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The high probability of being single is not accidental, and if you can't pass your own level, this zodiac sign will not meet true love

People and things that are not related to ourselves basically do not affect us, but people and things that are related to us will definitely have an impact on us.

The essence of this logic is the basis of human nature, in fact, standing at this point, we can think through many things.

For example, if you get along with a person you value a lot, and you have a need for him, then the big and small things in him, big and small emotions will affect you, and you can't help it.

And if this person is not very important in your heart, and you have no need for him, can he influence you? No way.

Even if there is an impact, the impact will be like a gust of wind, blowing past and disappearing.

Then, when a person changes from important to unimportant in his mind, or from unimportant to important, your psychological tone will change.

You may not be aware of this when the change first occurs, but your state will tell you.

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The concept of true love in Capricorn is actually relatively clear compared to other zodiac signs, but there are not many people who can accept it, in other words, the majority of people misinterpret or do not understand the concept of true love in Capricorn.

Capricorn love may not need a reason, but Capricorn love must need a reason.

As the last earth sign, Capricorn is also a realistic logic when considering feelings, and liking this kind of emotion is not included in Capricorn's realistic logic.

The realistic logic of Capricorn can be understood in this way, responsibility, direction, future, concrete life.

Therefore, Capricorn's own sense of security also comes from the perspective of responsibility, direction, future and specific life.

If they can all develop for the better, within their own planning, and be stable, Capricorn will have a sense of security, and vice versa.

This inner psychological tone predestins Capricorn to need control, or to be controlled.

To put it simply, Capricorn will willingly stay in the people and feelings that he can control, not in the people and feelings that he cannot control.

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Control or being controlled is related to the actual needs of Capricorn, if Capricorn needs material, then the sense of security behind the control is the proportion of material, if Capricorn needs power, then behind the sense of security is also the proportion of power.

So there is also a real problem here, if the needs of Capricorn are within a reasonable range, the probability of being satisfied will be higher.

And if Capricorn's needs are not within the reasonable range, that is to say, beyond his own basis of reality, biased towards his own ambitions and desires.

In this case, the needs of Capricorn, the probability that Capricorn's plan can be achieved will be greatly reduced.

Their thoughts and thoughts revolve around their own needs, and the more they grow, the more so they become.

So in the future, it is inevitable that something will appear in the future: "When they have their own needs, or can accomplish their own goals, then they will not need others." ”

In fact, everyone can also see this kind of thing around themselves, when Capricorn becomes more and more mature, the probability of being single will become higher and higher, regardless of gender.

It's not that they can't find the right person, but that they have been able to complete various needs and goals from the perspective of life, and the needs of the other half are dispensable.

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Of course, there are other reasons for this to happen, capricorn's temper is typical of the earth sign's temper, holding back, stubborn, or cold war, not explaining or expressing.

When Capricorns are with people, they express their hearts and the position of others in their hearts by what they do, by what they give, and they expect others to see their inner thoughts through these things.

To see is to be able to see, not to understand.

Another real problem is that Capricorns' thinking is more conservative and traditional, because their understanding of rules is more stable, so most of the people and things they can accept in their feelings must conform to the rules in their own heads.

Therefore, the probability of machismo of Capricorn men is relatively high, and the self-awareness of Capricorn girls is also relatively strong.

This is a fixed concept, and change is impossible to become.

We can combine these points to derive what kind of state Capricorn will be when getting along with people and falling in love.

First of all, when Capricorn gets along with people, the other party can see their self, and they can also see their temper, and it is impossible to get along without contradictions, especially with Capricorn.

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Then when some problems or contradictions occur, Capricorn's solution is to start from oneself, from one's own point of view, if you feel that the other party does not understand his thoughts, it will basically hold back, or the cold war without words.

These problems are especially common in the early feelings of Capricorn, which is also the most painful stage of Capricorn, and if some problems are not dealt with well in this stage, the possibility of being abandoned is very high.

Being abandoned, or suffering, this kind of thing will become a Capricorn knot, and eventually Capricorn will define the reason for separation as inappropriate, and then many years will not forget.

Or you can understand it like this:

Capricorn's favorite person is the one who gives him pain, and the more he suffers, the more he remembers his previous past, and his thoughts contain self-blame, contain helplessness, and contain what he wants to do in the future.

When reason prevails, Capricorn will not think so much, and the emergence of reason means that Capricorn has figured out the root cause of the problem, or what he needs to answer to these questions.

The result is obvious, the more experienced, the more rational Capricorn is, and the more reason there is, the less emotional components there are.

Therefore, the difficult Capricorn that people often say is not a Capricorn who has no experience, but a Capricorn who has experienced a lot.

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It is a very challenging thing to get comfortable with Capricorns who have experienced a lot, they do not change their hearts, you can not know what they are thinking, you can not see their emotional changes, often a constant face.

So in this case, how does Capricorn's true love appear, and what can happen when it appears?

Capricorn can't pass this level of himself, and he won't meet true love.

Capricorn people divide life, reality, future, feelings, goals, etc. very clearly, there will be no confusion, it is impossible to say that a Capricorn likes you, but you are not suitable, he will still be with you.

In the same way, when Capricorn feels that he is very suitable for you, the conditions, the work, the pace of life, whatever, then he will not be separated from you casually, unless he has a new goal.

In the end, it is actually a good thing not to be controlled by Capricorn, the stronger you are, the more difficult it is to control, the more Capricorn will have emotions, and having emotions will lead to emotional awareness.

Because he needs you, and when he doesn't need you, it just shows that his needs for you, or that you may be low in one direction, so that he won't waste too much time on you.

The more mature The More Stable Capricorns are, but the more mature Capricorns have lower needs for others and the weaker the various desires, so it is no accident that the odds of being single are high.

Capricorn's favorite person is actually himself, and Capricorn feels that the person who can rely on and rely on him the most will only be himself, especially the experienced Capricorn.

Therefore, the person who can accept Capricorn, the person who understands Capricorn, the person who can walk in the same direction with him, is the most suitable for Capricorn.

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