The word love is fascinating.
In the age of love, everyone has their hearts and minds, hoping to hold hands and have a relationship.
However, when fate appears, it cannot be seen or touched.
Until one day, the seeds of love germinate, we can realize that there is already a person in the depths of our hearts. The other party may not be good enough, but it is unique to himself.
When subconsciously, there is the idea of talking about love, everyone will understand what true love is.
The two people began to talk happily, and gradually changed from good feelings to dependence. In the next time, the two sides will involuntarily rush to each other, only hoping that they can spend the rest of their long lives holding hands.
There is a chance to meet, there is a love to stay.
Even if there is an unexpected challenge in the future time, two people can love without hesitation, and such feelings are often the best state of fate.
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If you have a chance to meet, you still need to grasp it.
Fate is only the first step in love.
For people with connections, even if the mountains are high and the road is far away, they will have the opportunity to meet each other.
Once you meet, you only need an opportunity to rub out the spark of emotion. For example, a chance encounter, two eye contact, three words and two words of communication, will make the two sides closer.
However, friends should recognize one fact:
Encounter, just let love have a chance to germinate.
If you want to successfully hold hands and succeed, from now on as a couple, in the next time, both people will face invisible tests and need to make a move to each other.
If each other chooses to stagnate, the hope of holding hands will be pinned on the other.
Obviously, there is a good chance that the two people will face a disappointing ending. After all, when talking about love, there always needs to be someone who bravely stands up and conveys the admiration of the heart.
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Loving you can't be hidden.
In the expression of emotions, everyone is different.
From the perspective of both sexes, both men and women will have different personality characteristics.
When expressing love, men may express their chests and appear to be grinning, but more often, girls are subtle and introverted. Even if there are tens of millions of tender feelings in the heart, women often do not express it bluntly.
Of course, there will also be some boys who dare not boldly show love.
From this point of view, even some friends have the idea of expressing love. But due to the influence of personality, they may not be able to boldly say the three words "I love you" in a straightforward way.
So, from the perspective of the other side, how to grasp the signal of love?
Someone put it this way:
Love, like snot and tears, cannot be hidden.
Actually, why not? From the perspective of love psychology, if we don't love, we will try to stick to the sense of boundaries and maintain a suitable distance from other people. If you fall in love, it is easy to ignore these boundaries, and you will also send a signal of admiration through your subconscious.
Therefore, everyone should know that a person who loves you is reflected in the "subconscious". If you want to complete love, you may wish to grasp many details and truly understand the psychological state of the other party, which will help grasp the direction of fate.
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Care, embodied in words.
In interpersonal communication, how to judge the relationship between two people?
Usually, if each other is just an ordinary relationship, then when interacting, the tone is often calm, or there will be less temperature.
And those who admire each other together, but the language will carry a temperature.
Everyone wants to meet people who are genuine about themselves. In fact, whether a person loves you or not will be reflected through his subconscious, and this subconscious will often flow out of the person's words.
When communicating with you, if a person seems to be very patient, everything will follow you.
In fact, these words can reflect his concern and protection for you. Because you have your place in your heart, this person will be patient and choose to be gentle with you.
And the person who doesn't love you, why should he deliberately follow you? He will only maintain a certain rationality and treat you with an objective attitude, because he does not love, so no one will deliberately warm you.
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Affection, will be hidden in the eyes.
The eyes are the windows of the soul.
If you want to judge whether someone is intentional or not, you can find the answer through his eyes.
I once read the saying: "The eyes can talk".
In the world of emotions, smart people can easily read from the other person's eyes whether this person cares about themselves.
If you are a person, the look in your eyes is always cold.
Obviously, there is no place for you in the other person's heart. When you look at you, your eyes are full of tenderness, giving people a sense of affinity, and such a person is someone who cares about you.
In addition, the person who does not have you in his eyes, even if you stand by his side, he will turn a blind eye to you.
If someone truly loves you, even on a crowded street, he can easily capture your shadow. Because I have you in my heart, I have a keen perception of you.
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True love, manifested in a smile.
There are many kinds of smiles.
In interpersonal communication, everyone will make different smiles according to different occasions.
For example, we may keep smiling when dealing with insignificant people, but this smile is only a polite way, often not from the heart.
There is also a smile that is subconsciously driven and comes from the heart.
For example, if you are deeply emotional about someone, everyone will have the feeling of "smiling at first sight", which is often sincere and comfortable, and it cannot be hidden.
What is it like to meet a loved one?
Anyone who has loved knows that with the object of their affection, a feeling of happiness will arise spontaneously. The heart is happy, reflected in the expression, will show a warm smile. Therefore, if you want to judge whether someone is sincere or not, whether he really loves you, you can see by looking at his smile.
That kind of smile, often from the subconscious, is also a sign that you really love you.
In this world, the word "love" is the most torturous.
In the age of love, many friends have their hearts and minds, hoping to meet someone worth staying with.
But on the way to growing up, everyone is used to wearing a mask to show people. In this case, in order to judge whether a person is sincere or not, we need to remain rational and have the ability and skill to recognize people.
If it is important to see through a person if you want to achieve love, how do you do it?
A person who loves you, "subconsciously" often does not lie.
If friends want to grasp the direction of emotions and seize the fate that truly belongs to you, you may wish to see through each other's subconscious in the intersex interaction and cherish the person who truly loves you.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.