Set enthusiasm and politeness in one, but to outsiders is better than to the wife, do you guess which zodiac sign this is?

There is a way that the road is known to the horsepower for a long time, and a person's truth does take time to help verify it at some times. Or to put it another way, after people spend time with each other, there will be less and less camouflage between each other, and the truth between each other will become more and more obvious. In this case, mutual understanding of themselves will be more clear and thorough. It's like some people will show their truth after marriage, and today we will talk about a more special group of constellations.

Set enthusiasm and politeness in one, but to outsiders is better than to the wife, do you guess which zodiac sign this is?

Libra – The attitude to life is a return to the self

Regarding Libra boys, I have been emphasizing a fact, the feeling of falling in love with Libra men is very good, first of all, Libra men have good temperament, many things in life are not accountable, and more importantly, Libra men are not nosy, leaving room for each other is relatively sufficient. This personality of the Libra man is completely different from that of the water sign man. But this good state of the Libra man is only a stage state, and when they are married and have a family, his state will become more and more self-defined, and this self-definition is still the kind of self-definition under the blandness.

One of the most prominent points is "no matter what you do". Honestly, not being nosy when in love is indeed an advantage, at least when two people get along without so much trouble. But when you get married and want to live a life, no matter what is idle, it is a disadvantage, because the family is supported by two people after all. Then when Libra men reach this stage, you will also find another characteristic in them, that is, the habit of avoidance is very common. He can hear what you say to his ears, but it's another matter to do it or not.

And as far as the real-life Libra man is concerned,

They tend to be farther away from the objective

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For example, if you tell a Libra man how to do something and when to do it, will he listen? Generally speaking, he will be polite on the surface, but he does not necessarily do it, so when you ask him why he did not do it, he will most likely tell you to forget. To be reasonable, Libra's forgetfulness is indeed quite large, but are some things really forgotten? No, or he chose to forget, this is actually a manifestation of an act of evasion, in layman's terms, a sentence, not to take responsibility.

However, to put it bluntly, these characteristics of Libra are only known to his family and his wife, and the Libra man is another image in the eyes of outsiders, that is, to combine enthusiasm and courtesy. Speaking of which, this is a very interesting feature of the Libra man, which is called the old good man. In addition, friends who have been with Libra men for a long time should know that after marriage, Libra men's attention and thoughts and words and deeds will basically be fixed on what he wants to do (because everything is stereotyped), and your things, family things, he may not care, or even think. Then the interesting phenomenon happens, and when you ask him what he should do, he politely perfunctorily.

He's not going to give you an opinionated approach

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Speaking of which, many friends will think that Libra men have no opinion when they see this feature of Libra men, so is this really the case? In fact, the reason why Libra can't give you an opinionated approach is because he didn't think about it at all, so when this thing is done, the characteristics of Libra's "hindsight" will come out. This is what I often say: "When things don't fall on Libra Man, he is leisurely, and after it falls on him, he is either trying to escape, or he is starting to be anxious at this time."

In fact, at these points, Libra women and Libra men are very similar. Then speaking of this, another characteristic of The Libra Man will appear, that is, "hypocrisy, pretending to be a good person". On the surface, it seems that Libra's external performance will indeed be defined as hypocrisy and good people by his wife and family, but in fact, in essence, Libra wants to make himself live freely, yes! The key point is to "let yourself live freely" For example, if you are talking to Libra about some "big things", then you may be angry and half dead, not joking, you are talking and turning your head to see that he is asleep, this is the Libra man. For example, when you encounter something, you are anxious to cry, but you turn your head to look at the Libra man, he does not react at all, and even laughs.

The characteristics of the Libra men we said above are not heavyweight, and then this is the characteristics of the Libra male heavyweight, the Libra men are good people in the eyes of others, but they may not be in the eyes of their wives. Why? First of all, in the eyes of The Libra Man, he gets along very well with his friends outside, because of what? Because of the hi with friends, there is no trouble. But there are many things with his wife, this one by one he can't escape will be irritable, so maybe he will be "depressed" as soon as he gets home, or he will feel that the atmosphere at home makes him very uncomfortable, so he wants to go out, so everyone look at the Libra men around you, how many will stay at home? Or to start a joke, isn't it normal for a Libra man to not be home all day?

Then the characteristics of Libra man's escape will also produce a sequelae, that is

Shirk responsibility and do not change

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For example, the last time you told him that there was something he did wrong, so you want him to correct it, then on the surface Libra Man will agree, but he may still do it the next time, you say he is wrong, he will shirk his responsibility, or he is forced. In short, because Libra men's ideas are easy to return to themselves, then this means that they are far from the objective distance, resulting in the inability to realize their mistakes, and their usual way is to pretend to be stupid, escape, and really can do it, otherwise how do you think the title of Libra "Sleeping God" came from?

Then in the eyes of The Libra man, his wife usually makes him very annoying, so when he is annoyed, he either escapes or pretends to be stupid, and others do not bother him so much, so his attitude towards outsiders is very casual, enthusiastic, polite, and the attitude and way of treating his wife is the way of the self, he will be infinitely close to the direction of his own interests, and will avoid the things that make him hate and irritable, which is the attitude of life. The reason why the Libra man is better to outsiders than to his wife is here, he is guided by his own feelings to his words and deeds and habits, and this is not wrong in their view.

Finally, I would like to leave you with a question: "Is the Libra man's heart warm or indifferent?" ”