"One father is better than a hundred teachers", the father is always the most solid support in the eyes of the child. Maybe they're old, but in their eyes you'll always be that child.
In the face of the burden of life, the father understands the son, the son understands the father; there are love details, showing the benign conscience of family interaction.
The benign interaction of interpersonal communication begins with the benign relationship between father and son and mother; nothing is said, and only the action of pulling the rope to one's side makes the human body feel the feeling of love and being loved.
Some netizens said that they remembered the bits and pieces of their hometown in the countryside when they were young, exactly the same. Time flies so fast! I'm getting old.
When I was a child, he helped my father carry things like this, he just let me take the handle, the rope was actually a little in front of his shoulder, I had almost no weight on my side, just to help him maintain his balance. In this flash, my father has grown old.
Fathers get old, often suddenly, all of a sudden. Slow movements, gray hair, poor spirits, waddling, bent back, emaciated, no more talking. Father is indeed old, but father's smile is still so amiable.
Do you remember when your father started aging?
Some netizens said that I am a girl, one meter sixty-five tall, my father one meter seventy-five, one day a few years ago walked with him on the road, I suddenly found that he became as tall as me...
Some netizens also said that they suddenly found that their father had more white hair, and suddenly felt that he was very dependent on me, and began to ask me about everything.
Suddenly, full of emotion and heartache.
What do you do when your parents are really old?
Parents are old, if you are not around is equal to nothing, they are sick, you can not help at all, guilt and self-blame will not help.
I believe that every child has made his or her filial piety wish to his parents in his heart, especially this kind, "Wait until I have money..." "Wait until I have time..." But this wait may be a lifetime.
Therefore, filial piety cannot wait. There is a saying that when parents are there, there is still a source in life; when parents go, life is only a way back. For most people, especially during the New Year's Holiday, worrying, missing, and reuniting may be the happiest thing in this year, because with parents, there is a home in the heart; we must not wait until we lose it to choose to cherish.
While reality makes it difficult for young people to weigh time between parents, children, and work, it's important to believe that time is like water in a sponge, and there's always a squeeze. I also hope that the children's wishes for "filial piety" made to their parents when they are young can be realized.
PS: What is the moment when you feel like your parents are really old?