloggers often fall into more or less public opinion disputes because of their own particularities, and nine times out of ten they are related to their profits.
Recently, a blogger named "Come on Xiaoxian" also fell into such a dispute.
Xiaoxian is a uremia patient who has been ill for 7 years.
She usually shares her boyfriend's family on the Internet to accompany her to treat her illness, because her boyfriend is very loving and she is also optimistic and positive, so she has also accumulated a lot of fans on the whole network in recent years.
Don't accept donations and crowdfunding, just often perform a talent show show of affection, Xiaoxian's homepage has always been sunny and warm, although she is seriously ill, but she has always shown an optimistic and positive appearance.
Many fans cheered for her in her comment area, hoping to see the beautiful picture of her marriage with her boyfriend after she healed.
But after a video was released not long ago, Xiaoxian put himself on the cusp.
In the video, she said that she received a second call from a doctor, saying that she had found a suitable kidney source and could prepare for surgery.
But she refused.
Because she had no money, she turned down 150,000 kidney replacement opportunities last year. This year, the cost of surgery rose to 180,000 yuan, and she could not afford to pay for it.
Saying that, Xiaoxian cried, saying that she really felt very desperate, and she made money for the whole family to eat alone, and no one could help her share a little.
But what really makes her feel hopeless is not the inability to pay for surgery, but the problem of her native family.
She said: "Uremia is not afraid, poor is not afraid, what I am afraid of is that the family is not united. ”
In the video, her family only knows how to ask for it, and she wants to earn money to support her family while raising money for her own treatment.
Facing the palm-up family, Xiaoxian's sister also advised her not to blindly tolerate her, her brother and mother did not feel sorry for her, but she had to put herself first.
But after thinking about it, she still felt that her family came first, "they don't want much, it's that I don't work hard enough."
At the end of the video, Xiaoxian returned to her previous optimism, saying that God may still be testing her, and letting her suffer now is to get better things in the future.
After watching this video, even people who don't know Xiaoxian at all should be able to guess her background.
Xiaoxian herself also posted a dynamic saying that since she was sick on dialysis, in the 6 years, her mother has never come to take care of her once, and she still has to drag her sick body to earn money for her brother to go to college.
A seriously ill daughter, a patriarchal mother, a brother who constantly sucks blood...
Just looking at a few words, it was really much sadder than any Fan Shengmei under the sky.
Xiaoxian's life is so miserable, but public opinion has not developed in the direction of "distressed bloggers".
The reason is also very simple, because fans continue to reward, charge, and buy products brought by Xiaoxian, and there is only one purpose in the eyes of fans, that is, to let her recover as soon as possible.
Even Xiaoxian himself often talks about "changing the waist", and of course, fans also regard "changing the kidney" as a hope to continue to pay attention.
Therefore, under Xiaoxian's video, there are often fans who remind everyone to click on the ad, just so that she can earn more advertising share.
Xiaoxian such bloggers are more special, the amount of charging and live broadcast gifts at station B are considerable, plus several platforms operate together, some people roughly estimated, how should the income be tens of thousands a month.
Kuaishou and Douyin also have goods, the total sales are tens of thousands of pieces, and they will not make money.
The whole network has more than 1 million fans, and the usual live broadcast, goods, and video income are also quite a lot, why didn't Xiaoxian scrape together enough money for kidney replacement?
Questioning and questioning, there are still many fans who bitterly persuade her to simply take this opportunity to open crowdfunding, cure the disease at one time, and don't miss the good opportunity for treatment because of her family.
But Xiaoxian once again seemed to choose to stand in front of his family.
She left a message in the comment area, saying that her mother sent her a message to apologize, saying that she had dragged her down for so many years, and she felt proud to help her family.
also said that her boyfriend wouldn't let her send a video saying, "People will say bad things about you, you are now uremia up, it's best to talk less, let's work silently..."
The phrase "people will say bad things about you" has cooled the hearts of fans who have always cared about and cared for Xiaoxian.
In the end, the love of fans is to let Xiaoxian change her kidney, not to let her continue to transfuse blood to help the group of family members who have never visited her, and repeatedly overdraw the goodwill of netizens.
Voldemort, selling misery, scams... A lot of harsh voices came out, and any accusation could make Xiaoxian "overturn".
Seeing that she refused to change her kidney twice, some netizens began to ask her to post her income details, wondering why this million-dollar blogger hadn't earned enough money to change her kidney.
In her barrage, bad comments about "fraudsters" also began to appear.
Some uremia patients want to change their kidneys by smashing pots and selling iron, but they can't wait for a suitable kidney source.
And a million-dollar blogger like Xiaoxian has let go of two life-saving opportunities, is it really because of family difficulties, or is it some other reason?
Standing on the edge of the cliff where the human setting overturned, Xiaoxian came out again to explain the situation.
First of all, he briefly introduced his family situation, his grandfather often took medicine before he died, his mother had rheumatism, and his brother had just graduated a month before 3500.
On the one hand, he admitted that his income did support his family, and it seems that he will continue to support him in the future.
Then I apologized to everyone.
But the reason for the apology was not because he used the proceeds to help his family, but because "I thought I thought people liked me instead of sympathizing with me."
What does this mean?
Xiaoxian believes that she thinks that all kinds of tips since she became a blogger are because everyone likes her as a person, rather than sympathizing with her for the label of uremia.
To be honest, such an expression does have the suspicion of fishing in troubled waters and pretending to be confused.
Not to mention that most of Xiaoxian's videos in the early stage will take the initiative to bring topics such as "uremia" and "dialysis".
Even if netizens did like this optimistic and positive girl later, and the point they were initially attracted to was because of the label uremia, this is a fact that Xiaoxian cannot avoid.
In 2021, Xiaoxian began to record his fight against uremia at Station B.
In the first video, she said her dream, which is to become a mother one day when she recovers.
Because her voice is very good, Xiaoxian will occasionally cover songs, ridiculing herself as a girl who "earns medical expenses by singing", hoping that everyone passing by can give her a free like.
Xiaoxian's singing voice is indeed very good, and she has a very funny Guangxi accent when she speaks, coupled with an optimistic and cheerful uremia girl, only half a year after entering Station B, the average number of views of her videos has exceeded 2 million.
After a while, Xiaoxian began to share the love story between himself and her boyfriend, and his boyfriend gradually became a character who often appeared in Xiaoxian's account.
The two of them met at work, when Xiaoxian had chronic kidney failure, and her boyfriend said that he didn't care, hoping to accompany Xiaoxian to cure the disease together.
For her self-media career, Xiaoxian resigned from Guangxi and went to Haikou, and her boyfriend moved with her without saying a word.
I have to say that if she hadn't been tortured by illness, Xiaoxian would have been a beautiful girl, and she might have realized her desire to get married and have children long ago.
Fate kissed her bitterly, but she sang in return, and Xiaoxian's story touched many people.
There are many people who are not rich themselves, and they give Xiaoxian money one by one, hoping to help this girl get through the difficulties and return to health.
But unlike the positive beauty shown in her video, after this matter became a big public opinion, the old fans who were turned over Xiaoxian have long begun to expose her true face as a character on the Internet.
The old fan said that he knew Xiaoxian as early as when she had only a few dozen fans in the live broadcast room of other platforms.
Seeing that Xiaoxian's experience was pitiful, he began to give her advice and help her choose the title of the video to attract traffic.
"The uremia girl is hospitalized and owed, is this singing video to pay off the debt, do netizens think I will succeed?"
After using this fan's title, Xiaoxian's video views increased sharply, fans increased, and the platform's tips continued.
Xiaoxian became an inspirational figure almost overnight, and her fans on various platforms continued to rise, and many TV stations invited her to participate in the Dream Fulfillment program.
Soon, Xiaoxian paid off the 5,000 yuan debt he owed to the hospital.
At this time, the old fan found Xiaoxian and persuaded her that since she had paid off the debt, she should remove the relevant videos and not occupy the resources of other people who needed help.
But Xiaoxian did not do so, but moved titles similar to "uremia girls sing to earn medical bills" to various platforms, almost becoming her slogan.
What made this fan even more angry was that Xiaoxian posted two videos of needing thyroid surgery in half a year, both of which were tips from fans (now the first video has been deleted).
According to the old fan, later, Xiaoxian even guided fans to conduct online violence against her, and many private messages poured into her social account to make her apologize to Xiaoxian.
And this old fan did not give up, has been contacting the program group of Xiaoxian docking, asking them to investigate her income details, and later was really kicked out by several program groups.
The old fan also released a suspected call record with one of the program group staff, and the other party said:
"She will definitely not be on the air this episode."
As for what the program team found out, or just doubts, no one knows.
We often say that "the emergency does not save the poor", and this is especially true in the online world.
Strangers who have never known each other can certainly help within their own means, but if it is only because they are "poor", probably no one will be willing to give generously.
Some netizens once left a message to Xiaoxian: If you have earned enough money to change your kidney, don't post videos under the banner of changing your kidney.
At that time, Xiaoxian responded, saying that he had earned more than 100,000 yuan and was not enough to change his kidney, so he repaid the loan and favors, and the rest opened a studio.
In the recent video, Xiaoxian said that the current price of kidney source is indeed hundreds of thousands, and it has become 180,000 after the price increase.
Such inconsistencies made netizens once again put a question mark on Xiaoxian's image.
Xiaoxian, who has become a million-dollar blogger, has repaid loans, sent favors, helped his family, opened a studio after earning money... Just don't save your life, which has become the most incomprehensible thing about her.
What was originally an inspirational and heartwarming redemption story turned into a chicken feather in the end.
Dig-chan prefers to believe that Xiaoxian really made such a choice for special reasons in his family, and no one would risk his life just to earn a few more years of "sympathy fees".
Since Xiaoxian believes that everyone really likes her as a person, even if one day she no longer earns sympathy because of illness, she will also be noticed because of her personal charm.
Things have developed to this point, some netizens have begun to doubt her "personality" because of her various behaviors, thinking that Xiaoxian is accumulating wealth with this.
There are more fans who hate her and hope that she can get rid of the shackles of her original family and save her life first.
But everyone has their own life and choices, and no one can cross her to save herself.
In any case, I hope she recovers soon.