Be human, don't push too hard

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Life is like flying a kite, our purpose is the same, that is, to fly higher, we are constantly working hard for this goal all our lives, but often because of too much force and lead to the opposite of the result.

When flying kites, novices often grasp the scale poorly, do not know how to retract and release freely, and pull the line tightly, thinking that they can fly higher, but they do not know that too much force will not be conducive to its high flight.

Being a person is the same, when doing a thing, you often use too much force, pour all your efforts into it, and in the end you will hit your head and bleed.

When a person tightens the string too tightly, it is easy to break, and when you are trying your best to chase something, it is likely that instead of getting a good ending, you will hurt yourself.

Life ups and downs, along the way we will encounter a lot of twists and turns, there are too many unhappy and unsatisfactory, will not go well, we need to mediate ourselves, learn to go with the flow, is the growth of the subject of our teaching.

Being a person needs to be self-motivated, you need to have upward tension, constantly strive to chase a higher level of life, pursue your inner yearning, but remember not to work too hard, to properly loosen your own constraints, tension and moderation, is the best way of life.

Lover, don't push too hard, don't love too much

Lovers, remember not to push too hard, do not love too full, love too much will make love deteriorate, but also indirectly push each other away.

Women are too easy to lose their measure and scale in love, of course, I admit that the starting point is because of love, but invisibly push love to decline.

A girlfriend broke up with her boyfriend the other day because men couldn't stand her excessive clinginess and control.

Girlfriends are the kind of people who use too much force in love, every time as long as they are put into love, after completely falling in love with a person, they will completely lose themselves, put all their energy into love, and see each other too tightly, so that finally let each other exhaust and finally choose to let go.

She monitors the man's life in all directions, wants to be with him all the time, and in the time of separation, she will always constantly send messages on video, asking him to message for seconds, reporting everything in detail, originally intending to make him closer to her, but finally accelerating his distance.

Don't love too hard, don't love too much, the water is overflowing, too much force will make things go to the other extreme. Love needs free breathing space, give each other a little more distance, give each other a little independent space, can make his love for you deeper.

Life, don't push too hard, don't stretch too tightly

To be a person, we should have a direction and a goal, and we must have ambition, so that we can stimulate a steady stream of motivation and continue to work hard towards the life we want.

If you just make a salted fish, settle for the status quo, and live a life of mediocrity, it is quite boring, and when you look back on this life, you will feel very empty, and there is nothing worth remembering.

Life always has to have hope to be able to support us through the long and dull years, and people who consume time at will are doomed to live a bland and without ripples.

I admire people who have goals, who know what they should do at what stage, who are extremely disciplined, who are able to take responsibility for their own lives and live every day to the fullest.

But people who are too hard and too hard may let themselves go to the other extreme, on the one hand, they may hurt their bodies because they are too tight, and on the other hand, they may also do something that hurts others because they are too concerned about the final outcome.

Because there are not a few people who work overtime and stay up late to die suddenly, people who have their bodies broken because they are too hard are everywhere, and it is inevitable that they will get some things in a way that damages the body.

Chun Yan in "The World of Man" is a person who uses too much force, she is very smart and hardworking, mixing best among friends, but in the end, because of too much force, she did something to hurt her friends and lost her most precious friendship.

Don't stretch too tightly, loosen yourself properly, and don't push too hard so you don't miss something.

Don't pay too much attention to what you can't get, and learn to let go

When we pursue something, we often put ourselves into a depressed state because we look too hard, with the intention of wanting to get more, but in the end we don't even have the most basic happiness.

Life is like this, it is impossible to do everything as expected, many times even if you pay more and invest more energy, you will not get a satisfactory result in the end.

Love, career, money, everyone wants to have, but not everyone has such luck. Love and can't, career is not smooth, life is difficult to these are often there, if you work hard but still do not achieve your wishes, then please let yourself go, do not be grumpy.

Sometimes people do have to confess their fate, and there is a saying that "sometimes there must be in fate, and there is no time to demand in fate." There are many people who attribute the unattainable life to fate because they have not tried, and such a negative attitude is not possible, but if you really pursue it hard and still don't get it, don't care too much.

Some things are destined not to belong to you, even if you are angry, it will not help, in the end it can only make your whole state fall into a haze, it is better to let go completely.

Having worked hard, the rest is left to Providence, and if you get joy in your heart, if you don't get it, you will start over, and it is most important to be happy yourself.

Calm your mind and learn to go with the flow

People live, the mentality is the most important, have a good mentality, life will be smooth.

Many times, we artificially amplify some setbacks, in fact, it is not a big deal, as long as the mentality is balanced, you will feel that everything that happens is just a drizzle, not enough to hang your teeth.

People who live too hard, the whole person will be very tense, unable to enjoy life, running at high speed like a top, unable to accept the gains and losses of life, and finally in the tangled at the same time, but also lost a lot of color.

Some things can be obtained through human beings, some things are not something we can control, and after doing our best, the rest will be resigned to fate.

Calm your mind, learn to go with the flow, the most rare thing in life is to have a clear conscience, as long as you are at ease, the rest is not important.

Be a person, don't push too hard, relax a little properly, and you will live a relaxed and happy life.