In this life, there is some suffering, which no one can avoid, and after surviving, good days will come

In the book "Ordinary World", he once wrote such a passage:

"Life is so unpredictable, there is no eternal pain, there is no eternal happiness, life is like flowing water, sometimes so flat, sometimes so tortuous." 」

There will always be moments when we will be depressed by the sorrows that haunt us, and we will torment ourselves because of the obstacles that we cannot overcome.

But in this lifetime, people have come to cross the robbery, survived, good days will come, can not survive, life will only become worse and worse.

In fact, all the things we encounter are for us to grow, every step we take makes us reach a farther forward, all the precipitation in life is a valuable wealth, it depends on whether we know how to precipitate, whether we know how to cherish every opportunity to grow.

Psychologists have said: "Don't be afraid when you are bitter, after you have survived it, there are a lot of blessings waiting for you behind you." ”

Indeed, in this life, there are some sufferings that no one can avoid, and after surviving, good days will come.

01: Survive the pain of failure

Yan Ni once said: "No matter whether I succeed or fail, no matter what lies ahead, I just want to go forward, through the joys and sorrows, through everything, to see the spring on the sea and the blooming flowers." ”

Moving forward is our only way out, and because of a momentary failure to stop moving forward, we can only get more failures, worse life.

In this world, there has never been a smooth person, in different stages of life, we can always encounter different sufferings, and in the face of different sufferings, we can always have different results, maybe failure, maybe success.

But you have to understand that no one in this world has eternal success, and no one has ever failed, unless you are willing to fall.

The brilliance of others that we can see is often the result of their hidden countless failures, and if we only blindly envy the good fortunes of others, then we can only fall into a negative mood of self-hatred.

In this life, the suffering of failure, no one can avoid, survive the past, the good days will come.

Maybe it's academic failure, maybe it's a career failure, maybe it's an emotional failure, but no matter what kind of failure, in fact, they all come to cross us, survive it, and pass.

02: Survive the loss of a loved one

The rings of years never stop for a single person, no matter how we live, we are slowly getting old, slowly approaching death, and the difference between ages forces us to face life and death.

Even if we have ten thousand reluctance in our hearts, even if we can't cry for a long time, we can only watch our relatives leave weakly, and we can't accept this reality that we have to accept.

Perhaps, after understanding things, we know the reality that people will eventually die, no matter who we meet, we will experience a parting of life and death, but only when the reality really comes, we can truly experience how heavy the four words of "life and death parting" really are.

True growth must be accompanied by pain, real growth must be accompanied by parting, this road of life can only be completed by one person after all, and those who meet on the road can at most accompany you on a journey.

In this life, the suffering of losing relatives cannot be avoided by anyone, and after surviving, good days will come.

The moment of separation is full of countless reluctance and pain, but we are soberly aware that that day will come sooner or later, in fact, although our relatives are far away from us, their love will always accompany us, and their expectations for us will be our eternal motivation.

Since they love us, they certainly don't want us to be willing to fall, so in the face of the suffering of losing our loved ones and wiping away our tears, let's move forward.

03: Survive the pain of lost love

Lost love, may be love and can not be inferior, may also be the regret after the loss, but no matter what, we can only truly understand what love is and how to love a person after surviving the pain of lost love.

It is very normal to divide and merge in love, but not all lost love is because of not loving, some people are separated only because they do not know how to manage a relationship, and some people are separated because they meet a person who does not know how to manage feelings, so the affection becomes thinner, the love becomes weaker, and the two hearts are getting farther and farther apart.

Zhang Ailing once said: "Meeting the right person at the right time is happiness; meeting the wrong person at the right time is sadness; meeting the right person at the wrong time is sighing; encountering the wrong person at the wrong time is helpless." ”

Not all people are so lucky that they can meet the right person when they first meet, and some people can only end up with a dismal ending.

In this life, the suffering of lost love, no one can avoid, survive the past, good days will come.

Maybe it's someone who thought they could spend the rest of their lives together and didn't expect to get off the bus halfway, but you have to understand that those who take the initiative to leave, no matter how stubbornly entangled you, they will still leave you.

Falling out of love does make us miserable, but it's also the only way to teach us how to face love.

After surviving the pain of lost love, you will truly understand the preciousness of loving and being loved, and for the rest of your life, love people who are worthy of love, and cherish hard-won love.

In this life, we will definitely encounter many painful things, and only after surviving can we see hope, and only after surviving can we regain a new life.

For the rest of your life, may you and I survive and persevere.

I am Aya, a warm-hearted emotional writer, and I am so fortunate to meet you in this life! Click a note, let's grow knowledge together!

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