All this time, I fixed my eyes and attention on Huang Bo and Mei Ting.
Think that the two of them are worthy protagonists, and only from the two of them can you see what is the right way to open up life.
But actually, I seem to have overlooked a lot of details and plots because of this.
Those seemingly unimportant, even redundant details and plots.
For example, Fu Xintong's mother, such as Yu Guang's mother.
For example, Fu Xintong's biological son, such as Li Man's stepdaughter.
Throughout the story, they seem to be just some adjuvants and seasonings, but they actually have a more powerful aura and charm than the protagonist.
Whether alive or dead, whether biotic or not.
It seems to be strong, but it is actually a miserable mother
Fu Xintong's state today has a feeling of walking on the old road of motherhood.
Although her bipolar depression was caused by the sudden death of her mother, it was inseparable from her more than ten years of dedication to the family.
Just like her father, who had gone to a distant country since childhood, although his body was no longer large, he left his spirit in the deepest part of Fu's mother's heart.
As a single mother, Fu Mu no longer has her own life and life.
Although his daughter is the blood of his family after all, she also fell a piece of flesh from her body.
Women are pitiful by nature, and when the lover and dependence completely disappear, Fu Mu completely gives up on herself.
For her, perhaps the value of birth is only the daughter around her, and there is nothing else.
Under the pressure of life and survival, fate forced Fu Mu to have only a strong and weak side from now on.
She is no longer the weak woman beside her husband, she is no longer the gentle mother in her daughter's eyes.
Until the shackles of thought that supported her all her life rusted and even broke.
The weakness and weakness hidden in her heart completely exploded, and when she no longer cared about her daughter in her heart, she could finally get rid of the misery of this life.
Yu Mu, who seems to be domineering, is actually fragile
Compared with Fu Xintong, who was strongly protected by Fu's mother, Yu's mother's protection of her son is almost domineering that cannot be questioned.
No matter how rich the Yu family is, even if the son has long passed the age of starting a family.
As her mother's mother, Yu's mother still sees the middle-aged man in front of her as a little boy who does not know the world.
She worries about everything related to her son, whether it is family or career, whether it is daily life or standing up.
She was worried that her son would be vacated by his wife, and she was worried that her granddaughter would suffer from her stepmother.
She is worried that her son's career will be deceived by outsiders, and she is worried that the Yu family will not be able to succeed anyone.
She is worried that her daughter-in-law will ride on her son's head, and she is worried that Li Man is not as good as her own mother to her granddaughter.
Such a mother makes her daughter-in-law aggrieved, gives her granddaughter a headache, and makes her son afraid.
Because in her heart, everyone can hurt their son anytime and anywhere.
Maybe it's that the amount of Yuguang's good medicine is too small, or maybe Yuguang's medicine is not the right medicine.
In any case, now Yuguang has not had the same effect as Fu Xintong has on his mother.
For Yu's mother, her son is just a dispensable health supplement, or even rich in chemical components vitamin B and vitamin C.
As long as her usual diet is normal, Yu Guang can only stay in the flowery green medicine bottle, placed in the medicine box that will never be opened if she is not sick.
I thought it was a rebellious teenager, but it was actually the best spiritual comfort
In the eyes of adults, Bian Xiaofang may not be a good child and a good student.
But in the eyes of his peers, Bian classmate may be a good friend who is envied and admired.
Compared with the classmates who were admitted to key high schools in Zhenggong, Bian Xiaofang has a good grandfather who plays games with him, and a good mother who follows him in everything.
Even though he did many times that should have made his mother angry, he finally got off the boat under his mother's protection and crossed the water without a trace.
Just like Fu Xintong's position in Fu's mother's heart, Bian Xiaofang has the same status in Fu Xintong's heart.
Facing her husband, who pounced all his body and mind on work and career, the reason why Fu Xintong still dedicated his youth to this family was all because of the piece of meat that fell from him.
No matter how good or bad his son's grades are, no matter what his son's plans and enjoyment of his future are.
As long as her son is by her side, the world is beautiful for her.
When the son officially entered the residential school repeat stage, when the mother suddenly passed away from him.
Fu Xintong's world suddenly collapsed completely, even though her husband was by his side all day.
But it cannot replace the spiritual existence of the mother and the physical existence of the son.
For the man who has been with him all his life, this boy who will live with others in the second half of his life is the existence she cares about the most.
She doesn't want her son to see herself now, and she doesn't want her broken side to be seen by her son.
When talking to my son, when I face my son's pleading.
Fu Xintong's already broken heart was reunited like magic.
In the face of her son, she once again has strong self-control and strong perseverance.
For her son, she can endure all the unbearable pain and suffering, because his son is the best medicine to heal her, even if it is only temporary.
I thought it was a rebellious princess, but it was actually the most solid city
He was sent abroad from an early age and lived alone in the rest of his life.
Although she has great wealth and family wealth, she is also a girl who makes people sympathetic.
No matter how she says today that she doesn't care if adults are by her side, doesn't she really want to hug her mother again in her heart?
Living abroad for many years has taught and accustomed her to hiding her true thoughts.
As Yu Zhong's stepmother, although Li Man has long understood what she will face, the truth of life is not something that she can face bravely as a woman.
Everyone knows that stepmothers are not good, and everyone understands that it is difficult to enter a wealthy family.
Maybe it's greed for wealth and pleasure, maybe it's really moved by this man.
In any case, Li Man's path today is her own choice, and she has to bear all this alone.
Because the stepdaughter closes her heart and family emotions, for Li Man, she is a "stone that is not hot".
But as a woman who cannot have biological flesh and blood for the time being, a woman who is getting older day by day.
No matter how strong a woman is, she also needs to find a fire in this cold home that can warm herself.
Whether or not he was pressured by his husband and mother-in-law, when Li Man faced Yu Dongdong, he would always show flattery.
Perhaps everything the stepmother did was just a compromise between money and wealth in Yu Zhongzhong's eyes.
But as a little girl who has lost her mother's love since she was a child, can she really understand Li Man's deep desire and desire for children?
Even if it is of great benefit to her competition for family property, isn't it the most basic nature of every woman to like children?
Yu Zhongzhong was still too young, and it would be at least another twenty years before she understood what she meant to Li Man.
Perhaps it is precisely this reason and relationship that makes Li Man cover for this stepdaughter who does not like him again and again under the invisible pressure of his mother-in-law.
It also makes her face Yu Zhongzhong's repeated backstabbing of herself, although she will show grievances and helplessness, but she will still focus on her great study.
As a mother, it doesn't matter if the child is your own.
In terms of success or not, perhaps Li Man, the stepmother, is doing better than Fu Xintong, the new mother.
Perhaps fate saw how unfair he was to Li Man.
Through the hands of Yu's mother, he took Yu Zhongzhong back to China and temporarily placed it in Li Man's body to take care of.
So, under the daily contact between Li Man and Yu Zhongzhong, this stepdaughter, who was cold and frosty, showed a sincere smile to Li Man for the first time.
It turns out that the stone can also be hot, and it turns out that Li Man is also a competent mother.
Whether the girl in front of you is her biological daughter or not.
For Li Man at this moment, she may have inadvertently placed her heart completely on her daughter.
Perhaps in the near future, this original broken daughter will become Li Man's warmest reliance in this cold family.
Perhaps in the near future, this daughter, who did not like herself, will become the most solid city behind Li Man.
(This article is an original article of "Hua Yuhan", and the non-"Hua Yuhan" account is all plagiarism and handling!) ）
The above is my understanding and perception of episode 31 of "The Right Way to Open Life", more wonderful analysis, see you next time!
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