Edit: Sister Chao
How terrible is the urge?
A woman in Chongqing, in a rage, used scissors to cut more than 30 wedding dresses in the wedding dress store, and was subsequently asked by the store for compensation of 67,000 yuan.
Impulsive for a while, regret the green intestines. It turns out that impulse doesn't solve anything, it makes things worse...
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In the online video, a woman holding scissors is cutting her wedding dress one by one in the wedding dress shop.
The person who recorded the video seemed to be a clerk, dissuaded: "You have lost a little bit more, oh, a wedding dress is a few thousand yuan, you have to think clearly." ”
The woman was angry, did not listen to it at all, and replied: "Think clearly, thousands, tens of thousands can be." ”
This matter also starts with the deposit.
In April, the woman ordered the October wedding decoration service at the wedding dress shop, and then cancelled the wedding because of pregnancy, and the woman asked for a refund of the deposit of 3500 yuan.
The wedding dress shop said that the deposit could not be refunded, it could be turned into the decoration service of the baby banquet, the woman agreed, but somehow, later regretted it, so there was a scene in the wedding dress shop.
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When the emotion comes up, it begins to be reckless, and often many things come back and there is no room for recovery.
The direct consequence of the woman's impulsiveness is that she will not only face compensation of 67,000 yuan, but also may bear criminal liability for intentionally damaging other people's property.
Some people say: "Pregnant women have large emotional fluctuations, which can be understood." ”
Can you run into someone's shop and damage your property when you're pregnant? Can you tear up other people's exam papers at will when you are in your third year of high school? If you are not in the right state, will others have to let you?
Seeing that her mood fluctuated greatly, the clerk had repeatedly dissuaded her and clearly informed her of the consequences of the incident, but she still insisted on going her own way.
Although the pregnancy is special, it does not mean that she must be forgiven for doing wrong things.
In life, there are many angry and hysterical people like the woman who cut the wedding dress.
They talk and do things without considering the consequences, only trying to be happy for a while, showing the arbitrariness of action, to put it bluntly, it is willful.
In the movie "Revolutionary Road", the protagonist couple broke out into an emotional crisis after learning that the choices of the two sides were inconsistent.
They were furious and scolding, denying each other what they had done in their married lives and denying everything in the past. The two are hysterical and bury their love completely. In the end, the female protagonist collapsed and committed suicide, and the male protagonist was lonely.
Emotional breakdown, perhaps mixed with grievances and pain, but what adult wouldn't experience it? If everyone indulges, will the world be better?
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Napoleon once said, "A man who can control his emotions is greater than a general who can take a city." ”
Impulse is a blind emotion of man, an irrational act. It turns out that impulse doesn't solve anything but complicate problems faster.
Only by recognizing this emotion of their own can they understand what kind of consequences will be behind their wayward behavior, so as to calm their mentality, otherwise they will be like this pregnant woman, venting for a while, and tears afterwards.
If she doesn't cut the wedding dress, the worst result will be that she won't get the deposit back. Even if you really can't help it, cut one or two pieces, the gas is out, and the money can't lose much.
One thought of heaven, one thought of hell.
Life is not easy, do not disrupt your own rhythm because of your own impulses. Many times, calmness is also a kind of fulfillment for oneself.
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