Love, not a game, is not a business.
Since the fire of blind date variety shows such as "Do Not Disturb", I believe that dating programs and websites have mushroomed.
There are also many classic fragments that reflect social reality.
The girl who said in the show that she would rather sit in a BMW and cry than sit on a bicycle and laugh" almost became the representative of the Puxin woman, the material woman.
Then, on major websites, video platforms broke out the earth-shattering bride price, blind dates as business, marriage as a means of getting out of poverty is not uncommon.
There is a kind of monthly salary of 3,000 yuan, mediocre looks, ordinary ability, the average family of the girl is extremely confused of self-confidence requirements of the other half of the height of 185, big long legs, handsome, successful career, have a car and a house, but also spoil themselves into a little princess, in addition to giving their own 20,000 pocket money every month to do nothing, help the mother's family to help the poor, work for the younger brother to get married as a cow and a horse, buy a car and buy a house.
There are also all to get married, the groom to receive relatives to the door of the house suddenly the lion opened his mouth to increase hundreds of thousands of dowry money, otherwise he would not get married, so that the groom was cold and cold, and finally gave up directly, and even the explosion of the marriage registration with the bridesmaid on the spot occurred.
And what you say is right, you don't buy me expensive bags of clothes and shoes, take me to eat high-end restaurants, send high-priced gifts every holiday, send thousands of red envelopes, I can't even remember you being angry, I haven't given a penny to the family, as long as one of the conditions is not met, say that the other party does not love himself, straight men, do not know romance, have no ability, will not care about the pastoral female crab woman who loves women.
And also......
Suddenly I didn't want to say more.
This is a female, male compatriots have no problem?
Yes, definitely.
There are Puxin women, there are Puxin men, there are Fudi demons, and naturally there are Ma Bao men.
Scumbags and scumbags, after the sea of neptunes, are innumerable.
I can't help but ask what's wrong with this society?
What is wrong with the love marriage between men and women now???
Whether a love marriage is a relationship between a man and a woman or a business that is in love but more like a commodity trade.
This question, I read a lot of copywriting commentary, big V articles, experts, cough, experts to count.
One of the things that impressed me the most was:
It is not that the love marriage has deteriorated, it is some of the existing problems, the previous communication media is small, the scope of diffusion is small, so it has not attracted a lot of attention, and now WeChat Weibo Douyin Kuaishou today's headlines are numerous platforms, and these things are known by many people.
Of course, love marriage is not a commodity business, let alone a material fight business.
Those who regard it as a business and a utilitarian mind, who want to obtain money and material wealth through it, change their economic situation, and break through class will eventually pay the price.
No one wants to be wronged, and no one will choose a person with impure purposes and bad intentions as a partner.
And now many people lament that love marriage is becoming more and more material, utilitarian, and realistic people, and there are also reasons for this influence.
Of course, the huge number of single men in China at present makes women who have been biased by some malicious and bad marketing numbers and have long lived in beauty and exquisite egoism feel that they are in an advantageous position in the marriage market activity, which is a seller's market, becoming arrogant, stupid, and selfish, vitriolous and mean, and cannot but say that there is no connection.
As for those shopping emotions with fake feminism, in fact, they are still attached to the other half of the strange women, they let marriage = transaction = have a car and a house and a deposit, making this phenomenon worse, can only be said to live for a long time.
Of course, some male compatriots do not want to forge ahead, have no ambition, do not strengthen themselves, do not struggle, do not strive to improve themselves, but regard their singleness as the reason for the strange things of the above-mentioned women, which is also very humiliating and useless.
In short, whether it is a woman or a man, in today's society, no matter how it changes, marriage is always a lifelong event, if you do not work hard, not excellent and reliable, no one will want to spend the rest of your life with you.
Plant the plane tree, bring the phoenix to come.
If you don't become an excellent and reliable cause, how can you get the result of happiness and warmth.
