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In the past few days, there is one thing that has aroused everyone's hot discussion: Chongqing angrily cut 32 wedding dress women.
On January 9, the Internet exposed that a woman in Chongqing angrily cut several wedding dresses in a wedding dress shop. I watched the video, the clerk of the wedding dress shop repeatedly reminded her "you want to think clearly, a wedding dress is thousands", the woman did not listen to the advice, but released a "bold statement": how many thousands? Tens of thousands? Bully Lao Tzu.
Then, in this impulsive mood, she used scissors to cut 32 wedding dresses from the wedding dress shop.
After the video was posted online, it went viral.
Later, the wedding dress shop responded that the woman wanted to refund the deposit of 3500 yuan because of pregnancy, but the two sides did not negotiate in place, and she cut 32 wedding dresses in one breath. The store also said that the cut wedding dress, a total of 67,000 yuan was bought before, and if the other party was unwilling to negotiate, it was ready to take the legal route.
After the video fermented on the Internet, the party who angrily cut the wedding dress spoke up online, saying that she did not accept compensation of 50,000 yuan, only willing to compensate 30,000 yuan, and said that she was not crazy, and there were causes and consequences. She also felt that she was too impulsive and regretted her actions that day. But what is the use of regret, things have happened, your behavior has caused losses to the business, and people should claim compensation for you.
Now it is too late to say anything regretful, why did you go when you released the "bold words". The wedding dress shop clerk reminds you again and again, tell you not to cut, do not cut, do not you still sprinkle all your anger on the wedding dress? It is too childish, when cutting people's wedding dresses, she said that she could afford to pay, how much she could afford, and after the store claimed only 50,000 yuan, she was unwilling. Didn't you say tens of thousands could afford to lose?
How do you evaluate this?
The woman who angrily cut 32 wedding dresses did not deserve sympathy, and it was your own business to be pregnant and in bad mood, not an excuse for you to damage people's belongings. Adults have to pay for their emotions, and since it is their impulses that have done the wrong thing, they should pay the price they deserve.
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Angry cut 32 pieces of wedding dresses woman only willing to lose 30,000: have you forgotten your original "bold words"?
In the "Vegetable Root Tan", it is said: "Do not take advantage of joy and make promises, do not be angry because of drunkenness, do not take advantage of the recovery and be eventful, and do not end up tired." "People are emotional animals, when they are emotionally headed, they will do wrong things because of impulse, so as to cause irreparable losses, and learning to control emotions is a person's top emotional intelligence, you indulge your emotions, do wrong things, then you should also pay the due price."
As an adult, she should pay for the wrong things she did and the wrong behavior, and only when she paid the price would she remember sex for a long time.
Continuing to say that the woman who cut the wedding dress angrily, she was actually quite pitiful, but to tell the truth, the poor person must also have something to hate. The staff of the wedding dress shop said, "The pregnant woman's mood is very bad, and her family and husband do not care about her." If reasonable compensation can be made, she will not be held legally responsible." Out of this file, the family and husband do not care about her, it is indeed quite pitying, but no matter what, you should not do such a wrong thing, sprinkle emotions on unrelated people, causing losses to others, you have to pay for your behavior.
Maybe she just sought attention at first, but as a result, none of her family nor her husband sympathized with her, or even wanted to care about her. This is also why I advise some people to control their emotions, you can not do the wrong thing because of the impulse, your impulse will only make the other party hate you more.
The woman who angrily cut the wedding dress, if she can't change her bad emotions, then it is difficult for her to live her life well. Find the reason for everything from yourself, rather than blindly "you feel".
I can understand that pregnant women may not be in a good mood, but your bad mood is not a reason for you to do something wrong. Who has not been pregnant, don't always feel that you are pregnant, others have to accommodate you, why should others accommodate you? What does other people have to do with you, you pour all your anger on others.
Even if such a woman marries home, the future marriage will not be peaceful, you will cut the wedding dress because people do not return your deposit, do things regardless of the consequences, if you have a conflict with anyone in the marriage, what do you do? There are many contradictions in living in marriage, big and small, who can always accommodate you for a lifetime? Even if it is your husband, people will not accommodate you for a lifetime.
I have always warned some women not to act willfully, and not to be pampered and arrogant, and feel that a person can spoil you and do whatever you want. Everything has principles and bottom lines, and your behavior cannot be too unreasonable. Learn to control your emotions, seek ways and means to solve problems, and lose your temper.
Impulsive anger for a while, but to send out their own anger, as a result, the deposit of 3500 became 50,000, the price of letting emotions act arbitrarily is 15 times, do a good calculation, think about it, how much the cost of their "anger" is.
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When I was younger, I was in a very bad mood, and sometimes when the emotion came up, I was very angry, and then I would do something wrong. But when I was arguing with my boyfriend, I was emotionally confused, and I was very angry, so I would at most drop a cup or something.
Later, I reflected on myself, what is the effect of my anger? Could it be that I get angry and then I'm fine?
As it turned out, I didn't get very good and hurt my boyfriend.
So after a long period of reflection, I gradually changed my bad faults and tried to stabilize and manage my emotions.
Now we will quarrel, but both people can stabilize their emotions and can communicate calmly. I tried to smooth myself out, and when I got along with outsiders, I tried to be as peaceful as possible. Of course, there will be contradictions and conflicts, but to solve the problem, do not get angry, because it is useless to be angry.
Do things to consider the consequences, do not be too impulsive, you act impulsively, then no one can pay for you, only yourself, your wrong behavior will only cause everyone to resent, and no one will sympathize with you, even if you are pregnant, do wrong things also have to bear responsibility for their own behavior.
I hope that the woman who cut the wedding dress in anger can recognize her mistakes, don't make them again in the future, reflect on yourself, think about why you caused trouble, your family and husband did not help you, is it in the past, you also made mistakes because of your emotions. Correct yourself, learn to stabilize your emotions, otherwise you will only live more pitifully.
People who want to be mothers, or be mature, don't be too childish and impulsive.
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★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing about the warm emotional affairs of this world.