Frankly speaking, the beginning of "The Right Way to Open Life" is somewhat bloody -
The annual birthday should be a happy day, but this is not the case for Bian Liang. Because from the beginning of that morning, he had all kinds of troubles.
First of all, when he was about to drive to work at the company, he found that his car was blocked by a luxury car, and he did not move around.
Then, when he took a taxi to the company, he knew that the company's meeting would have ended a long time ago, and if it were not for Mr. Liao's tolerance, the deduction of wages would have been light.
Third, when he went to Liao's office to find Mr. Liao, he knew that the promotion was gone, and the head office would have to evaluate them in an all-round way.
Fourth, and most importantly, it was his ex-girlfriend Dongxiao who was responsible for evaluating them this time. I even think that Dongxiao will appear on this day, purely intentionally, after all, the first time I saw Bian Liang, she said "happy birthday". Such an approach is somewhat suspected of blocking Bian Liang.
"If you can't be red in your eyes when you say goodbye, can you still have a red face", there is a song that once sang like this, which means that after breaking up and meeting again, if you can't remember what it was like when you were together, do you still have the throbbing feeling when you first met.
I don't know if this is the case for Dongxiao, but for Bian Liang, it is not.
At this moment, Bian Liang not only did not have red eyes, but also did not have a red face, but his heart was fifteen hanging buckets to draw water - seven up and eight down. After all, the ex-girlfriend became the boss, and no one knew what she would think.
In particular, the phrase "It's better to start the evaluation from the first person who walks into my office" scared Bian Liang a lot.
Thinking about it carefully, this reunion between Dongxiao and Bian Liang can be roughly divided into three stages——
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The first stage was Dongxiao's crazy temptation against Bian Liang.
Bian Liang was afraid that Dongxiao would retaliate against him, so he specially asked his old classmate Yu Guang to help organize a bureau to explore the bottom.
Dongxiao received Yu Guang's invitation and specially sent a message to ask Bian Liang, and ran outside his office to see his reaction, saying that he would take his car to leave the company together after work. Bian Liang quickly said that he was not in the company, but was debunked on the spot by Dongxiao.
When Yu Guang just began to tempt, Dongxiao immediately said it thoroughly, saying that he came back this time to Bianliang.
When they were together, Bian Liang said that he would marry her, and she wanted Bian Liang to fulfill her promise. Bian Liang and Yu Guang were taken aback, and quickly explained to Dongxiao that he was a husband with a wife. Dongxiao's attitude was very resolute, she waited for more than twenty years to fly more than half the world to come back, just to let Bian Liang marry him.
Dongxiao's words may not be all true, but in my opinion, they may not be all false.
According to the play, they are each other's first love. At the most beautiful age, I started a relationship, which was the most unforgettable memory in my life. Because the feelings at that time, there was no calculation and trade-off, no mechanism calculation, it was the purest love in this world.
Therefore, even if many people reach middle age, they still can't forget their first love.
After so many years, Dongxiao has never been married, and there are more or less bright elements in it.
On the taxi back, Bian Liang helped Dongxiao cover his coat, Dongxiao said that today's words were not true, and held his coat by the window to smell, afraid that it would be difficult for him to explain when he went back.
Whether it is true or not, it is estimated that only Dongxiao himself knows, after all, in the world of love, there is never an absolute boundary between true and false.
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The second stage is Dongxiao's "stalking" revenge on Bian Liang.
Later, Dongxiao told Bian Liang that he was married, and Bian Liang finally breathed a sigh of relief, but he didn't want to blink an eye, Dongxiao held out a big move——
After meeting the customer, Dongxiao asked Bian Liang to accompany him out shopping, and the two ate and drank and finally went to the wedding dress shop together. After Dongxiao chose the wedding dress, he asked Bian Liang to help try on the suit, and Bian Liang changed into a suit with the mentality of helping others to the end, and even took photos together.
On the second day, Bian Liang learned that Dongxiao gave authorization to the bridal shop, printed out their wedding photos and put them outside the wedding shop window, not only was the company employee see it and took a gossip, but even the bridal shop became an Internet celebrity check-in place.
Because it was Dongxiao who authorized it, Bian Liang had to go to Dongxiao and ask her to help call the bridal shop to take down the wedding photos.
It was only at this time that Bian Liang knew what happened that year - at that time, Dongxiao was pregnant, and in order to find him, he fell in the alley and miscarried, not only that, because of that miscarriage, Dongxiao could no longer get pregnant.
In the end, the two reached an agreement that Dongxiao could find a bridal shop to remove the photo, provided that Bian Liang resigned from Hera.
In addition to the active Dink, for most women, children are not only the continuation of their lives, but also their emotional support, and if they can't have children, they lose half of their lives.
I think, in fact, Dongxiao herself also knows that Bian Liang cannot be blamed for the things of that year, but after holding it for so many years, she must vent this breath in her heart, and Bian Liang is undoubtedly this venting object.
Because of Dongxiao's "aggressiveness", Bian Liang had no way to retreat, so he had to decide to move his family to Hainan.
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The third stage is the relief after Dongxiao's enlightenment.
After a lot of hard work, Bian Liang finally did the work of his family, and Fu's mother decided to sell her old house, leaving Bian Liang their house, and when Bian Liang wanted to come back when they were old, they also had a place to live.
Before leaving, Bian Liang went to find Dongxiao, wanting to really say goodbye to her. Back then, Dongxiao was forced by his mother to leave his conscience, and the two never said goodbye well, whether it was to Bian Liang or Dongxiao, it was a great regret.
Perhaps, this is life, many times, no matter how good the relationship between two people, but as long as one rubs shoulders, it is likely to merge into the vast sea of people and never meet again.
Take Bian Liang and Dongxiao, if it weren't for Dongxiao deliberately coming back to find Bian Liang, they might not have the chance to see each other again in their lives.
"How can you be willing? But I recognize! ”
"Because that event changed your destiny, I have to change it once, that's fair!"
Listening to Bian Liang's words, Dongxiao also completely thought about it, because even if they knew that there was that child at that time, they would not give birth to the child.
All of Dongxiao's resentment was just because Bian Liang didn't come to see her during the month she was hospitalized. Although after being discharged from the hospital, she went to find Bian Liang again, but because of her self-esteem, she did not enter the door.
Listening to Bian Liang's apology, Dongxiao was completely relieved and let Bian Liang go.
As said in the barrage, how is the ending, Dongxiao has actually known for a long time, whether or not to apologize, for Dongxiao's later life, it does not have much impact, what she wants is just Bian Liang's attitude, as long as an apology to end that memory, you can really start a new life.
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Frankly, at the beginning, it was difficult for me to understand Dongxiao's approach along the way, after all, what happened back then was caused by her mother, and she and Bian Liang were actually victims.
Moreover, in our inherent cognition, the so-called predecessor is just a fate of the Qingming Festival.
If you can't love each other, you should let each other go to the sea of people and let each other pursue their own happiness, not to mention that Bian Liang has a marriage at this time, and their story ended twenty years ago.
As the story progressed slowly, I slowly understood Dongxiao - although Bian Liang could not be blamed for what happened back then, she did conceive a child for Bian Liang, and because this child lost the opportunity to be a mother, no matter what, Bian Liang should be let know about it.
Some people say that when things have passed, they know what to do, after all, they all have a new life now; But thinking about it, if you always let Dongxiao bear all this alone, it would be somewhat unfair to Dongxiao.
Many times, most of our resentment does not necessarily have to make the other person compensate for anything, what we need may be just an apology, a statement, nothing more.
Although it is only a fluttering sentence, it can draw an end to our past life, let go of each other, and let go of ourselves.
It's just that although Bian Liang didn't leave, after the evaluation, Dongxiao came back and invested in Yu Guang's company, but I don't know what kind of intersection they will have at that time.
Personally, I still hope that they can get along like normal friends and have no other entanglements.
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