There will always be people in this world who believe in beauty and believe that goodness will happen. We call this mentality positive optimism, and it's the same in relationships. They believe in love, and they also believe that love will happen to themselves, fantasizing that they will have sweet love, and are full of yearning and hope for everything. But the opposite of this is the pessimistic attitude in the relationship. They don't believe in love, they just don't believe that they are so lucky, they will be lucky to have love.
Virgo: Always afraid that you are not good enough to have love
The perfectionistic nature of Virgo is really a double-edged sword for Virgo. The positive effect is to make Virgo strict with himself and especially strict with himself, so in many ways, especially in his career, Virgo is excellent.
But everything has two sides, and this pursuit of perfection is used in feelings, but it is not entirely good. Because of the requirements for perfection, the standards of everything in Virgo are particularly high, and the requirements for themselves are also.
So Virgo will always feel that he is not good enough, not good enough, and even if a person understands himself carefully and sees through himself, then he will not love himself with a dead heart.
Seemingly calm and sober, strong self-controlled Virgo, in fact, in fact, emotionally often very inferior. And Virgo pessimism is not just about feelings. They are pessimistic about everything. Their so-called pessimism is actually not pessimism about the world, but pessimism about themselves.
I always feel that I am not good enough, so I do not deserve to have those beautiful things. In fact, Virgo does not have to have this kind of thinking, you are really worth it, and it is a perfect match, a top match, a celestial match.
Capricorn: No one will love my old soul
Capricorn is a sign that has a big gap between actual age and psychological age. Their psychological age is always much older than their actual age, so Capricorn always gives people a solid and stable feeling of youth.
They seem to have few particularly exuberant desires emotionally, and even give people a feeling of abstinence and beauty. But in fact, the essence of Capricorn's attitude towards feelings is not really unnecessary, not eager.
Rather, Capricorns have always been pessimistic about love, and they do not think that love, a nihilistic thing, is really reliable. So since it is unreliable, why do you have to pursue it with all your heart?
So Capricorn reduces his desire for love, the essence of which is that his attitude towards love is really pessimistic. They do not believe in love, nor do they deny that there is love in this world. But they don't believe they're so lucky.
And Capricorns are too good at hiding themselves and hiding their emotions, so they are always worried that the other person's favorite is not really themselves at all. They may even think that if the other person really understands themselves, they may leave immediately.
Capricorns are always pessimistic, they like to think of things as the worst, which is Capricorn's emotional attitude towards things. Pessimism is always there.
Aquarius: Seeing too thoroughly, it is not so happy
In fact, Aquarius in the feelings, the most important thing is to go with the flow, they rarely talk about anything. In their opinion, the one who should come will come, and you who should go will not be able to keep it no matter what. Therefore, Aquarius has never been a constellation trapped by love, and it also lives very freely.
But although Aquarius is free, he is always pessimistic about love. Because they always see too much about human nature. They always see too clearly the nature of the relationship between people.
Therefore, he understands that feelings are just a game, and evenly matched forces can go farther and farther. Marriage is nothing more than cooperation, love to old love, but only a very small minority. After seeing through this truth, Aquarius naturally begins to be pessimistic.
He can always see through each other's routines and think carefully, but the water bottle rarely punctures. Although it is the wisdom of life to see through, it is inevitable that love will be a little more boring for the water bottle. It's hard to be confused, but it's actually a good thing.
Because of this, Aquarius is always pessimistic in the world of feelings. They also want a sincere love, a love that never breaks up. But Aquarius himself clearly understands that it is really too difficult.
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