Feelings are both illusory and realistic things, and some changes in feelings are sometimes uncontrollable, so sometimes feelings will inevitably bring us pain, in the eyes of some people, the person they fall in love with may be a great pain. But to be honest, this pain is actually not too big, at least you will retain a reason and conditions for receiving the heart, and the biggest pain in the relationship is disappointment, because of disappointment and take the initiative to leave their love of the person is the most painful thing, and often experience this kind of pain people are those who are obsessed, affectionate, once in love does not leave a way back, today we will talk about these three empathy is difficult not to fall in love is more difficult, unless the disappointed constellations!
virgo
Virgo people are a kind of relatively rational people in their feelings, so in general, Virgo people will not easily move on who is moved, even if some of the hearts are more than some temptations, Virgo will not let themselves be trapped in feelings like water signs, unless they are really moved, so Virgo will instinctively leave a line when contacting feelings, in other words, Virgos will have some rational self-control psychology when they contact feelings, but people with richer life experience should understand a truth. Emotional rationality means not paying a sincere measure, and Virgo is typical.
Secondly, although being able to control itself is an advantage, sometimes more self-control will mislead itself, and the real motivation of Virgo is in this more contradictory situation, such as a person has a strong attraction to Virgo, then this attraction will slowly release the psychology of Virgo self-control, once Virgo does not have so strong rationality, it means that it will fall into love, and this state will also change Virgo's thinking, to put it bluntly, in the eyes of Virgo, the person who can be loved by himself is the best person , no one can compare.
So relatively speaking, other people in the eyes of Virgo is not so high value, so you have to know that Virgo's obsession is not a simple obsession, this is more like a kind of self-brainwashing and self-persuasion, and once Virgo falls into this situation, the probability of changing the heart will be very low, unless disappointed, empathy is difficult not to fall in love is more difficult, and from this point of view, Virgo is obsessed, of course, Virgo's heart is not in the usual sense of the heart, so sometimes the Virgo's love state is difficult to be understood by ordinary people.
Scorpio
Scorpio in the infatuation, change of heart of these two topics is representative, may be many friends do not know, Scorpio really moved the heart when the whole person, the whole heart is selfless, and even said that Scorpio can tolerate most of your shortcomings and deficiencies, as long as Scorpio has the idea of that determination, then the problem between you will instinctively become smaller and simpler, but in addition to those who are the first time to move the Scorpio, the rest of the Scorpio generally will not easily identify a person, and as long as Scorpio has been hurt, After that, you will become untrust of feelings, and even say that the better you are to Scorpio, the more Scorpio will be suspicious, and will instinctively suspect that you are not real.
In general, Scorpio in the process of love will become very contradictory, and even say that there is no reason to change, but if you can withstand the toss of Scorpio, until Scorpio can let go of the previous pain and then identify you, it means that he Scorpio will almost not leave you, empathy is difficult not to fall in love, unless disappointed, but this situation is generally rare, and the most important problem is that Scorpio does not have the rational self-control ability of Virgo in love.
So once Scorpio's heart fluctuates slightly, then they will involuntarily cater to a relationship, but at the same time because of the previous pain, so the state shown is to resist your current feelings, so at some point, the heart is actually a very painful thing for Scorpio, so there are always many friends who say that Scorpio is in an inexplicable Scorpio cold, about this question I want to say that this state of Scorpio is related to you but does not have much to do with it. So what you have to do is to give Scorpio a sense of security, and don't doubt your feelings because of Scorpio's cold state.
Leo
From the perspective of the constellation, Leo's inner emotions can be described as the closest pure and sincere emotion in the twelve zodiac signs, to put it thoroughly, as long as the lion really likes a person, the lion is willing to do anything for this person, and does not ask for returns, in fact, in real life, such a lion is also very common, for lovers to give up the reality of the lion There are many people, and the lion's infatuation and affection are not rational at some point, so the lion is easy to fall into the whirlpool of feelings, This characteristic of the lion will become confused and entangled for love in reality.
Of course, some Leo friends will say that they will not be entangled, and what I want to say about this is that there is no real heart, no real love, why do you want to entangle? Although Leo is very close to Virgo, Leo is really not as rational as Virgo, so once caught, it means that you can't extricate yourself, it's almost impossible to change your mind, and it's even more difficult to empathize, unless you disappoint the Lion and can't find the motivation and reason to love you again.
And in terms of constellation theory, the constellation that can make the lion have this crazy performance is generally Scorpio, Pisces, in other words, the lion's like is impulsive, blind, no way back, of course, the lion's like also has a prerequisite, that is, actively fall in love rather than be loved, which is the same as the state of the lion's lack of love, the lion's lack of love is his motivation and reason for loving others, not the love given by others, so if you have a lion around you crazy, then you must know how to cherish, Because once such a lion leaves, it means that there is no going back.