A small baby who was only 100 days old cries to death because he was crying. No one will believe that my cousin's daughter really cried to death because she cried for a long time.
The cousin married at the age of 29 and gave birth to a child at the age of 30, which is also an advanced maternal age.
The cousin's daughter was born by caesarean section and was discharged home a week later, and as soon as the child came home, she began to sleep during the day and cry at night. As soon as I put it down, I cried, and when someone held it and walked around, I didn't cry.
My cousin's mother-in-law said that in the past, there was a saying that newborn children would have "100 days of trouble" or "full moon crying". It means that after the child is born, within a hundred days, it will cry in black and white, and when it is a hundred days, it will naturally stop crying, okay.
The same is true of "full moon crying", the little baby black and white upside down crying, wait for the full moon will not cry.
Cousin their conditions are limited, did not invite the sister-in-law, during the month is her mother-in-law to serve, the child is very good at sleeping during the day, as soon as the night began to cry. The cousin's mother-in-law and husband were afraid of what the child's disease was, so they took the baby to the hospital for a full body examination, and the result was that the child had nothing wrong with it, everything was normal, but it was crying when it was dark.
There is no way, the cousin had to arrange for the mother-in-law to coax the child in the first half of the night, and her husband to coax the child in the second half of the night, so that the old man can have a good rest in the second half of the night, stay up until the full moon, and the child can really not cry or make trouble.
It was hard to look forward to the full moon, the cousin thought that the child would not cry or make trouble, who knows, the child grew to more than sixty days, every day is still black and white upside down crying.
The whole family is looking forward to the child growing up quickly, growing up to a hundred days, and may not cry.
The joy of cousins and brothers-in-law's new parenthood is exhausted by the children's dozens of days of crying and tossing. The couple didn't want anything, and they wanted to get a good night's sleep every day, which was the greatest happiness.
When his cousin's daughter was eighty days old, her brother-in-law suddenly received a call from his sister in his hometown, asking his mother to quickly return to her hometown to take care of her sick father.
The brother-in-law's father suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage and stroke, lying in bed unable to move, so he asked his mother to return to his hometown in Shanxi immediately, but the cousin now needs help with the child.
My cousin's mother-in-law rushed back to her hometown in Shanxi the next day to take care of his father.
My cousin's own mother, my aunt, happened to be in Tianjin to take care of my cousin's second child and couldn't come back to take care of my cousin.
My aunt called back from Tianjin and said to my cousin: "The child has been more than eighty days, and there are still ten days to turn 100 days, you two should be patient, take care of the child, wait for your brother's second treasure to be a little older, maybe in a few months I will come back to help you with the child." ”
The aunt was very uneasy about her cousin and the two young men.
After the cousin's mother-in-law returned to her hometown in Shanxi, the child still cried every night, and the cousin and the brother-in-law divided the work, the cousin accompanied the child in the first half of the night, and the brother-in-law accompanied the second half of the night.
Because the cousin took care of the child too hard, the milk was gone, and she had to brew milk powder for the child to eat every day, which was another troublesome thing.
After her mother-in-law left, the two novice grandparents made chickens and dogs jump and scramble every day, and the cousin was sometimes too busy to eat every time she killed her own meal. When dawn comes, the child falls asleep, the cousin rushes to bed, and the brother-in-law goes to buy the day's vegetables early in the morning, and then rushes to work.
If the child is not a black-and-white cry and lives a normal life, the cousin can still cope with it. The child made such a fuss every day, and the two people were so tired that they were about to collapse.
After more than ten days of staying up, my cousin's daughter was exactly 100 days.
On this day, the cousin still coaxed the child in the first half of the night, and in the second half of the night, there was a brother-in-law to take care of it.
Both were exhausted. Because the brother-in-law had to go to work during the day and see the child at night, he carried the child for more than an hour and fell asleep unconsciously.
Because in the winter, the cousin wrapped the child in a small bag, and then tied her with a wide cloth belt, so that when the child cried, she would not get cold.
After the brother-in-law fell asleep, the child was placed on the sofa next to him, lying together, and the child cried for a while and rested for a while. The cousin slept deeply in the room and did not hear anything in the living room.
At three or four o'clock in the morning, the brother-in-law suddenly woke up from his sleep. He hurried up to check on the child, and saw that the child slept well, motionless, and did not cry.
The brother-in-law saw that the child was sleeping soundly and wanted to carry her into the room to sleep.
The brother-in-law just picked up the child, what does it feel like is wrong? It doesn't look like the child is asleep. He touched it with his hand, and his daughter's face was cold and cold.
The brother-in-law held the child and ran to the room to wake up the cousin.
The cousin got up, held the child, and put her index finger under the child's nose to probe, feeling that the child did not breathe at all. My cousin was so frightened that she didn't even wear shoes and went barefoot to find my mother, who lived upstairs.
My cousin and my mother lived in the same building, one on the fourth floor and the other on the fifth floor.
At 4:00 a.m., it was the best time for people to sleep, knocking on the door for half a day, my mother opened the door with sleepy eyes, saw my cousin barefoot, panicked, and asked my cousin: What happened?
The cousin said with a crying voice: "Big Mom, you go to my house to see, the baby doesn't seem to be out of breath."
When my mother heard this, she quickly put on her cotton jacket and came to her house with her cousin.
When I got to my cousin's house, my mother hurriedly untied the cloth belt that bound the child, opened the small quilt of the child to check, only to see the child's two small fists clenched tightly, placed on the chest, pulled apart, the diaper was not wet inside the and urine, there was still a little residual temperature on the body.
My mother lifted the child's leg upside down and slapped it on the back a few times, but the child still did not move.
"Quick, hurry up and call 120 to the hospital for rescue, the child is crying and holding his breath." My mother reminded my cousin that they called an ambulance.
The brother-in-law said that he did not have to call 120, and he would go to the children's hospital across the road, faster than 120.
After saying that, the two people packed up the children, and the brother-in-law went out first with the children in his arms.
My mother and cousin also came to the emergency room of the children's hospital, and the doctor touched the child's neck artery and wrist and said: The child has long been out of breath, and now the rescue is useless.
The cousin listened to the doctor finish speaking, and suddenly sat down on the bench in the emergency room, crying loudly.
My mother's tears also came out, and she persuaded my cousin not to cry, saying, you have just been a full moon, don't hurt your body, you are still young, wait for the body to be well, and then regenerate one later. Blame only this child for not being blessed and not having a fate with you.
My cousin listened and cried even more sadly!
The brother-in-law held the child, and there were also tears. My mother said: Take the child home first, and then discuss what to do...
The poor cousin hoped that the child would turn 100 days old, thinking that the child would not cry again in black and white. Who knew that because the two of them were too tired and negligent, they made their daughter cry stubbornly, and did not come up to choke to death.
Those novice dads and moms, if your child also has black and white upside down crying, do not two people fight fatigue war, there must be multiple helpers around to take the child.
Otherwise, what a beautiful daughter like my cousin, because of the "incompetence" of her parents, she raised her child to death, what a pity!