Author 丨 Sauce Auntie
This is the 1185th night that Aunt Sauce accompanies you
A few days ago, Aunt Sauce saw a post in which people and things were described, which really made people out of anger.
Some netizens exposed that in the bathroom of a bar in Guangzhou, double-sided mirrors were blatantly installed.
Girls are washing their hands, patching their makeup, or changing clothes on the mirror side, and there is a room on the mirror side.
And the people inside are through this mirror to see the situation in the bathroom here clearly.
What was even more frightening was that the people in the opposite room were still looking at them and smiling, and even if they were discovered, they did not have the slightest look of panic, as if they were not surprised at all.
But this is simply voyeurism, a typical invasion of privacy.
What's even more outrageous is that peeking behind the mirror is not enough, and even some people, while the girls are defenseless, knock on the glass to scare people for fun.
Obviously, they are all the same consumers, how can it be as if some people are unconsciously consumed?
The exposure of the incident has aroused a lot of attention, and many people have been unfair to women, and feel that the practice of being "live-" for private behavior is simply a great disrespect for women.
But the official response of the bar can be said to be a bit of a circumvention of the point as far as he is concerned.
They acknowledged the existence of the mirror and the existence of the room behind the mirror. However, it was deliberately emphasized that the reason for this design is only to ensure the transparency of the room, and there is no other malice.
Moreover, he also said that this wash stand was originally shared by men and women, and it was not intended to snoop.
What the purpose is, I think everyone has their own judgment.
But that analogy really makes people know what is "idyllic and shameless.".
"It's like you're passing by and he peeks at you, does that mean voyeurism?"
Image source: Screenshot of the surging news video
When did it become such a grand thing to peek?
Earlier, Aunt Sauce had paid attention to an incident about "secretly filming", and the appearance of the sneaky photographer "vibrating with words" is still remembered.
A girl in a fitness suit was secretly photographed by a man in public, and when she was found, she asked the other party to delete it.
But not only was it rejected, but the other party also blamed the person who was secretly photographed in particular: "Aren't you disgusting when you dress like this?" ”
Image source: Screenshot of the cover video
Where is there such a reason under the heavens, obviously it is his fault for holding up his mobile phone, but he takes care of himself and talks about the girl's clothing.
But if you look closely, there is nothing wrong with girls wearing gym clothes from head to toe. Moreover, how she dresses is her business, which cannot be the reason why others secretly shoot.
The girl argued for herself: "I came out to the gym, what does it matter to you to dress like this?" ”
It makes sense, but the brazen candid photographer did not feel that his behavior had any deviation, but asked the girl: "What is the matter with you that person shooting you?" ”
It is simply a strong argument, the girl herself does not accept his fallacy at all, with the freedom of women's dress, trying to persuade the other party to delete her photo.
What makes people feel that the three views have been impacted is the next words of the candid photographer:
"Then you strip naked and look at it, and see if people shoot you?"
"Are you still afraid of others seeing you when you dress like this?" When you dress like this, you need someone to look at you. ”
It is really infuriating, and when you secretly photograph others and accuse others from the commanding heights of self-imposed heights and lose the bottom line, it is really not surprising that any behavior is really happening.
However, after the incident caused a hot discussion on the Internet, some of the comments in the comment area still let people know what is cold.
There are not a few people who support the "victim guilt theory", and those who advise girls to be conservative and say that girls should be more traditional have received nearly 50,000 praises.
It can be seen that the focus of attention deviates from the simple one or two people, and there are not a few who trace the cause to the victim after the incident.
But I really want to ask, the flower is broken, is it really the fault that the flower blooms too brightly?
Why can't we persuade those who fold flowers to control their hands?
Before, Yang Mi was secretly photographed at the bottom of the skirt, which caused a hot discussion on the Internet.
Originally, as a star with her own traffic, she was surrounded by cameras everywhere she went, and for her, it was no longer strange.
But there are always some people who are full of bad intentions and hide directly at the bottom of the stairs she is going to pass. I picked up my phone and aimed it at the bottom of her skirt.
Thanks to attending the event that day, Yang Mi was wearing pants, and his jacket was covered, but even so, he was still patted on the thigh.
Imagine how out of control the consequences would be if she wore a skirt.
Such an act should have been condemned with all odds. But after repeated fermentation on the Internet, many people finally accused the stolen people of being wrong.
Saying she's hype, saying her pants are short, saying she's dressed up like this is inappropriate, abounds.
It is really unbelievable logic, obviously some people are obscene in their hearts, and their behavior is disgraceful, but in the end, they have become someone else's.
Forced to wear a pot that carries the heart of the people.
It reminds me of that interview on the streets of India.
The men's argument is the same:
"Of course it's the girls' fault"
"They wear little skirts and there will be boys who will do bad things"
Image source: Screenshot of the street interview video
From the salty pig hand on the bus, to the peep of the mall elevator, to the secret photo of the public toilet...
Malice in life is not uncommon, right?
But too many people have used the phrase "flies don't sting seamless eggs" to float past.
That's hurt, it's a violation, it's something that should be rejected by everyone.
What is wrong is never clothing, what is bad is always the human heart.
There is also a satirical plot in the movie "Carnival":
After the 12-year-old girl was sexually assaulted, the first thing her mom did was cut off her skirt and long hair.
Image source: Screenshot of "Carnival"
But we ask ourselves, is it really the skirt and long hair that are wrong?
It is especially important for girls to improve their awareness of self-prevention and learn self-help skills.
But just as importantly, we do our best to guard the light and the good, starting with no more indifference. Let those evil deeds be punished and prevent those evil thoughts from happening again.
I remembered a passage I had read silently:
"You can teach a girl to be wary of strangers and be vigilant, but you can't make her afraid to wear a floral dress, otherwise what do you want us to do?"
May all girls be treated tenderly by this world.
Best wishes.